Women Love a Sexual Challenge

[Apope16]

There is a very distinct conclusion that I have come to. It is really something that has blown my mind as of late.

Women view a man's sexuality timidity as a form of conquest in the same way that men view virgins as a conquest. Women on the prowl are beastly cougars.

I have some unique traits sexually. Unlike most men, I do not like blow jobs. I have never in my life had an orgasm when given a blow job. I also do not like doggystyle. I have never orgasm' in doggystyle position. What is fascinating is when I tell this to a new female sexual companion they have an INTENSE reaction.

The response I typically get is "Well, my blow jobs are fuckin amazing. No girl can suck a dick like I can." And regarding doggy style they likewise see it as a challenge. The will use it as a challenge to practice.

Its odd. All that I am doing is expressing a preference or maybe a vulnerability. Yet, women get intense and practically throw my clothes off. A dominant instinct kicks in. Pretty soon they are trying to see if they can CHANGE you. Does that sound familar? A woman wanting to change you? A woman wanting to fix you? A woman wanting to help you?

I don't think it is a bad thing. I think the more women try to experiment with turning me on in certain sexual positions I do get used to it and enjoy it more. But it is shocking to see their reaction. Fellas, the best way to get a lady dominant and really working hard in bed when you first start having sex...tell a woman how something has never made you orgasm. They will go nuts and work on it with intensity and passion.

[LittleTurtleDuck]

All I read is: "I had this experience with some woman, so all of them will be this way. Also a tip: lie! It will get you laid."

Like sure, if it is true that you don't orgasm from something you can say so. And yes some woman will try their best to make you orgasm that way anyway.
But saying it regardless of it being the truth and expecting it to work with every woman? No, please don't..

[Apope16]

I knew that would be the response. I have dated.. i'd say. 50 women or so. Out of the ones I have had sex with all of them have been that way. Its not bad. they are respectful. But it is an observation.

[4eyes2mouths]

50 woman? Why on earth you would put yourself through all of that?

[LittleTurtleDuck]

50 is still not even 1% of the entire world population of woman.. So nah, I get that you experienced this, good for you, don't get me wrong. But the "advice" you give based on that experience is just not flying for me.. If it would have been an "this is what I experienced and I like it" I would not have commented. But you make it sound like every woman is like that and that this tip will always work, wich is just not true.

[4eyes2mouths]

Not sure why you would bring up the fact it's not even 1%... that really doesn't matter. It's still a lot for dating.

[LittleTurtleDuck]

Why I bring it up is because he makes it sounds like all women (100%) are like this when it is impossible for him to know that based on his experiences (less than 1% of all women) I did not bring it up to say that it is not a lot of women.

[LittleTurtleDuck]

Also it was not directed at you comment but more to his...

[Apope16]

Your comment is funny. You can't even conduct a poll that includes 1% of the world's female population. Not a scientific study either. Can we not all simply embrace conclusions about the sexes in a philosophical manner? Or at least a fun loving and jovial manner when it comes to observations? I have made in the past a post about how women on the whole or "generally" cannot study a conclusion from an indirect perspective. It has been my observation that women on the whole take things personally. That they can neither debate a general subject without saying "well for me..." or "not all women.." and so forth. The matters of the female sex in relation to observations made by men are met with hostility almost always. Not because they strongly disagree, but rather in a territorial way in defense of all women. It is quite funny because women have no problem saying "men do this" or "men do that"... but when a man says it about women they become hostile. Men are not like that in general. I see that men can look at politics or general observations about the sexes from a distant frame of mind. They do not take things personally. For example, I believe that most men on these dating apps are rather dull witted and full of brevity when speaking to them. I certainly would conclude that men are extremely horny, ready to fuck, and think about sex every 7 seconds. Now, such a conclusion of course has exceptions. But I am not offended by such statements. The problem with a "Karen" like the person who has commented is they are so full of "exceptions" to the rule that they simply have no values and no conclusions to speak of about the world. Because if as she projects, the world is full of gray without a decided good or evil, right or wrong, or general consensus... well... I would just say... it says more about who she is than who I am. I see the world in spectrum of color rather than the dullness of gray or uncertainty.

