Women And Her Sexuality

Women And Her Sexuality

A woman's sexuality is full of emotions, while a man can have orgasms without emotions.
Even if a woman thinks to fulfill the desire of a man as a mere necessity, she will be emotional. In the beginning and not right in the end. Therefore, those who have experience of one night stand or extramarital relationships will have noticed that a woman becomes emotional after fulfilling her desire.


That's why such relationships, which are initially made for domestic purposes, later turn into big events. Any woman a man has an emotional connection with will have better sexual fulfillment, but mere emotional connection cannot keep him bound to a woman. But this connection binds the woman.


There are some psychological reasons, some social reasons and some things are in our DNA. Psychologically, according to the teachings of DNA, becoming a mother and giving birth to a child is the first task of a woman, because the only purpose of our genes is to give birth to human cells as many times as possible. So our genetic fit program starts preparing a human being for birth only after twelve or thirteen years. That is why the desire of lust arises and pleasure is associated with it, that is why man continues to do it because without any taste, man does not do any work!!


Like a man, a woman's body also starts getting ready for a child from the age of 13-14 and reaches its peak by the age of 19-21. But having a baby is not just a job, the birth cycle of a human child is not only shorter than that of most animals but also incomplete. Where the babies of other animals mature in a few hours or a few days, human babies take 10-12 years to develop.


Therefore, for the development of a human child, a woman needs a partner, who will be with her in every way during this period, especially the fulfillment of emotional needs.
Therefore, a woman's choice is not limited to mere sexual fulfillment at such a time, she needs a complete partner. Due to which the fulfillment of lust for a woman is not just the fulfillment of lust and reaches beyond it.

2 11

Most Helpful Guys

  • Yes but most girls in general are selfish people that only really care about themselves , A girl can give herself to her man and show him love and appreciation and stand by his side , get married and have babies etc. Everything she dreamed of but it’s still never good enough if her emotional connection with her husband doesn’t match up to what she wants , she eventually gets bored , and wants more than what she already has , she will start comparing her husband to other guys , start comparing her husband to her girlfriends’ husbands , looking for every flaw she can find in her husband to justify her selfish actions , Most girls’ do not know how to prioritize her relationship over friends and family and children , she tends to prioritize everyone else but him , most females are very volunerable to seeking validation from others , she gets off on drama and nonsense , She has a hard time accepting being wrong , Most girls always think they are right , She will latch onto another guy that she feels has more status and value then her husband does and easily be volunerable to spread her legs for him , seeking validation and emotional connection that she feels she isn’t receiving from her husband , cuz she doesn’t feel she is in the wrong , I am not saying all girls do this but a magority of them do , Most girls don’t value commitment like men do , Most men are very territorial over a girl he gives his heart to she will either accept it and understand that he is that way because he loves her and cares about her or she will think he is being insecure and doesn’t trust her not realizing her husband is just trying to get her to respect him the way he respects her , Most girls don’t see eye to eye with their partners because they are to concerned about what their friends say by seeking validation from people that shouldn’t matter what so ever

    • Lol spoken like a true child.

    • Yes to you do get woman like that but also no u still get toxic men that do the exact same, u can have a woman that wants to give this man the whole world and he wants to go around a fuck around with other woman to help his self esteem yes he can lay down with the woman he loves after he fucked around with someone else, but some woman actually have to be have some type of connection to even get any attention from a guy for example u sit in a restaurant a woman doesn't just randomly come over and get attention from you, you have to show some type of interest if it's an eye contact, or a smile or even some acknowledgement. by the way I might just be rambling so very sorry lol

