Sexual Relationships 
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As in do women actually treat you as you imply to them how you perceive them?
And they actually behave really kinky/dirty REALLY FAST with guys who just treat them dirty and slutty?
So a guy who actually is sweet to her sees mainly her nice pure good girl side she puts on for fear of being seen as anything but. And if he treats her nice, she doesn't show that side of her without a lot of work on his part. Whereas whilst he treats her nice etc, she will dream of being dirtier than anything (e.g. getting fucked from behind or having cumshots on her face/breasts) or even look to get that from someone else.
So even a female friend or new girl, whoever, if you treat them like a dirty slut, they will behave like that. So when talking to them, forget being a nice guy, or charming, just be all sexy talk and they'll feel aroused and more likely choose to bang you?
And in the bedroom, rather than talking to her sweet, being passionate, actually talk to her like she is a really really dirty? So call her "yes my dirty slut", that's it "fuck me like a slut, yes!". I reckon a lot of women open up a lot more and reveal their inner most slut when you do.
I've had female friends act dirtier than anything when you just treat them like that. You end up getting them in that sexual state and when they are virtually begging for you to take them to bed. Be really alpha in bed like that and they will do wild things.
Not to mention they also start to do extremely kinky things like wanting to be fcuked hard from behind, having me finish on their face whilst they stick their tongue out and actually repeat the words "i'm such a dirty slut".
And these are some of the most innocent people in real life, which makes it even hotter!
WOMEN WILL BE UNBELIEVABLY DIRTY IF YOU TREAT AND JUST TALK TO THEM DIRTY.
They don't admit it, but they will act pure and proper if you treat them nice like a nice man and sweet which they SAY they want.
So is it true, that women will treat you like a prince if you treat them like an absolute slut?
WOMEN TREAT YOU AS YOU TREAT THEM
They will act polite, sweet, innocent when you treat them like that and are nice, sweet, innocent to them. Wheras someone who is sexual, doesn't give a damn about their life, doesn't text them a sweet message to wish them well, gets the sexual slutty minx that she is.
They'll say that they want someone sweet, yet their actions show whilst they take their time or even just wait for a guy to make the move in that case, when a brand new guy who isn't giving her the care the 1st does for her, the new guy just can act sexual and she will go to bed with him then and there on DAY ONE.
TREAT THEM LIKE A DIRTY SLUT and have a sexy time FAST
It seems the majority of women will not admit it, but nearly all will do this:
1. Act pure and innocent with a boyfriend, flirt with another guy and be a little kinky in conversation
2. Act pure and innocent around a charming nice guy in her social circle who is also smooth (thus boyfriend material and quite sexy) whilst a new guy who just rolls up, and doesn't put the time to get to know the real her, arouses her and gets to bed her.
3. Act pure and innocent to a male friend who clearly demonstrates interest in her (see below*) yet acts like a slutty sorority minx to a guy she only just met or barely knows and isn't treating her as nice.
*WOMEN JUST DON'T GET THAT GUYS ARE EXTRA NICE BECAUSE THEY LIKE A GIRL or else they do and are using them
A nice guy who LIKES a girl, will go that extra way. He'll listen to her. He'll connect with her. He might send her sweet texts, he'll brighten up her day, he'll uplift her, be a little flirty and funny etc. He will text her etc. A normal friend would not do this. Think about it. Does a female friend of a girl just text her a sweet message or make the extra effort to make her feel great. A guy friend wouldn't do that either. So clearly the guy likes the girl.
Same thing applies the other way round. Men clearly get this. A lot of women either seem oblivious, sigh. Or else women just use this for validation reasons which is WRONG.
If a guy is making an extra effort, he is a keeper since he fucking likes you.
A new guy who shows up, just arouses you a bit, what is the point of sleeping with people like that or showing your wild slutty side to them?
In addition, women often act sluttier to those they barely know - like a guy they just met and only knew for a few months (or less than the guy who treats her special above). It's paradoxical logic of most women.
So bizarelly this means that in order to get to see a woman's sexual side and have fun with her, it means:
1. You don't text her nice things.
2. You don't give a damn about who she is or what she likes.
3. You just run into them at clubs whatever, act like an alpha, and watch as she invites you to all kinds of parties, and stuff.
4. You just get touchy and arouse them.
5. Despite, not treating them like they're special, and instead treating them like they're just one of your thousand harem, they bed you.
6. On top of this, they engage in the most slutty dirty sex imaginable.
7. Some women with a boyfriend even do this without telling you they have one.
8. They will flirt with you a lot more if you don't have any chit chat or rapport building convo with them before they label you as someone valuable who they like.
It's crazy but:
WOMEN WILL ACT SO DIRTY IF YOU TREAT THEM LIKE A DIRTY SLUT
a) outside the bedroom
b) and in the bedroom
Watch as a female friend will behave as a dirty minx very quickly despite being so innocent and acting all pure and she doesn't have any sexual fantasies.
Watch as a female in a bar will treat you like they are a dirty pleasure girl for you, their prince
Watch as a female who you just met who you find out is taken after the act, was so dirty for you unlike she normally is.
What Girls & Guys Said
12 17This is wrong on so many levels...
Ok check this: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a27854-woman-hears-the-exact-same-thing-from-two-guys-but-she-reacts
This was 47 days ago. I don't even remember writing this.
Ok, pls check out the NEW take and reply there
I facepalmed through this whole thing, but then I realize I think this prob applies to a younger generation and maybe even girls from my generation. I tend to cringe and think dudes don't know women at all, but I think my mentality is in the minority and perhaps this is just how most women are now a days. They're sluts and proud.
