Women, is this right of me to do? What would you do or feel if a man did this to you?

[Anonymous]

So, I'm thinking about hooking up with this Miami model and dancer that I matched with on Tinder.

Got her Snapchat and started going back and forth with her.

We live quite close to one another.

I'm almost sure I can meet up with her and have sex in the near future based on what's she's told me.

So, I implied about hooking up and she was like "stick around and find out 😈"

We're both really chill with one another and have sent some explicit stuff back and forth.

Now the thing is, after asking how many men she's been with, she told me she's lost count and puts it in the hundreds.

Some clues about her didn't surprise me when she told me this

She even admits she's a slut and not ashamed

Now, if I have sex with her once, I won't ever want to talk to her again even though she's quite cool and nice.

But, I'm also not really the type to these types of things.
It seems cold, detached, empty, etc.

[Pleaznhim4me]

Can’t really sympathize with ya pal. She has been with hundreds and you are considering taking the risk of sleeping with her and then you know you are goin to never talk to her again. So much bad karma there. You are asking for trouble. You already know you should not sleep with her but you want permission so you can blame it on someone else. Your horny. Go beat off and call it a day. Just because she says she’s a whore doesn’t make it okay to treat her like one. Plus anyone who sleeps with a person who knows that person has been with tons of people has to be either desperate or exceedingly stupid to take that risk. There is pussy everywhere. Is you're health, life and possible paternity worth it?

[Asker]

All good points.

[TwistedGinger]

It’s hypocritical. That’s how men have Ben about this exact subject for centuries but we Tw slowly evolving passed it.




Being a slut is the obviously not a negative or something she views as looked Dow on. Who cares. She’s having fun. She’s actually being honest. When people te couple up, they have sex with their partner way more than 100/year. If she’s been single, then that’s her desires.




Just curious, why or how did you guys get on the subject of number of sexual partners?


That seems like a teenybopper high school girl question. 😝

Isn’t tinder specifically for finding hookups?


If you are just gonna have sex & that’s it. Let her know this is just a hook up. Don’t let her think this is the beginning of you guys dating.


That would be a better alternative!


Good luck!

[OlderAndWiser]

What you are saying is that this might be fun and enjoyable, but there will probably be long term consequences for your self-esteem because this is not the kind of thing that you normally do and doing this may change the way you view yourself. Right?

[Asker]

Yeah, pretty much

[msc545]

Don't bother. You have so many objections to who and what she is you will not have a good time. Masturbation would be better for you in this instance.

[Asker]

Probably

[musicbrain5]

Then don’t bother sleeping with her. I won’t bother with a guy who’s been with a hundred women so I don’t see anything wrong with ditching someone over that.

[Jamie05rhs]

@EmbraceThePain I see you deleted my comment because you were butthurt. I think I'm going to stop following you. I don't want to see your questions anymore.

[Asker]

Well, I did say "women" @Jamie05rhs Also, it seemed more like an attack or slap in the face rather than constructive criticism For example, check out the comment from @OlderAndWiser Seems more neutral and less hostile. Yours seemed somewhat passive hostile

[Jamie05rhs]

@EmbraceThePain I thought it was very constructive.

[Jamie05rhs]

And how do you know that I don't identify as a woman?

[Jamie05rhs]

(JK lol 😝 )

[Jamie05rhs]

But yeah, I am kind of hostile, I admit. But so are your drill instructors. So I figured you'd be used to it. I didn't think it would bother you that much.

[Asker]

Lmfao my drill instructors? I was helping my mom with her house doing some work out in the sun. Hours Over 100 F I wanted to drink some water and take a break My mom said "I thought you were infantry? Didn't you train a lot outside in the field." I said "yeah" and walked past her to take my break Lol

[Jamie05rhs]

Hahaha. That's funny.

[musicbrain5]

So nobody here is actually commenting on what I said? Take it to pm then.

[Jamie05rhs]

@musicbrain5 I apologize.

[musicbrain5]

@Jamie05rhs It’s okay! It just bugs me that I can’t see what was deleted, lol. Maybe the admins will put it back up.

[Jamie05rhs]

@musicbrain5 Ask @EmbraceThePain if it's okay if we restore the comment that he deleted. Lol 😂

[musicbrain5]

@Jamie05rhs was it your comment? I think only admins can restore deleted comments.

