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Women STOP Claiming You Are "As Horny or Hornier" Than Men. NO, YOU AREN'T. It's Insulting To Claim Otherwise.

Women STOP Claiming You Are As Horny or Hornier Than Men. NO, YOU ARENT. Its Insulting To Claim Otherwise.
Women STOP Claiming You Are As Horny or Hornier Than Men. NO, YOU ARENT. Its Insulting To Claim Otherwise.
Women STOP Claiming You Are As Horny or Hornier Than Men. NO, YOU ARENT. Its Insulting To Claim Otherwise.

No, women are NOT "as horny or hornier than men." At all. In any capacity. In any universe. STOP SAYING IT.

I'm SO sick of hearing this stupid bullsh*t. There are no such thing as femcels. There's pretty much no such thing as male escorts and prostitutes. Women don't get lonely for any reason, EVER. Women don't develop depression for feeling lonely and unloved. Women don't go out on Saturday nights just looking for guys to f*ck at the bar or club. Women are never clit-shamed or have their genitals or sexual performance negatively talked about amongst a group of gossipy men.

You have no idea how f*cking insulting it is to hear women put out this giant crock of sh*t that they're "just as horny as men, if not more so" when women do nothing but dangle and bait their sexuality over men, 24/7. It's extremely insulting and I'm not even the type looking for sex. I used to be the type of guy who wanted to get laid all the time though, so I know what it's like to be so horny, and to have no ways to take care of it because I happened to be born with the inability to reach six feet tall or be attractive enough to be the Chad in society.

Almost all of men's depression and self-esteem problems can boil down to a man's ability to get laid or not, with any difficulty in that implying he's a "worthless loser" in society. I'd even argue that sexuality and horniness is a man's greatest weakness. Even now, with my urges under control, I'd be infinitely more productive to the world if I was asexual and never had to think about another woman again.

So no. No, you aren't "as horny as men." Most women don't even seem like they even like sex. That it's just something they tolerate every now and then. And then you get some absolute C-U-Next-Tuesdays trying to claim that women are "as into, if not more into" sex as men are. It's so f*cking infuriating! Not even porn star women and female nymphomaniacs are into sex as much as the average man. The difference in libidos is night and day. It's pretty much hard-wired into a man's DNA to splooge as much semen as possible, for as long as he's healthy. That's how humanity got to nearly 8 billion people, to begin with.

So I REALLY wish women would shut the f*ck up with this complete horsesh*t about "being as horny or hornier than men" just in an attempt to once more try to "one-up" men. Modern women seem obsessed in trying to one-up men in literally everything positive nowadays. The whole "we can do anything you can do, even better" nonsense. This isn't even something you want to have over men.

You are NOT even 5% as horny as a typical healthy man, and the fact there are no female simps or male escorts proves it. Once we start seeing women simp and degrade themselves over male models and male porn stars on a regular basis, then we can talk.

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  • My boyfriend gave me some insight into how differently men think than women. 😭 He told me that typically if a man were to see me and think I was attractive, he's more than likely thinking about me naked and having sex with me, and will probably masturbate thinking about me later. Whereas I know for me personally, if I see an attractive man, I'll only think about him in the moment. I'll think "he's good looking" and then go on about my day and probably not have another thought about him. I only think about someone I'm emotionally attached to when I'm longing for someone or when I'm "in the mood". When I am with a person I love, I do enjoy sex a lot. 😂

    Overall thought yeah, I'd definitely agree that men are hornier than women, and think about sex more often than women. Now of course there are exceptions, there are individuals that have radically different minds from the norm. But for the majority I would agree that this is true.

    • Nah, I wouldn't masturbate off of some random women, I also think about them in the moment and move on, although I do have a weakness for big booties, so I might have that on my mind for a while..

    • Just the latest in the LOOOOOONNG list of the dishonesty in how women really think. LOL

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  • I was just thinking about that the other day and thinking about asking a question about it.. But I definitely agree.. It's a bit crazy for women to claim that their sexuality is as powerful or more than men's.. I do believe in certain situations their sexuality can be close to as powerful, and add to the fact that it's not as easy for them to orgasm then you have that "insatiable" appetite so many people talk about from.. But that's just women not knowing how powerful the male sexuality is..

