Would a scar above your girls vagina be to much?

Okay so I'm 16 and when I was like 5 or 6 i had like 4 small bladder surfers (all three were done in the same spot and only left 1 scar which is about a centimeter wide) well those surgeries didn't fix the problems so they had to go in and redo my whole bladder (Don't remember the names of any of these surgeries sorry) well that surgery was successful but now I have a scar above my vagina (2 actually but one of them you can barely see) and one of the scars pretty much starts about 1 inch from one of my hip bones and goes to about 1 inch from my other (they aren't really nasty looking or to me they aren't but ya know I have had them my whole life pretty much. They mostly look like a really pale part of my skin that just goes in a line) well here in the past few year I have started dating and I have had about 3 serious relationships in during this time. Well the guys in my relationship would start to get sexual and I would tell them about the scars just so they knew ahead of time or whatever. Well in all 3 relationships when they found out they called me disgusting ugly nasty and pretty much anything they could think of. Well I am currently dating a guy and we have been dating for almost 6 months and I'm starting to think about telling him but I don't know how he will react about it. I want to tell him so we can move on if he doesn't want to date anymore but I also don't want to let him go be with someone else. So would you guys be with a girl with a scar?
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  • You have to tell him eventually, if he doesn't want you then you can move on and find someone that will not care about your scars, some guys are petty af, i wouldn't care, you have to let him know so if he is a piece of shit you will find out asap

    • Alright thanks🤞

  • It wouldn't bother me at all.

    • I'm glad it doesn't but think back to your teen years would you have been bothered by it then?

    • No not at all. I would have thought it made you unique and special.

    • Thanks for your help😊

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  • Might not even notice.

    • think back to your teen years would you have been bothered by it then if you noticed?

  • Wouldn’t bother me in any way

    • Would it have bothered you when you were a teen tho

    • Nope

  • We all have scars, so I don't care.

  • You are how old? It sounds like they dont care about you. TBH if you can take the rejection keep telling guys about it and when you find one that doesn't mind you will know you have a keeper. :)

    • I'm 16 and the only guy I have found that isn't completely disguisted by it is gay so I don't know

    • Means you haven't found a guy who likes you and not just your looks.

    • Yea ig but it seems like all of the guys my age or at my school don't want anything from girls besides sex and the competition between the guys to see who can go the furthest with there girl and who has the prettiest girl

  • No scars are awesome. Scars are stories more legit than any tattoo

    • think back to your teen years would you have been bothered by it then?

    • I have had one down the front of my torso since I was 12...

    • I have had mine since i was like 4 or 5. I was barely in school when I had the surgery and now it's just a long scar but it faded a lot

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  • Nope.
    Source: Highschool sweetheart had surgery in that area. Had a scar. Didn't even slow me down.

    • That s good to know. Makes me think that maybe it won't go so bad when/if I tell him

  • There’s no Point in telling him unless he asks

    • Yea but if we end up having sex or doing anything where he would be able to see it then I would at least rather him know ahead of time just so I don't see his horrified reaction

    • If I’m having sex with a girl the least of my problems is a scar

    • Yea but other guys might not see it like that