Would a man leave me if I can't fulfil all of his sexual wishes?

[Anonymous]

Hi, I'm single but I'm scared that when I find a partner, he will leave me because I don't like anal or because I'm not very good at deepthroating. Would a man leave me if he finds out I can't suck him off for hours because my mouth gets tired? I have been told that sex 24/7 is the only reason men stick around with one woman.

[Whitemeatchicken]

Don’t worry there are plenty of guys who will date you if you don’t like anal because some understand it hurts the woman and they want sex to be fun. I don’t think they’d dump you about the deepthroating either. However, there is no damage that can be done by giving head. So if it is something you like maybe practice with your future partner. Nothing wrong with being open and forward about your likes or dislikes either BEFORE the relationship gets serious. If there are any dealbreakers they will be know before any hurt feelings.

[OlderAndWiser]

The person who told you that "sex 24/7 is the only reason men stick around with one woman" is looking for an excuse to blame the guy who broke up with her. No, all men are not JUST looking for sex. It is an important part of a relationship but there is more to a relationship that having sex.

You have tried anal and didn't like it. Would you be willing to try it with a partner who you loved and who you trusted? Most guys don't want you to do something that is painful or uncomfortable but resistance to a particular sexual act is sometimes just the result of a bad experience with a partner who didn't know what they were doing. Most guys enjoy receiving oral sex but the deep throat thing is not essential for most guys.

The only way for you to know how relationships work, including sex, is to have a relationship and experience it for yourself. Stop listening to your butthurt friend, stop being afraid, and go experience a relationship for yourself.

[ArrowheadSW]

Any guy who would leave you because you don't like anal, or because you aren't into deepthroating, isn't worth keeping around. A guy who thinks that stuff is that important has issues of some sort. So I say, don't worry about it.

[Asker]

Thank you!

[boggboss]

Whoever told u that is a retard not every guy is into anal and nobody expects u to give head for hours on end a session

[LiamSawyer]

Not if he truly loves you.

[Asker]

Thank you!

[LiamSawyer]

Dm me any time you b feel the need to talk to someone it can help both of us so much.

[ChrisMike1919]

I wouldn't. That's just selfishness to leave someone just because he's not 100% satisfied.

[Asker]

Thanks!

[ChrisMike1919]

You welcome

[Nesetto]

Not for just se to with you most of them. But someone can leave. You just ask and talk it when you flirting. And you will be süre.

[TheFlak38]

if you're in your 30's and still single then you're damaged goods anyway. So don't worry. Just forget it.

[Whitemeatchicken]

Maybe she was in a relationship and is currently looking for a more suitable partner.

[TheFlak38]

@Whitemeatchicken yeah she was dumped because she's damaged goods.

[Asker]

Actually, my ex passed away because of Covid, but yeah, damaged goods if that's what you would rather think

[TheFlak38]

yeah your ex passed away and all you can think about now is how to suck dick.

[Asker]

Well that was nearly 10 months ago, gotta move on at some point and I'm not getting any younger!

[jahaims]

Depends on the guy

[COMMODOREII]

Sex is not the only reason a guy sticks with one woman. That is bullshit.

[chHaynes]

His sexual wishes aren't really crazy 4 a guy but if it is you should just tell him there are some boundaries let him know what you will do and then decide

[Twalli]

I don't have sex 24/7 nor would I want it. I do enjoy anal, but not to the degree it factors into whether or not I would continue dating a woman.

[Valnac]

I don’t like anal.
Doing oral on a guy, just lick/suck the tip, and fondle his balls.
Sex is for a couple of times a week.

[Anonymous]

If a guy leaves u for any of those reasons then he's a dick head. Its more important to have an emotional connection than physical

[Opinion Owner]

Honestly if u were my girlfriend I wouldn't mind if u can't do those stuff id much rather go at ur own pase and id like to get to know u better

[Anonymous]

Depends on the guy.

[Anonymous]

True man would definitely stay with you, hookup guy would leave.

Relationship should be about communication and compromise. And not all men desire anal sex (I don't, no need for anal bacteria).

[Anonymous]

This is not like that, and no one will ask to suck his cock for full day, that is the thing of only 10-15 mins. And still you can denie for that if you want.