[Yaaten]

"I see that men can look at politics or general observations about the sexes from a distant frame of mind. They do not take things personally." That simply isn't the case, and since we're discussing personal views and perspectives here, I can tell you from my own experiences that men are just as irrational, emotional, defensive and easily offended as the most rabid of female, leftist, SJW feminists. The supposed "rationality" and level-headedness of the male sex is a myth. You see, it's easy to make simplistic generalisations about an entire category of people, to lump them all in the same group, but life - real life - isn't so clear-cut and tidy, with neat little boundaries differentiating "us" from "them". What you've presented here is what's known as anecdotal evidence, and it simply doesn't count. For a true, fair and impartial assessment of the situation as it actually is, would require a much larger unbiased sample, the absence of the expectation of certain results on your part, complete detachment, and an unwavering commitment to the truth, regardless of what that truth may turn out to be. I see none of that here.

[Yaaten]

If you really have dated 50 women, and you're not just saying that due to feelings of inadequacy, then you should ask yourself why so many women apparently can't stand you. Is it more likely the case that the fault lies with 50 women, or... you. Which of the two possibilities are more likely? Self-examination leading to self-awareness is what you need, judging from what I see here.

[spartan55]

Every woman claims to give Award Winning blowjobs... my, research concludes otherwise.

[cmatt1633]

yea no teeth my god thats the worst

[zeitgeist057]

DM me to set up an appointment XD

[Knighted2170]

I can't fully agree.

It may work with some. A few might even find it intriguing, but not enough to have sex.

Overall, I find it unfair to lump all women into a single category because of a few successes.

It's like some of my posts have been misinterpreted as "all women become highly aroused and passionate when they are able to share their desires." It's not true. It's only those who feel comfortable enough and confident enough to do so. Even then there are other factors that play into it in order for that to happen.

To be honest, this sounds like something like out of a PUA website or course. It may not be, but that's what it sounds like to me.

[Apope16]

Well, for me it was not a "line". I dont like blowjobs. It is an observation. But what was the response that women have had with you when you said you didn't like blowjobs? DId they view it as some type of challenge? or did they accept that you didn't like them and act at peace with it?

[Knighted2170]

Well, I never mentioned BJ's in my reply. I just said I thought it was unfair to categorize all women because of a few successes. I am straight forward and honest with the women about what I am looking for. If I let them know something doesn't work for me or I'm not into something I get one of two responses. They either ask me what to do to make it better. Or two, they respect that it's not for me. I haven't had a woman "act" at peace with anything.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Interesting

[Gwenhwyfar]

No one has ever told me this but if they did I would not react that way. I’d be like “Okay we’ll just do something else instead.” But I’m relatively passive compared to other girls.

[Yaaten]

"Does that sound familiar?"
No, it doesn't actually. What you've done here is take a small (very small) sample of women that you yourself have known personally, used the experiences you had with them and, based upon this limited experience, extrapolated from this to come to a premature and false conclusion about all women. It's a basic mistake that a lot of people make, and which they usually do not learn from.

[hi_it_is_me123]

I only love virgins. Bye.

[hi_it_is_me123]

I dont read your take thougg

[bannacookies]

Eh, nah.

[Whtevernever]

This is written by someone who watches far too much porn.

[Apope16]

Thanks. I take pride in watching porn. I am not ashamed of it. I think you should watch more.

[bulletbob555]

Twice I heard I'll give you the blow job of your life. I've got to change my line cause I've said Really cause I've had some pretty good blow jobs. Must not be the thing to say cause neither one proved it

[jimmy2]

Lol sounds good

[Anonymous]

Thanks for sharing your experience. But that's all it is... your limited experience.

[Apope16]

So. Who cares? Have you done the same thing? Have you told a lady that you weren't to fond of blow jobs? If so... what was her reaction? I find that most people commenting have not actually been in my circumstance to actually make a judgment.

[Anonymous]

No that one works if you're tall, v good looking, have a big dick etc. Looking the way I do and telling a woman that I've never gotten an orgasm from ANYTHING except masturbation elicits nothing but a shrug and a thumbs up.

[Apope16]

Well I do have a big dick. But I am curious. if you were more specific. say you said you like all matters of sex just not a blowjob. watch how a woman you are with sexually for the first time reacts and report back to me.

[Opinion Owner]

I've said that about vaginal sex, which I never find stimulating. She said okay cool let's not do it then. I don't think your theory works