    • I agree there are toxic men as well , that are selfish as well , that cheat on their partner’s that only think with their dicks and would pretty much stick their dick into a girl that gives him attention and makes him feel valued and appreciated when he already has a girl that values and appreciates him. Sadly this world is filled with selfish people that only really care about themselves , why so much cheating occurs , so yes I agree with you that both men and women can be selfish Pieces of shit , Why I no longer jump into relationships with girls’ because most people don’t really know what they want , they think they know but when push comes to shove they don’t. The only way love grows in a relationship is if both partner’s make each other their top priority , remove selfishness for each other , sacrifice for each other , u sweat and you can’t always be right and your partner is wrong , resist temptation for each other , If you can’t do those things for your partner , they will not be able to do it for you , it has to go both ways or it will not work. And the number 1 thing to keep a relationship together is to be honest with each other , Most people can not be honest period , They make excuses for their own selfish actions, because they can’t accept that they were wrong they always think they are right. I can only speak of my experiences of what I went though with girls’ and I have witnessed other people’s relationships that pretty much went through the same shit I went through , So all I can do for myself is to give what I want to receive , if a girl chooses to walk away from me , I let her go , I realized my own value and worth , To a point I can only choose to love someone that chooses to love me , I am far from perfect , I have made mistakes in my past , which I feel I learned from those mistakes and realized how selfish of a person I was being at those times, Learning to remove selfishness from yourself is not an easy thing to do because we all have

    • Show All
  • Women have a far greater cost investment in sex than men. It's women ho get pregnant, risk maternal mortality, raising the infant for at least a decade. Therefore, she's far more selective of sexual partner. Moreover, a woman has a short window of time to capitalize on her youth and beauty, traditionally (18-26) after that, for the rest of her life it's the consolidation phase. However, another thing must be mentioned here, that women's sexual strategy is actually dualistic, have a baby with the alpha male (good genetics) and pass it off as the child of a good provider (good father), this is the ideal and jackpot strategy.

    • Maternal mortality is almost non-existing in developed countries.

    • Women are getting married later than ever in history of mankind. Most mothers who give birth are in their 30s. So your shit talk about women only being able to get a man when she's 18 to 26 is complete BS.

    • @nastyb - Are you speaking for the world or just the western world? The recept report titled State of World Population by United Nations Population Fund states that half of the worlds women give birth at 15-17, second birth before they turn 20. You know most poeple live outside the western world.

    • Show All

Most Helpful Girls

  • I think you're quite naive. But that could just be that you're just 19 years old. As you get older , you will realize that the world is filled with people who do not care about you but only care about themselves. Most men would sexually take advantage of a woman if he knows he can get away with it.

    • An as if most women don't do the same and get away with it. You're acting like sex only benefits men

    • @Aiko_E_Lara Sex doesn't mean as much to women as it does to men

    • Maybe you can speak just for yourself. Because anyone can just project themselves two other men saying men don't care about sex as much. And it wouldn't also be the case that size matters to a lot of women.

    • Show All
  • Too many mass generalizations to take this seriously.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

2 24
  • The day I lost my virginity I was pissed I was upset because it sucked at least I thought it did she said it was great she had fun I thought it sucked and I thought I was going to hell

    For a whole day I thought about it why didn't suck she called me back over we did it again it sucked another day passes we do it again it sucked
    . Right before she's going back to school she was going to college she called me up wanted me to meet her on Saturday I said okay

    I had a couple days to think about it and I still couldn't figure it out I got there Saturday we started and by the time that I finished the time we finish I had figured it out.
    I decided to make it all about her I decided to become one with her and when I made it all about her there is an emotion that comes through you that is beautiful it is intense it is hot and from that day forward all the way to this day and I'm pretty old today LOL I still use and think about that day and I have made that day and every other day to this day 10 times better by just keep adapting inventing
    Learning new things every single time because without emotion you cannot become one with somebody and if you're not going to become one with somebody you might as well not even do it

    So I think you're talking about the two minute Men they could give a f****** care less they're selfish and all they care about is themselves anyway I can't be that person if I'm going to make love if I'm going to f*** somebody it's going to be the most beautiful thing ever and I'm not going to finish until it is and you have to do it with emotion

  • This overstates gender differences. It is true that women on average tend to be more emotional and bond more easily from sex, but it depends on the individual, too, and not only on their gender. It also depends on the background of the situation.

    For example, it is well known that some male customers may become attached to a female prostitute, but it rarely happens to the prostitute who remains professional about it.

    Even in a "friendship with benefits" if only one of the two falls on love it will be the woman in 80% of the cases, but the man in 20% of the cases.

    Personally, I only have sex in a long-term relationship and I get attached fast, so I could never do "friends with benefits".

