Would a guy speak to a girl everyday just to keep her around for sex?

I’ve been speaking to this guy for 7 months every single day none stop. We only have sex though like we haven’t ever been on a date. He always says how much he likes having sex with me. But during the 7 months it’s never gone anywhere. We are very very compatible in bed though like it is really good. But would he seriously speak to me everydsy just to keep the sex? It’s not gone anywhere for 7 months, he hasn’t made me his girlfriend so I’m starting to think that this is the case? Or would a guy have to like a girl in some way to do this?
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  • After 5 years my friends with benefits tried to touch my face when she was kissing me.. it gave me chills and not in a good way, she stopped birth control and I stopped contacting her shortly after. I think we hung out a few years later but I wasn’t interested in having sex with her then. I feel bad cuz I was obsessed with another girl those years she was my only friends with benefits and hung out 4 times a week fucking and smoking weed the entire time. She ended up being cooler than the girl I liked kind of funny. Wish her well and hope she found a guy for her and only her. But to answer your question this guy won’t have kids with you or your not the girl he’s trying to date that’s why. Maybe there’s another girl and when she’s gone he’ll settle for you. Maybe he’ll always just use you for sex and bounce out of your life in his own life.

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  • You are rewarding him with sex so he keeps you around. Move on if you want something more serious because at this point he doesn't want a relationship, he just wants a fbuddy.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Sounds like he thinks he's got a fuck buddy. If you want more from him, you're gonna have to talk to him and tell him where you stand.

  • Ever hear the saying, " Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free?"

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Simple answer, yes.

  • You're his fuck buddy so yeah he'll talk to you everyday to keep you sweet.

  • Sounds like its going exactly where he wants it to go

  • Here’s the truth that all women used to understand: once you give up the puss with no commitment from him, why would he commit? He’s getting what he wants without having to. He’s in a power position where he can ditch u at any time and fuck all the way along. Don’t blame men for this, blame yourself, keep it in your pants until you get commitment if you want commitment, men can never respect a girl enough to be serious about her when she acts as you do

    • No need for blame, but it's true what @shamalien says. Don't be surprised that you gave up the gold when he didn't have to dig too hard for it and he wants you to keep shelling it out.

    • I don’t see the need for the blame. I’m 19. I’m young. I get it, it was a mistake to do that and I have learnt from it

    • He’s also 27 so there is quite a gap

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  • yes he would

  • Yes, of course.