Would a girl sext with me if she isn't interested?

[Anonymous]

Title. I know it would seem obvious but I have been out of the dating game for over a decade. I started talking to this girl a few months after my divorce, we don't see each other in person much since it's semi-long distance situation and we haven't committed to anything yet. Started talking dirty a few weeks ago and then full blown sexting the last few times.

I have a bit of social anxiety issue, nothing crippling but it does swarm my thoughts sometimes. Just curious if you gusy would sext with a guy who you aren't very interested in.

[SueShe]

I presume that if a person in that age group starts to lose her self-esteem and dignity to sext with someone, she is desperate beyond words.

Why would a person in her midlife sext with a total stranger? Simply because she is looking to secure her future because at that age, it is not easy for a woman to not end up alone.

If she is desperate enough, she will go to great lengths to attract a possible victim to fall for her scheme and my guess is that sexting is exactly the right medicine. Men are so gullible and will do practically anything to get into the pants of a woman. If that woman offers herself on a silver platter at that age, then you have to realize that she does it not because of your fortune, good looks and social status...

Good luck!

[Asker]

At what age range would a woman sext and not be losing her self-esteem/dignity? I ask because I never mentioned her age or range.

[SueShe]

This is my personal opinion but all ages are concerned. It is just not something that is very dignified is it? It simply indicates that this woman places too much importance on something trivial. I can understand that men do it because they are more likely ruled by their testosterone.

[Nelaary]

So you think it's weird and she doesn't enjoy it as a men does or men are more likely to do it because they are horny all the time and don't actually care?

[SueShe]

@Nelaary Men are actually less in control of their sexual hormones and I always thought that women think with their brain rather than with their genitals. C'est dommage que les femmes s'abaissent au niveau des hommes...

[Nelaary]

Ah d'accord je comprends ton point de vue je l'ai jamais vu de cette façon tu sais par fois la solitude te pousse à faire des connerie juste pour se sentir aimé les femmes sont des êtres humains très sensibles et leur émotion par fois les rend faible

[SueShe]

@Nelaary C'est bien vrai mais je pense que le sexting est une bien mauvaise alternative parce qu'elle ne comporte que des risques. Les gens ne font pas attention en envoyant des photos de nus et celles-ci peuvent être utilisées à des fins de pression ou de revenge. Une fois perdue dans les profondeurs de l'internet. elles sont perdues à tout jamais.

[Nelaary]

D'accord Je comprends vous avez totalement raison je vous remercie

[Anonymous]

I mostly sext for fun not with guys I'm interested in.

[boggboss]

Depends on the women to be honest

[Avicenna]

Sometimes it's just something fun to do

[CarefreeGirly]

Personally, I’ll sext with someone I’m not interested in once or twice if I’m desperate. If I keep sexting with him over and over, I tend to be interested in more.

[McGrill]

Lets try then?

[Anonymous]

Any woman with any class at all would never degrade herself by sexting.