    • Those males attached to prostitutes have no other options! They equate a "relationship" to just sex because they are lacking in all other areas of their life for SELF RESPECT, which is a necessity for a relationship. So yes, women get attached more it's even sprout up a new sexual term called "demisexual," people who only are sexually attracted to people they have emotional connection with. Of course, that's typically women, as they need an emotional connection to really have a bond and strong sexual connection and it's obvious why. Due to evolution women must bond to the guy they will have kids with or the kid and her would be without a man

    • I'm aware that this trait helps a woman more in the struggle for life, but by this definition I must conclude that I'm demisexual, too. However, I have so far excluded that, as my sex drive has always been rather strong. Some say the demisexual is half way to asexual and that does not describe me at all. It's funny that I almost find an interesting label for myself when I've always just been a straight male at ease with his birth gender.

    • My girlfriend is demisexual, but has THE HIGHEST sex of any girl I've been with. I have sex with her over an hour and a half giving her multiple orgasms, then she just wants to F some more and I can't LOL. So maybe she is demi like you with a high sex drive, but I don't get 1 thing. One question to you is have you ever thought about having a "hoe phase" of just having lots of sex? AND wouldn't that exclude you from being demisexual. My girlfriend said she thought about doing a hoe phase for some reason but also she probably wouldn't have gone through with it but it's probably just because she's shy. Before me she would masturbate to gloryhole porn which really does lean towards a case that demisexuality is real because the guys are pretty much anonymous, a seperation of emotional connection and sexual desire. So perhaps emotional romantic attraction and sexual attraction can be completely separate for a demisexual but then that begs the question is demisexuality real? Because if you can have sex without an emotional connection doesn't that just mean you're a regular sex fiend like anyone else? So yeah, I also have problems rectifiying what demisexuality is when my girlfriend says she is but would entertain the possibility of a hoe phase (before she met me). Now she says she's in love and we have lots of sex, but I still wonder if she's really "demisexual" and is that "emotional connection" reserved for me or could she easily find some other guy/guys and have a quick supposedly "emotional connection" and enter a hoe phase for real!

    • Show All
  • Very well written and in general that's a good summary of exactly what occurs.

  • Some truth. And whose the better mate to ensure survival of offspring:


    The powerful strong soldier with big muscles…. Hottttr!
    Or the short dorky congressman that controls armies with his words and can get the soldier killed? Or the man with a great heart?


    Its not so simple … women have to make tough choices

  • What you say is true. I have read MANY books on the subject. The first 2 years of any relationship is mostly lust. That’s the selfish genes way to reproduce. We need love in the equation to take care of the mother while the mother takes care of the baby after the 2 years of lust. That’s why you see so many breakups after the 2 year mark.

  • the first sentence of contrast was such a turn off even if true badly presented and worse i just read a mytake about vibrators... like "man can have orgasms without emotions" but women differ. 🙄

  • Women don't reach their sexual prime till they are in their 30s. Most women in their 20s don't desire sexual activity as much because they haven't reached their prime yet.

  • I guess you've never seen porn! LOADS of women, there, having emotionless sex!!

    • They do it for money and because they are messed up in the head

    • @hardboiledink Right, NONE of them do it because they love to fuck!! Got it!

  • Another sexist Mytake

  • Agree

  • Very good information about women's sexuality, thank you for your efforts.

  • Very well said 💃

  • I think you have a lot of insight for you age and agree with almost everything you wrote. I am encouraged that someone of your generation has this view as it goes against the propaganda that you are being bombarded with from political shills.

    You are on the right track.

  • Uhhh a woman can definitely have an orgasm without emotions. Honestly, come to me and I will prove it to you.

    But yeah, sex is vastly different for men and women.. so, guys and gals... talk to each other.

    And honestly, I'd suggest. If you cannot talk to a person about sex and sexual acts comfortably... then don't have sex with them.

  • That's not true. I never once had an orgasm without emotions.

  • Which is why women who have many sexual partners destroy their ability to bond with one man.

  • I can't even get through the question

  • This is based on either opinion or flawed understanding. Not all men are emotionally unattached that is a myth. And the men that are emotionally unattached usually end up with women that are emotionally unattached IE the one night stand. I know from my own experience the information your provided isn't accurate isn't true.

  • No. I personally can't have good sex without a good emotional connection and I'm a guy so this is wrong

  • Interesting mytake.

  • Show More (6)