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  • Are you a woman? If not, then how would you know what women think and do? Not all women are the same. I can say that I hear a lot of men say they are sick and tired of women generalizing, grouping, stereotyping men as all being the same but yet here you are doing the exact same thing about women. You’re not asking for other’s opinions, you’re complaining about your perspective on women when not all of what you said is true. You are saying stuff as if women can’t do this and can’t do that when again that’s not true. I would suggest not telling a woman she CAN’T or shouldn’t do something, she’ll just prove you wrong or determine you are not worth her time to prove it to.

    • You didn't read the post and just came here to complain. But okay.

    • Lmfao, you came to complain on GaG about what you THINK you know about women. I read the post and you clearly don’t know a darn thing about women. All YOU did was complain.

    • You have nothing to counter-argue with anything I posted and nothing to disprove. So your empty disagreement opinion is noted.

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  • I work in mental health. Saying that women don’t develop depression is the most ignorant thing I have ever read. Depression is a mental illness. It doesn’t stem from not getting laid enough.

    • This

    • Of course. But just like men, it may definitely stem from not getting laid at all.

    • He says depression coming from loneliness and sexusl frustration. Its a differdnce

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  • This is a broad statement, women aren’t hornier but they’ve become more vocal and comfortable about sex which makes it look like they are hornier… influencers like Kim Kardashian, musicians like cardi b, Latto, Meg the stallion etc they give off the impression they are hornier or just as horny as men, all the while they are either married or in a relationship while the fan bases run rampant in these streets

  • I get the impression this is an emotional expression, an outlet for frustration. I think it’s mostly healthy, it appears to me here though, that you believe you have to validate your emotions by writing under the guise of study and method. This muddies the water as you have limited your capacity to speak about how you feel by forcing yourself to back it up with evidence (and your emotions are valid, you don’t need facts to justify them), this also taints the evidence as it is so heavily biased it can’t be seen as objective. My opinion, separate the two, really explore your feelings without fear and just get to know what they are, but know that they are subjective and aren’t the entirety of who you are, rather one piece of who you are. Then if you are freed from the frustration and fuelled by curiosity, I’d suggest taking your question and running it through the scientific method, and referring to studies, meta-studies and articles to fully explore the wide spectrum of human sexuality and sociology.

  • First I will address the obvious... of course women are not ‘as horny or hornier than men’. Absolutely not. Yes, there are rare exceptions, but for the vast majority of women, the notion that their sexual appetite rivals the voracious sexual appetite of most men is utter nonsense. What women cannot fully grasp and comprehend is what it is like to be driven and consumed by the need for sex literally every day of your life. And how frustrating it can be to constantly have that completely natural masculine need denied, and then to be shamed for it on top of it all. As you correctly point out, the escort and porn industries are both totally supported by the irrepressible male sex drive. And there are too many examples to list of societal cues that leverage and rely on the near guarantee of male sexual interest. The phrase ‘sex sells’ really means ‘male sexual interest sells’. So yeah, the female sex drive is no match for the male sexual libido. Having made that clear, I have to say...

    This ‘My Take’ does come across as unnecessarily angry and combative. You seem almost enraged at women in general. I happen to love women. I find them alluring and fascinating to interact with. Do I wish they were more sexual, broadly speaking? For sure! But they can’t help the way they are wired! Just like we guys can’t. And yet, a guy has no more business saying ‘women don’t ever get lonely’ than a gal has saying ‘women are as horny as men’. Neither of those statements are true.

    Aside from the truth of your entirely correct assertion that females have nowhere near the sexual appetite of males, your ‘My Take’ as a whole comes across like you have an axe to grind against women as a whole. You complain about not being able to get sex, about rejection, depression, and not being tall or attractive enough.. It all comes across as a raging rant and, as such, kinda loses its poignancy for me.