Lol! Your last line. Ok so how would you say it is? Do women not reward guys who just turn up, aren't that nice, just seduce and bed them? Are they not the dirtiest with them versus a guy they know from social circle? Or a guy who is charming and nice and boyfriend material? Isn't it paradoxical?
why would you treat them like anything other than a dirty slut
Pls www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a27854-woman-hears-the-exact-same-thing-from-two-guys-but-she-reacts
Lol on your comment
uh what? that is why asking too soon is TOO SOON. coz the moment you said that, unless the girl finds you a casual fling, ain't gonna happen mister. chances are you'll not get a second date and be blocked from her "possible" list.
1. Explain pls. So you mean a charming guy gets slowed down and won't see her sexy side? 2. But then the dirty sexual man who isn't interested in her, barely knows her, etc gets to have her be a dirty slutty minx straight away? 3. How is the social circle guy not the one she shows that side to if he makes her laugh, sends her sweet stuff, uplifts her etc, whereas a newer entrant doesn't do that, is just sexy and maybe a little crazy (which social circle has, but he has more attributes)? The second guy doesn't have that connection with her, yet she would have sex with him fast and really dirty in some cases?
Explain
So how do you fuck a sweet friend whom you like and is now single? Both of u are sweet
They want a man whom they can’t have. They want a man who honestly doesn’t give a fuck about them, who doesn’t care if they come or go. That’s the kind of man they will pursue. Call them bad boys or call them whatever you want, that’s the kind of man they want – period. The kind of guy who will make them orgasm, crudely, and give them a huge sexual thrill in the bedroom, and then discard them like used toilet paper, and fuck one of their female friends afterwards, just because he can. (Just like they would do with his male friends.)
Interestingly put. Yes they seem to want a man they can't have. They say they want a man who is sweet to them, then use him for validation whilst not being sexual fast. These are the guys they delay sending texts to whilst they text random guys or newbies much more quickly. A nice guy could still be a sexual guy and probably be better in bed since he wants her so much. He could make her orgasm multiple times and treat her like a dirty girl. Yet she delays and delays or hides her inner self. So how can a good guy with an inner dirty man get a nice girl to show off her inner dirty slut to him?
Its a psychological thing ifva woman senses any weakness in a man's game such as being a nice guy she ain't going to cum ever even if he fucks her for twelve hours while a complete bastard that treats her like shit and feeds her sexual need for drama and excitement will make her cum in five minutes.
So how does a nice guy who knows her and she just became single, how does he get her really REALLY aroused so she is begging her male friend to bang her?
Stop being her friend for starters
By doing what, just ignoring her?
I wasn't a bestie to begin with anyhow. Maybe met up with her amongst others occasinally. And yeah texted. But now she is single. Can i hit on her and how should i do that?
Separately pls check this out: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a27854-woman-hears-the-exact-same-thing-from-two-guys-but-she-reacts
Opine if u can, it's interesting
never be afraid to hit on a single woman and don't care if it doesn't work out. When in doubt whip it out.
Ok, but a single woman who you knew when she was taken? How do you whip it out subtly lol? Also pls check out my new take
Yeah? How do u do it?
As long as you are not cheating why does it matter.
That's not what I asked at all. I asked you how to do it.
Some do some don't. It would be a mistake to imagine all or even most women are like that but it describes a lot of women.
Yes. though there's even a theory that some women seem to subconsciously be attracted to men who cheat because it shows they can get other women?
Yeah, I've seen that. It's not just cheating, a lot of women, a lot more than would admit it, are attracted to promiscuous guys. they hate themselves for it, they want to like caring guys but biology isn't easily denied.
Why's that though?
If you think about it there are two basic strategies for giving your genes a better chance of survival and we are all here today because our genes had a better chance of survival. You can care for and nurture your young to give them a leg up in the world or you can have lots of offspring, more than you can care for much and hope some of them get through. The first strategy works for men and women, the latter one only works for men but if a woman has a male child with such a man he will carry her genes and spread them so women who have children with promiscuous men get an evolutionary advantage. So women have evolved instincts to go for promiscuous men. they are stronger in some women than others and some women, because of their upbringing do more to fight and contain them. The default setting for most women is caring guy but the promiscuous guy triggers an excitement response which can overwhelm it. Women's instincts are comparatively conflicted.
Very nicely put and most interesting. So how does a guy in her social circle who met her when she had a boyfriend, how does he show off his characteristics. Naturally out of respect he won't hit on her when she is taken. But given they click and given she is hot and given she then break up and becomes single later? How should he act? And could he be considered a possibility? He couldn't be faulted for being in her social circle (having met her at uni) could he? Or is only a brand new guy who meets her at the advantage? If the uni guy is fun, sweet and uplifts her? Also he's suave?
New is good but most women are always sizing up other potential guys for if the one they are with doesn't work out. About the only advice I can offer is to be known but not too well known. Leaving things about yourself fuzzy is better than being completely familiar. If she's interested at all she will fill in the blanks with imagining almost certain to be better than the reality. It's also good to show off your finer points as if by accident and downplay them (after of course making sure they are seen to fullest advantage). I suspect this works on several psychological principles which are too much to go into here.
Nice. SO this guy who she has a good rapport with and they click, he could be an option? Even though they met when she was taken earlier and thus he is in her social circle? They're not besties, but they get on very well and she kept in touch, met up etc post uni days? I like your point about maintaining some mystery. So what do you think about texting. I mean in the old days, it used to be say texting every other week or so, now it's more spaced out, say 3-4 weeks or even more sometimes, but then the texting interactions are more involved? Is that good? Yes I think say the girl still finds out stuff about your hobbies or skills now, that's good right? When you say imagine the blanks, could she imagine what you're like in bed and how to encourage her to do that? Yes I think say she likes your drive and passion and a certain skill she saw at uni, you downplay it but she knows and says you are good. What about flirting though and texting, touching etc now?
Yeah what do u reckon?
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