[Asker]

Yeah, if it can be restored, I'm all for it. Restore it

[Asker]

@musicbrain5 To answer your post, have you ever felt sexually attracted to a man who has been with hundreds of women? If so, have you ever been in a position where you can almost certainly have sex with him? Have you ever been tempted this way? Or did the fact that a man has been with so many women is just a complete turn off and nothing will get you to sleep with him no matter what

[musicbrain5]

No, I have never been attracted to anyone that sleeps around like that, because that’s simply not an attractive quality that I would be looking for in someone.

[Asker]

@musicbrain5 Got you. I think for more men, we can detach the person from their body. So, you can hate a woman, actually hate her, and yet have sex with her if you're horny enough. I'm sure SOME women can do this, but it is much more characteristic for males to be this way than women For women, she can like you a lot, but certain personality issues can really ruin it for you permanently. For men, they just detach body and personality. Do you agree?

[dustybiker]

You aren’t shocking her. Guaranteed she is already more than aware you are this way. She’s a grown woman with her own choices.

[wittymilf]

Why would you never talk to her again?

[Asker]

Basically, my update

[wittymilf]

Why do you only lust her?

[Asker]

Update again lol

[wittymilf]

So… you feel that’s it’s not ok for her to have sex out of convenience and horniness… so you just want to have sex with her out of convenience and horniness. 😂😂🤔 I mean can you see the irony?

[Asker]

Okay, I perhaps do lol. But, hundreds of men? That's more than a lot, almost unbelievable if you think about one person and then a hundred people next to them.

[wittymilf]

Maybe the temptation was their due to physical attraction but she just didn’t see herself going long term with any of them 😂😂

[wittymilf]

Also! Maybe she’s just testing to see if you’re open minded, and she doesn’t really want to tell you! I don’t like telling people I’ve only slept with one guy

[Asker]

Well, the thing is, I pretended to be open-minded and accepting. Really though, not so much. At least not as much as I was letting out to be with the messages I was sending her.

[Asker]

Why don't you like telling people you've only slept with one guy? As opposed to what? Hundreds? Lol I don't see an issue with the former, but the latter? It seems more controversial and potentially problematic. I don't think guys see a woman they like and wished she's been with more men. It's usually the reverse.

[wittymilf]

You know what, it sounds like she’s just playing you for sex. She doesn’t want a relationship she just wants to bang you and move on. Don’t worry for her, worry for you 😂😂

[wittymilf]

People kinda assume there’s something wrong with you if you’ve only had one sexual partner

[Asker]

Maybe you're right lol

[wittymilf]

🥰 I think the hundred guy before you would also agree I may be right.

[Asker]

I don't know who you've been hanging around with, but I don't know where you got that idea. To me, men want less partners for their woman to have. It's a purity/paternity thing, biological For women? I actually don't really know. I've seen back and forth I've heard women say it's attractive for a man to be with a lot of women, like pre selection thing. If other women like you, it makes her like you. I've also heard women call men "man whores" and "players."

[wittymilf]

I personally don’t think I care what others do. As long as I’m happy with my own behaviour they can do whatever they like if it makes them happy. Sometimes people who are sleeping with a lot of people aren’t doing it ve they’re happy though, and that’s sad.

[Asker]

There's a lot of scientific evidence suggesting such people are not happy. Could be suffering from self esteem issues, depression, drug abuse, absent parents, etc. I don't think it's "simply liking sex"

[wittymilf]

Ok so why are you going to do it?

[Asker]

I'm probably not going to

[wittymilf]

This has been quite the conversation 🤔 I enjoyed it, it’s been deep and yet light hearted.

[Asker]

Are you being sarcastic? I can't make out with the 🤔

[wittymilf]

Oh nope, I’m from New Zealander. For some reason people always think I’m being sarcastic 😂😂

[Asker]

Lol okay. It was the emoji that kind of confused me

[slatyb]

What do you want?

[jlee99]

What if the roles were reversed? What if you had sex with over 100 women, would you consider yourself a slut and not worthy of a relationship with a person with fewer sexual partners?

[Part2603]

What do you mean? What if men could get pregnant?

[Msputiton]

Tbh, i see it as cowardly. You telling us how you feel about a potential hookup, and your intentions instead of speaking to her about it.

We ain't the one you need to ask this to.

Tell her your intentions and if she cool wit do it, and if not🤷🏾‍♀️

[Part2603]

What's the question? Obviously fuck the hot model. That's what she's for.

[Part2603]

If I can get serious for a minute. You should never hold yourself to a higher standard than other people hold themselves to.

[exitseven]

you might never get the chance again so what the heck. Go for it.

[Ninania]

You should see a therapist.

[CubaPirate]

Just bang her then take it from there

[Asker]

Lmao