    • No. This was a direct response to another user here on GAG, as well as many women who like to make these outrageous claims just to "one up" men or assert some false sense of "equality." The reason it annoys me so much is because of how damaging the male sexual appetite can be (not to me as much as men in general). Being horny all the time is not kind of "positive" women should be trying to usurp. Women don't have to deal with looking for escorts, having blue balls, developing depression out of being unloved, being called a simp, being called an incel/femcel, or any of the other detriments that comes with male horniness. It's just another example of "wanting equality, but with none of the negatives or consequences attached." Considering how bad simp culture and porn addictions are for today's generation, yes, I find the idea of women being "as insatiable as men, while also e-whoring on OnlyFans and abusing simp culture" to be downright hypocritical as sh*t. Women are the ones almost solely benefiting off of male horniness, yet want to try to swoop in and say "we're just as horny and sex-crazed as you are." It'd be like some woman pretending to be a war veteran and ex-soldier just for the prestige, even going so far as to claim "sexism" when you ask basic questions about her platoon or tour overseas. It's that insulting, considering how many men suffer from being slaves to the flesh.

  • Nah there are a lot of horny women out there you just don't know any of them

    • Not to mention constantly complaining about us kinda steers us clear of such bs

    • @Sirenboobzilla moreso vice versa

    • Correct response is " it works both ways" as even I get annoyed when other women constantly complain about men

  • Yea women are not hornier than men, it's a feminist nonesense.

  • I'm asexual and, unfortunately, I still get horny. That doesn't "fix" it. I've actually considered getting my uterus cut out to "fix" it, but it wouldn't be worth the money or the side effects. I'm sure you're right that I could find someone to have sex with today if I wanted to, but I don't, which is the problem isn't it lol

    Maybe all men really do have sex at the top of their pyramid of needs, but for 100% of the people I know, that doesn't seem to be the case. There's always something more important to them than sex, and that's why people don't have orgies 24/7. Their reputation, or their morals, or their job, or their self-worth, or their self-preservation, etc. Something makes most people have standards. They won't have sex with just anyone, at just any time. And just because someone else may have 10 desires they value more than sex and you only have 5, say, that doesn't mean they are less horny. It could mean they just care a lot more about their image than you, think they're better than you, or care more about their religion than you.

    I assume you know what it's like to have the desire for sex make other desires seem like nothing. Well, is it that hard to believe that other people may have other desires that can make sex seem like nothing, comparatively? I'm sure a lot of women are less sexually driven than a lot of men. But I don't think that's the only and all-encompassing reason behind the disparity in actions. That just doesn't add up logically with what I've learned about people.

    • I don't think you can be asexual while still having feelings of sexuality. Like I stated in my post, sex and horniness is often a problem with us men and I believe it holds us back from our true potential. I am not as horny as the average man, but I still know for a fact I get more horny than 99% of women. This is evident in all the things I stated in my post, that women never have to worry about. "And just because someone else may have 10 desires they value more than sex and you only have 5, say, that doesn't mean they are less horny." That would quite literally make them less horny by simple math.

    • Well think what you want, that doesn't change the fact that you can want sex without finding anyone sexually attractive. And for example if you stub your toe, that could hurt just as much for 2 different people but only one cusses, because the other is on a phone call with their boss. You understand how they can both hurt the exact same amount and the reason the 2nd doesn't act could be that they have another priority, not necessarily because they have a higher pain tolerance? Or do you also think having other priorities makes your physical pain go away, instead of just making you control your reaction to that pain more?

    • That doesn't make any sense. Either thing you said. If you want sex, you are literally not asexual. I think they call that "aromatic" or something, but being asexual means you don't want sex at all and have no feelings of lust at all. That's as bad as queer women claiming to be "attracted to men" (despite being lesbians). And cursing from stubbing your toe isn't really a choice; it's a reaction to pain. If you have the ability to not curse, then you didn't hurt yourself that badly because you still have self control.

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  • I love how this is about men vs women horniess then you bring up loneliness and depression 💀 in general, it isn’t fair to try to think you know how women think or feel. You’ve never been one so you’ll never truly know. Even if you know for a fact how one or several women feel, there are billions of people in this world and they don’t all feel alike even if they’re the same gender. Women get lonely. You know how many men cheat, or leave women, especially when they get pregnant or sick. You don’t think they are depressed or lonely? Even if a woman is single, EVERYONE gets lonely and depression doesn’t discriminate. As far as horniness goes, i tend to agree with you. I know some horny ass women that I think could POTENTIALLY compare to men but I think the difference is a woman might wanna have sex or masturbate 6 times in one day but then maybe not for another 4 days, whereas it seems men wanna nut every day, if not several times every day.

