Worst/most disappointing ex/date?

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  • I was dating this guy. He was a "model", not really but felt like one xD wanna be. Anyway he was like very celf-centered but hide it pretty well. He was attractive but had a rellay weird voice and talked... you know a "certain" way. But I was young, insecure and I liked him so I was blindsided. He was going super fast, but then one day he was, I don't know moody and was being kind of an ass. So I though "I won't contact him, he needs to text me first because he was the rude one". Didn't hear from him in a month lol Then I ended up looking for him and he blamed it all on me. Again, I was sooo insecure, so I told him if he wanted to try again. He said yes, then later that month we had sex. It was sooooo bad, the worst I've ever had. He still acted interested and talked pretty to me. But then a few days later he friendzoned me, but like wanted to keep having sex and I was like "No way, you said you wanted to try and see if we could go deeper, I remember how you literally agreed". "nooo that's so not what we discussed" ¬¬ lieee Sooo dissapointing, but little part of me was relieved because the sex was *terrible*. And then I started to realise a lot of stuff, and I'm fairly sure he is actually gay. The way he talked and stuff he told me that I didn't really paid any atention at first, then the way he was very touchy feely with male friends... And it's not just me but people who met him are the ones who actually pointed out to me. Waste of time, but I did learn to value myself, which I didn't know how to.

    • Wow I hate people who can’t make up their mind !! And woah self centered ew was he narcissistic? I also dated someone, who was an ass and I’m confused if he was even straight lol he was trying on my clothes 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • Yeah he was. Wow, trying on your clothes? Damn. I feel you. It was an uncomfortable experience but I think we dodged a bullet! ;) and at least now we'll be able to see the red flags sooner xD

    • Honestly this guy also had some narcissistic traits. Its impossible to date those smh they think they are something but honestly their ego is fragile af. It shatters like a glass. We deserve better, hon.

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  • Bad manners & terrible hygiene. I'm easily grossed out by bad hygiene. It's a no for me. I'm quite the germaphobe lol so i love everything to smell good and fresh. The aforementioned combination of bad manners and terrible hygiene.
    There was this guy who asked me out, he is extremely good looking, has good talking game, has a massive following and people act like he is God's gift. To be honest I wanted to know what the hype was so I said yes to a date. As I'm quite curious. When we met, he looked disheveled and didn't smell good. I felt quite grossed out. I mean it wouldn't cost you to take shower and clean up a bit. He didn't really care. We went to a fancy restaurant and he has money so that's something that probably stroked his ego more. He was extremely rude to the waitress but nice to me. It was a put off. I politely excused myself from the taking the date further so it ended at the restaurant. He still tries to stay in contact but I will never see him again.

    • Ew I also don’t like guys who don’t take care of themselves. I once met one guy who had all biten off nails and one who had literally dirt behind nails. I understand you’re right from work but at least prepare well, you’re going to public, you’re gonna meet up with a girl? Ew just ew I bet he was also wearing weird working clothes, and his car was almost falling apart. I felt so ashamed if anyone sees me in there but I couldn’t just say oh bye after I saw that junk car. I haven’t seen worse car before. Everything was falling apart. It looked like a trash and I’m not saying I’m picky but at least be normal. Eh also met couple guys who smelled like trash. Rlly at least shower. It got me questioning why I even met them. Ehh

    • I agree with you. I always keep myself well groomed. Why can't they put in that much effort? That's gross, i don't know how you stayed for the date thats gross... ewww bitten and dirty nails🤢🤮

    • Yea that’s really a turn off to me. Specially first date!!! You try to impress someone and you come looking like sht. Who tf would even get attracted to that. Gl lol but yea I was disgusted af. One of this two guys was also bad mannered, he invited me to the mall, he went to buy himself CK boxers which are expensive right. Then he went to bakery nearby to get a sandwich and he didn’t even ask if I’d like one too. Dude even if I wouldn’t take, you could at least ask to show you are polite? He didn’t even go for a drink either and I have no issue with that if we go to a park for a walk but to the mall? I’m literally following you around and can’t even do this? Lol what a cheap date. I just went home afterwards. I was so confused, this never happened to me. Ofc I never saw him again. He was so excited speakin to me after I got home, sending all this messages... I just faded. How dare are you to contact me after that? Ewww

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  • Was very disappointing. Was with her more often and at some point she made me horny all day on purpose. Then she wanted to give me a blowjob, and it wasn't too bad either. But that's it, nothing more. That she didn't want sex is okay, I respect it too, but I wasn't even allowed to lick herself or anything... a lot of pressure for days and then nothing at all 🙈😅 Don't get me wrong, I respect it when a woman just doesn't feel like it but make me horny for days just to blow me was already hard 🙈😅

    • exactly why make u horny if u dont wanna fk. Lol makes no sense, she's weird

    • Yep🙈😅

  • Unfortunately... I don't have one 😅
    But, I will say getting stood up or constantly being told not right now, is a real downer... It's fun when you are with a girl that wants to make time with you in her life, not pencil you in when her schedule allows for it. At a certain point, she should naturally want you and enjoy you in her or his life

    • I totally agree. Giving you time means how much someone really likes you. And if you aren’t worth enough to them to give you that, then it’s not worth it. I wasted my time on my ex who happen to “love me” but he seemed happier away from me than with me. I’m never falling for this again. If I see next guy ain’t interested in spending time with me, I’ll be walking right out!!! No bs. Idc what explanation they’ll have. If you like, YOU FIND TIME. by the way this dude wasn’t even busy with anything but looking for himself. I’m so stupid I wasted 2 years in that. On top of that when I had bad days, he was never there for me. Really stay away from people like that. Its not worth it, trust me.

