Would a guy reject sex from a girl? ?

What would the circumstances be?
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  • It could be one or more of any of the following:

    - He's in a relationship or pursuing a relationship with someone else.
    - He's not attracted to her.
    - He's afraid that she's in love with him, and doesn't want a relationship or any of those complications.
    - She's mentally/emotionally unstable.
    - They are co-workers, or she's a friend of the family, etc. and there could be fallout that impacts other relationships.
    - He doesn't like her personality/attitude.
    - She has a reputation or he has reason to believe that she has an STD.
    - She's looking to get pregnant or has a history of crying rape.
    - He's religious.
    - He lacks confidence in himself.
    - He only has sex within relationships.

  • I've done it because I just didn't want to be involved. One woman invited me to her place and it was a mess. No furniture, her belongings in trash bags. She had worked her entire life, never married, and was living like she just got out of school. I figured out she just drank her paychecks. She didn't drive. She probably lost her license on a DWI.

Most Helpful Girl

  • no attraction, already taken, fear of disease, she's crazy, she has a boyfriend, too expensive...

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  • Could be many things, not attracted/interested, not aroused, not ready, wants something serious (assuming it's a hookup or new relationship), thinking about moving on etc.

  • It's possible. Maybe I'm already in a relationship, I'm not attracted to her, I don't see her in a sexual/romantic way, I'm tired, I'm busy, I'm not in the right state of mind.

  • Only rarely. May be if he is dealing with something very stressful.

  • Doesn’t want to get metoo’d women make up a lot of bs

  • Yeah. I've rejected sex tons of times. It's usually because I'm not attracted to her. But it usually doesn't get that far as an outright rejection. Just me expressing not being interested.

    Bad personality (mean-spirited) is the worst.
    Lack of physical attraction.

  • well i live in the number one city for aids, need another reason?

  • Maybe he's just not attracted?

  • Um... doesn't like her and/or isn't attracted to her. Not sure why it would be anything else. Then, sure he'd reject her. Why wouldn't he.

  • If he does that, proves he's not a player who goes around using girls just for sex, can show that he's a loyal person with someone else, doesn't want to rush things because he probably doesn't fully know who she is, or doesn't have time for any sexual activity because he cares about himself ETC

  • as the old saying goes:
    'If it smells like chicken - keep diggin, but if its trout - get the f&^k out"

  • Yes. He should always unless to have kids.

  • I have! She looked like she was on drugs.

  • If she isn't hot

  • I'd only reject a girl if I find her unattractive or she's been with a lot of guys

  • yes, if he's not attracted to her or doesn't like her...

  • She was drunk, not herself, just wants attention, etc.

  • No. All guys are completely controlled by hormones and have absolutely no self control. Basically, if we are offered sex there is no way for us to say no.

  • I am dating
    It's too soon
    I don't like her

  • Yes I would if I don't know the girl or anything like that. I don't feel comfortable having sex with strangers or people I barely know. Besides, I might not be attracted to that girl too.

  • If he don't like her!

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