    • Oh also, I’ve known women who have complained bc they’re so horny and want it all the time and their boyfriend isn’t so horny. Just look up why does my girlfriend wanna have sex all The time; and you’ll see several men complain about they’re woman being so horny and wanting sex TOO MUCH. again, regardless of gender, everyone has different libidos

    • "You’ve never been one so you’ll never truly know." That's called anecdotal evidence and it means nothing. Knowledge, science, research, and direct input (women speaking this themselves) is "how I know." Example: "You've never been to the moon, so you'll never truly know if it's made of blue cheese or not." As well as the very anecdotal and societal evidence I stated in my very post. Where are all the femcels? Where are all the women with porn addictions? And no. Women don't actually get lonely. This was discussed before. Women's "loneliness" is basically not experiencing true love and having a man simp for them. That's essentially what women admitted to being "lonely." Men's loneliness is actually, literally, being alone and having no one around you, let alone love you. You know, *literal* loneliness, not "I have a sea of simps and emotional validation around me 24/7, but none of them are my dream man. I'm so lonely!" That is why I didn't go into detail with that here; it's already been discussed and women being able to get a man whenever she wants is, with the caveat of it not being her 10 out of 10 man, is not actual "loneliness." Nor will I entertain the foolish idea of it being such. Lastly, some exceptions to the rule, like a couple with a high sex drive woman and low sex drive man, doesn't negate the rule. Again, I stated a bunch of stuff in my post that women literally NEVER have to deal with. Like the inability to get laid. Never not getting emotional validation. Being lonely or a virgin for life. Trying to find a prostitute without getting arrested in a sting. And so on.

    • Women do get lonely…. I am woman…. I get lonely..:. Sorry that fact makes you angry. Most Women can get laid easily, I agree with you on that. The problem is, and I and literally any woman I’ve ever talked to on this topic can attest to this; most men don’t give af about you emotionally/ they either make it clear they just want sex or worse pretend to be invested and then ghost you after he got what he wanted. Men make women feel very lonely and very dirty doing shit like that. There are tons of couple where the woman is Hornier. This isn’t negating from the rule, this is showing your “rule” isn’t the rule. Anyways you have some kind of problem with women and I don’t know why you seem angry in the original post so I’ll just leave it here. Have the day you deserve

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  • I have a low sex drive

  • How do you know that some women aren't hornier than men? What exactly makes you say that and why do you seem upset about it?

    • The entire post I just made literally answers your question and explains why this accusation is so insulting... You clearly did not read it.

    • Some women, than some men... ok. Biologically awomen and amen are shaped differently. Not only do men's penises stick out and awomen are concave. It's more complex. I agree with MCheetah, but not on all of it. For example "women are just as horny if not worse", the meaning of horny is slightly different, from the man's biological signal, ignoring which has consequences. A better word would be "they are just as dirty minded, if not worse". But it has some truth to it.

  • I was playing golf the other day and absolutely killing it until the cute little cart girl came by with glitter all over her legs

    Then I spent the rest of the day in the trees and bunkers

    No, women are definitely not as horny as men

  • Hmm most times they can’t match my energy and when it comes time for sex they just lay there like a starfish.

  • Why does it have to be insulting?

  • This is a rare moment where I am going to semi-disagree with you bro.

    I do agree that there is this new modern female push to say “they are just as horny” as is way of expressing “equality”. However some of the girls I’ve dated in the past just couldn’t enough. 2 out of the last 3 girls I was in relationship both were frustrated with me because they wanted more than 1-2 a week.

    The difference comes in the psychology of the sex drive. Men do it for 1) the obvious hormones 2) to relieve stress 3) to “prove” something to themselves 4) to “prove” something to others. 5) to feel loved

    Many guys do feel an impetus to prove themselves among their peers about getting laid. This is very true when we are younger but it still remains a bit as we get older. Both other men and women judge men who aren’t in a relationship and/or getting laid.

