Would a good "Vanilla" or Non kinky Man be ok with his steamy very sexual girl asking him to pick out a sex toy for her?

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The Man  is Vanilla with just the slight hint of spice and mostly Non Kinky.  His Girl  is Hot Spicy and open to most Kinks. THE PHONE CONVERSATION Woman : Hello Sexy! I was just thinkin of you! Man : Chuckles Why thank you sweetie I'm flattered! How are you doing? Woman : Good. Been thinking about something I want to ask you. Got a second? Man : Just driving to a restaurant for dinner. Go ahead. Woman : Pauses for a moment takes a deep breath ok so you know how we were discussing that issue we been having... Man : Um... Ya? Woman : I think I came up with a solution... A compromise of sorts... I want you to pick me out a dildo Man : Um a dildo...  Woman : Ya... It doesn't have to be from an actual store... I'll send you a few online links... I'm mean who would know you better than you? Right?  Man : Well ya I guess... Woman : yes so can you pick me something you would feel best looks like you... Something closest to your shape and size.  Man : Um well... I... I just got to the restaurant. Woman : Oh well... Man : I have to go. I'll call you back. Woman : (cheerfully) Oh ok... Frowns wondering if he heard that before he hung up? She shrugs and continues doing what's she is doing. Cheerfully waiting for his call after a few mins she realized he wasn't going to call back within a min or two but instead afterwards. Then suddenly she pauses. Her eyes widen. She grimace and brings her pretty well french nail manicured hand to her face and shook her head.  "Oh no did I just mess up? Did I make him uncomfortable? Was that a bit much? How Do Vanillaish men feel about picking out or buying a toy for their girl? Oh gosh I need Quora or Rebbit or something and fast!"  *********************************************** Well we know we are better than any of those sites  😉 What do the experts of G@G think?

Dargil · Accepted Answer

I picked  I'm a Non Kinky and Vanilla and I would be OK with it. AND I would pick out a toy.  With that in mind:  I'm not sure where I sit on the Vanilla/Kinky bell curve. I know the things I  do not like  or participate in, such as anal intercourse "rimming", BSDM, Group sex, cosplay, role playing and anything involving pain, scat or blood. However.. I have for a long time been interested and curious about the technology behind and effects of sex "toys" (devices). It began when I was looking for something for myself, during a long period of voluntary celibacy, that would lead to faster, stronger orgasms when I came to realize that hand masturbation was losing its effectiveness. To keep this tame for description, I experimented with the effects on (as a male) on the "hot spots" and in and to both available orifices and applied Chinese mechanical and electrical technology to both of them. In doing that, I discovered "outcomes" that the average resolutely vanilla guy would not consider. I didn't think I could cum like that. In my "research", I followed my curiosity to devices for women that could pull the trigger beyond the inevitable rabbit and wand; that would accommodate their hot "spots" and shake the ground for them. Although I have not had the opportunity to test my ideas on willing volunteers, I have fantasized about experimenting with a few and would certainly like to watch them either use them or man the controls in their behalf. I would let her pick them, pick them for her, pay for them, watch her use them or take the controls myself. I think it would be very hot.

magiusX26 · Accepted Answer

am not vanilla so have no clue if it was too much gor him or not. have seen plenty if vanilla people be fine with that lvl or higher kink talk and plenty of others who can't take much lighter lvls of kink talk. hell have seen kinky people not able to gandle kink talk too. so its a complete crap shoot.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If he's offended by getting one his own size, he's definitely a dud. lol What would be the point of getting one his size? She already has one his size. He should surprise her with a whopper.

DeeDeeDeVour · Accepted Answer

Who did he dine in the restaurant with?  Nevermind...  I have a feeling he'll buy you that toy.  Hopefully, you stirred his libido up to new levels.  Have fun!

ushagomez · Answer

50% off? Ok, so your size.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

I don't consider myself to be kinky but I love it when a woman uses a sex toy. So I'd be fine with helping her pick out a toy.

Motiv8edMan248 · Answer

Me personally, being in the kind of Lifestyle for the last 12 years or so since I was 19, I wouldn't just be standoffish about it I would be extremely excited, that's a big step honestly and being able to openly and freely communicate and stating your desires and wants. Do I believe it should have been in person in this exact scenario if you had no idea if he was going to be okay with it, absolutely. That being said I do believe that most men don't see it as much of an issue anymore but I'm sure there are still guys that do. Unfortunately for most guys in all honesty it's mostly about them during sex. I believe that pleasure and fulfillment and satisfaction should not just be for one of the two parties and especially if it's something so minuscule as a toy in my opinion. I think I think if you would have said it exactly how you said it and person I think there would have been a whole different demeanor because you definitely didn't ask, you definitely kind of steam rolled him and on the phone it's a lot easier to say I have to go. I think in this scenario the woman kind of knows she has the position of power she just got to use it but in person is a lot better

Jdjfjcjj · Answer

Why would a vanilla be with a steamy? Actually let me ask it this way, why are you with him? Doubt toy will deter you from eventually seeking someone else

exitseven · Answer

I voted for A

Jennz6 · Answer

A vanilla guy isn’t going to risk losing you, he will buy you the toy

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I don't know; I'm not vanilla. Lol

Rizwan_khan · Answer

I'm not a vanilla person and i m very much ok to buy you a toys in fact i think it's intresting when we indulge toys in sex.

smilelots · Answer

I think they would be able to do that sure.. only one way to find out right ask.. im in.

Marina7812 · Answer

I love it and mostly squirts when he fucking and use vibrator on my pussy😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

motownplayer2000 · Answer

I don't know, ask your good “Vanilla” non kinky man.

PointTaken · Answer

Most vanilla people I know are very unsure to not ok with it. Some can have their minds changed.

Still-alive · Answer

voted C heh :P

Pete671 · Answer

Probably not, I'd be up for such a girl choosing for her, I'd probably go for a double ended dildo so she could peg me at the same time as using it on herself,,,

legalboxers · Answer

Im vanilla... so...

dean53AU · Answer

I've gone and purchased several sex toys over the years for girlfriend's and friends with benefits, even bought myself a few.

nawtee_me · Answer

I would love to go shopping with you... ;)

Rudon00 · Answer

Of course. All great men the vanilla , Non kinky and the kinky. Once he is invested in his female. Cares nothing more to prioritize her pleasures and orgasms❤❤

Alex8736 · Answer

from the conversation example it seems like he's extremely shy and gets embarrassed easily i think what would be best would be a night in together and watch some clips on pornhub where they now offer tutorials for people willing to learn new and exciting things with step by step examples. just saying 😇

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

Vanilla here. I’d be fine buying one online but there isn’t no chance in hell I am letting anybody see me in a store holding a dildo. That would be fcking awkward and uncomfortable as hell.

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