Would a guy wait for a girl until she decides to have sex with him?

I been talking to a guy for several months now but I haven’t seen him he says he’s been waiting for 6 months to see me but he always tells me he is horny and stuff.. would he wait no matter how long just until I say yes?
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I guess his tired of waiting and that’s fine because I’ve lied to him
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  • I don't know how long do you plan to make him wait? And why are you making him wait?

    Are you guys exclusive yet or can he still be with other girls?

    Sure relationships are suppose to be more than sex, but sex is important.

    Like if we dont hang out, we dont have sex, and are concerns aren't cared about or taken seriously (which you are kind of doing by ignoring his wants) then why not just be single?
    I can masterbate to porn alone, I dont need a celibate "girlfriend" to do that.

    Like really, why are you making him wait? Are you not attracted to him? Are you waiting till marriage? What is it?

    • What the hell is wrong with you. You don’t even know the story and your telling me what i should do

    • I didn't tell you too do anything. I was just curious why you are making him wait, Sure I said I wouldn't wait too long for a girlfriend that dosent do girlfriend things, but I didn't try to tell you what too do at all.

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  • If the guy really loves the girl then he would wait until she's ready and not give any pressure for sex, but no one will wait forever as everyone has sexual desires to different degrees. If I knew I met the right woman I would wait but I wouldn't wait forever as I feel that isn't really fair. I'm not saying that making a guy wait is wrong but also making them wait too long will turn away a lot of people because they might feel like you don't want to be intimate with them or don't trust them. But if your guy says he's always horny and stuff then he might not be the right guy as he could be pressuring you or just wanting you to put out. Ultimately you decide when you're ready no one can make that decision for you.

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  • Guys who just want sex won't wait long. Guys who want a real relationship will wait for a while - some amount of time they feel is reasonable. Younger guys will usually wait longer, while older, more experienced guys will generally be less willing to wait too long, but most guys will be pretty reasonable.

    No guy is going to wait forever...

  • If he's a gentleman, he'll wait though he may tell you at some point that it's been long enough, that you need to fish or cut bait. Do you want to have sex with him?

  • Depends - if you're the type of girl he knows has done stuff with other guys he ain't waiting for long at all - but if you have told him this as in these are your values that's why you're not ready then he won't mind waiting - So if he doesn't clearly know why tell him..

  • I can't speak for that guy in particular, but yeah there are guys who will wait a really long time. Personally I have no limit on how long I'd wait. Months, years even, doesn't seem that hard

  • Why do you think guys stay around after they get friendzoned?

  • Some might, if they want a relationship, but most younger guys I think just want the fuck.

  • He may if he's been dreaming of having sex with her. He may also be hoping to have a serious relationship with her.

    • I was near his house and he told me why didn’t I see him and I said I’m not going just to get dick and he said you should have seen me

    • I'm not sure what he meant by that. If a guy is desperate he'd probably be willing to wait as long as it took to have sex because he hasn't got anyone else.

  • only if she is worth it

    • Lmfao

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  • I know I would. I like virgin same as me

  • Yes if he loves you truly and person of patience he will wait untill he looses that patience

  • I would insist on meeting any girl soon after we start talking... soon being within 3 werks. At that point, no sex by 3rd date means there won't be a 4th date.

  • I would...

    • It all depends on what you are wanting out of a relationship.

  • I wait up to 2 years, of course with COVID-19 this time period doesn't count.

  • Personally, I wait for sex until we both feel ready for it. That said, if it takes too long to get intimate (not necessarily sex), I'll honestly feel like the girl does not want a romantic relationship and I'll move on.

  • I know I would can't speak for others

  • Yes I would, it would be fun to tease her.

  • If a guy really loves her then they will wait personally i would wait

  • that is the LAW... so he will, if he is not a criminal

  • Only one out of every 10

  • God knows. I would not wait. If I am able to tell you I am horny. I will try to make move.

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