    Anyway women (when right hormonally) absolutely crave sex as well. Although I will never know it is more of a full body experience for them. The clit has twice as many nerve endings as the penis does. So women do it more for 1) hormones 2) to feel loved and attractive 3) the feeling and rush of being “naughty” and newer 4) to feel “equal” to men.

    Women are very sexual creatures. However they speak the sexual language differently. The breakdown is how they “expect” men to understand them. Most men don’t and it’s not the man’s fault. But most women don’t have the patience when it comes to helping them UNLESS they already really like the guy.

    • Women can get *almost* as horny as men when on their period or other "once in a full moon" events. But the exception is not the rule. Women being *almost* as horny as men on rare occasions doesn't make them hornier than how men are daily.

  • Men have become hypersexual do to unlimited free porn. Boys jerking off 10 times a day is normal according to reports. This is not normal of course. This is basically an addiction at that point.

    In terms of needing sex, sex is behind basic needs such as food. Men tend to put way to much thought and energy into pursuing sex sometimes to the point of neglecting other aspects of their lives. These men are rarely successful.

    • While I think many males do have porn addictions nowadays, men have always been sexual to a extent. It's been written all throughout history. From Shakespeare to ancient Greece. But yeah, I agree with you that too many males nowadays are slaves to the flesh.

    • You have porn induced ED. We tell patients to go 90 days without porn. It works.

    • @U4ea0 Not even close, pal. I don't even watch porn, nor do I understand why people do. So stop assuming BS.

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  • They have much less testosterone. How could they be just as horny? Stupid.

  • @mcheetah I have to disagree w/ you on this one. in my opinion you're looking at it only from the perspective of dudes that can't get laid. In their eyes sex is such a rare commodity that they only see what they have to do to get it. You're also making the mistake of believing that just because a woman can get dick anytime means that she can get good dick anytime. So many women are left sexually frustrated by the performances of inexperienced me that dont understand how to please a woman. In fact I would argue that in general women are hornier than men because fewer women experience orgasms during sex whereas sex typically ends once the male is done. Think about it like this how horny would you be if you never came during sex. This is also why its important to learn and understand female anatomy because if you prove that you can please a woman sexually you'll keep her around much longer. I receive DM's, text and emails from women all the time who just want to bang because they're trying to recreate the feeling that having sex w/ me gave them. This is also it's important for men to have an abundance mentality because the only real way to get good at sex is through practice. Once you get good, I promise you'll see more women showing how horny they are.

  • I think what you're saying is way to simplistic. Young girls can be extremely horny and rampant. But it depends on their upbringing. Places like the US seem really prudish especially as there's so much conservative religion that is so controlling of women. In other societies, like some pacific islands for example, sex is like food. And where you have the extended family around the prospect of bearing a child is not so much of an issue as the entire village take part in their upbringing, as it should be. Societies based around income and status above everything else, and strict monogamous relationships, really make it difficult for women to express their sexuality at all let alone freely. That fear of pregnancy is really drummed into women very hard at least until they get married. And then once they have a family they're often right off sex because they're too tired looking after the family. That is a natural birth control. But wait until they reach the age where the kids have grown up and their life is settled, and the beast awakes! At this point especially with menopause approaching they often REALLY want sex because the kids aren't going to barge into the bedroom, they can get some proper rest and they don't have to worry about the bills so much and they have most of what they need if they're lucky. By this stage often the husbands have more or less given up or are trying to fuck some poor young thing from the office or whatever. Well, the mums have the tennis coach or yoga teacher or whatever if they want, and often they do. Women at this age are really delicious.

  • It's almost as annoying as women wanting straight men to feel guilty for sexualizing boobs.

    • I see that often on GAG as well.

    • That is stupid. FYI, you can’t have any sexual activity without both partners objectifying each other to some degree. This despite what feminists say.

    • Yeah I call bs on this too. I hear people say it’s just cause they’re specialized. Both sexes tend to focus on and be attracted to their differences. I find an Adam’s apple hot. Men find wide hips hot. Yes, part of this is biology but it also boils down to our differences and those of us that aren’t nuts realize men and women aren’t the same and tend to appreciate the differences. Hell, even other women are usually attracted to boobs. How could a man not be

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