Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Long story short - something happened to me when I was younger that I don’t want to get into, but it freaked me about about sex and dating for my teenage years. Then at university I was so conscious that I was so inexperienced that I was too afraid to date anyone. By the time I realised that most people in their first year of university are inexperienced, I was in my final year and felt even more embarrassed. Then the pandemic hit and no one was dating for two years.
I want to have sex, its not like I’m religious or waiting until marriage or anything. It just hasn’t happened - I wasn’t ready, I was too shy, the guys I liked didn’t like me/I didn’t like the guys who liked me, pandemic, blah blah blah. It wasn’t a choice, I’m just not a one night stand kind of girl - otherwise I would have gotten it out of the way a long time ago.
But, though I really want to have sex - it is pretty much all I think about and I feel like I’m going crazy - I’m terrified of how a guy will react when he finds out that I am a 25 year old virgin. It’s embarrassing!
I get asked out/approached/flirted with by guys, but am too nervous to go out with any of them, just incase I end up liking them and have to deal with the whole sex thing.
Am I being stupid? Would it freak a guy out or would they not really care?
Would a guy care that I’m still a virgin?
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What Girls & Guys Said
2 29No that's a good thing. No man wants a whore long term. Only when they need them.
I prefer to date fellow virgins.
Are you worried about your performance, how you look naked, not knowing what to do?
no..
They won't care. Trust me. Like 1000% they won't care. They might even like it. If for some weird reason he does care don't sleep with him. Move on. Just find a nice guy you can have a real relationship with and trust. And if you tell them or not is up to you. Plus they will have no excuse not to go down on you.
So seriously, don't let it bother you at all.
Yes, it’s probably to your advantage.
I have the same situation with my girlfriend.