    • Thanks for the advice!

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  • when I was 19, met a boy, thought he was the tops, he had no manners, his sex was awful, just in , out and finished, couldn't or wouldn't mix with others when out,

    • Ah that sounds so awful. I bet you ended things with him quick

    • around about a month,

    • Fair enough, as long as not too much time

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  • Met a great girl , hit it off , was really starting to fall for her , we had amazing sex a bunch of times , she treated me like Gold , surprised me with gifts Took me on weekend getaways to her families cabin , We enjoyed a huge others company , Until her husband showed up on my doorstep

    • Whaaat? Why’d she do so much for you if she was married. Thats really crazy. I don’t understand this people..

    • Holy shit. What happened?

    • Her husband apparently traveled a lot for his job , so it was easy for her to play me

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  • Apart from a first date not turning up I haven't really had bad dates. There was one first date where she said she didn't want any more children (that was a deal breaker), but she was a really nice woman.
    Most disappointing ex, I was a late bloomer, only have one ex. She fell pregnant after only a few months when she ended our relationship, which was her right. But when we spoke about the child she became distant and immediately spoke about having sole custody for at least 3 years, I was never going to except that. I didn't think she was that type of person. We lost the baby a few weeks later, we didn't really talk after that.

  • HS prom. I was a "safe" companion for a gal that turned out to be secretly "promised" to some guy already in college. Talk about misleading advertising! She should have been arrested for fraud!

    • Wow wtf, I hate dishonesty tbh 🙄 How did you find out?

    • By overhearing Chat between my date and her friend AT the prom! bummer- but I survived Could have floated a barge between us during a slow dance, too.

  • They all turned out to be liars and cheaters

    • Yea it’s hard to find good. I’m sorry dear. Hope next one will be better.

    • Thnx sis 💕😌

  • My Date: Can I date your married brother! 😍

    Me: nice knowing ya! 😒

    • Wait a minute, she didn’t just reject you for your bro, SHE WENT FOR THE MARRIED GUY? What the fuckk. Now really I have no words. Where did you find that whore

    • At a public library

    • Yup, she did. She fall for my brother on what he does then she started stalking him then they put a restraining order on her.

  • A woman told me she accepted a date with me because she felt sorry for me. I just laughed and said " Now I know why you're single, and by the way... you're not all that".

    • Lol what tf? She was rlly so full of herself. Bet she doesn’t get many invites that’s why she settled for first one who was offered (u). Don’t take it personally some people try to put their self esteem issues on you, it makes them feel better but they rlly ain’t sht

    • You got that right. Some people think they can raise up by putting others down, or just have an over-inflated opinion of themselves. You're a smart one.

    • Lol yea had experience with a narcissistic person. So happy it’s over now. It was never about my happiness. I was sooo wrong to stat around. Now I’m happy and relieved more than ever.

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  • I m not dating any girl yet 😔

  • Mine was long distance relationship. When she was in my country I saw this guy talking to her. We had a disagreement and she and up sleeping with him. I was the one who took care of the airfare, accommodation, etc.

  • Long story short:
    - She made no effort to find eachother where we were supposed to meet up
    - She was rude in a shop
    - She was racist in a restaurant
    - She left early because halfway through she found out the last train was going soon
    - She said she's pay half of the meal on her own volition and ended up not paying
    - She got mad when I brought up she forgot to pay

    Result: I told her she was a massive bitch and to never talk to me again 🙂

    • Wtf how she made no effort? She said “uhm find me”? Ah I don’t like rude people, its a nono. Avoid these. Lol maybe she was lying bout train. I used to go by public transport too but I always check before when I have transport cause gotta be organised bout this stuff cause otherwise ull have trouble getting home. Lol wtf she was a real mess.. good it was the only time you met her

    • Yeah, screw that, haha. We were meeting up near a metro station, which was kinda big, so I was walking around looking for her and found her slumping over a table in a random electronics store, watching random videos.

    • Aw lol good you ended it. If you want healthy relationship, both need to be valued the same. I don't know when I was meeting someone, I always told them exactly where I am and would even move towards them, no matter who is was. It’s about being polite but in your case she was already showing to you bih issues... she thought she was something...

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  • She was looking for her perfect person on the outside. Funny thing is, she was hard of hearing.
    She was pretty, but she wasn’t perfect in body due to her handicap either.
    The date was over before it started!

    • Oh so she was full of herself. Eh hate that rlly. I feel like those have most insecurities who present to public as most confident lol.. I feel like its just an act cause based on some experience some of these are very fragile lol good you ended it

  • I’ve never had a bad date, I plan them in advance.

    • Oh you plan ahead a bad date so you don’t get disappointed? Lol

    • I plan them from places I know about, not anywhere I haven’t been.

  • My ex, the child stealer.

    • Ow really :/ that must suck

    • I’m sorry

    • Me too. She got away with it.

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  • Thank god.. rite now I dint experience any worst dates. 🙏

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    • Ah thats rude, at least don’t make plans or cancel then rather than stand someone up. I only stood up one guy once. I knew he was a terrible fboy I knew he wanted to meet for sex, It wasn’t actual stand up but like we decided to meet someone near him, so he came there but I didn’t and didn’t respond ever but meh I was 18 I just had some hate for fboys but ya now I would rather not make any plans.

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