Would a virgin guy be good at sex?

I mean... I'm a virgin too and I might end up having sex with a virgin. So I wanna know if a virgin guy would be good.. If not, at least will it not be painful? 😂I don't wanna get hurt. Also, any suggestions for first timers? How can I make it less painful and more pleasurable
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  • You might? you are in your late 20s, what the chance of you meeting a virgin guy unless you are specifically looking for a virgin guy, and even then the chance is not high. A virgin guy would obviously not have any experience with real sex but he likely watched porn, like most guys, also a person's potential is also a factor, and sex is not a rocket science, so there is that. Your first time is likely to be painful in any case, it's more to do with hymen than with what the guy is doing, but it's not like you never felt any other kind of pain in your life, and most girls has done that, so there is that. You really should be more worried about not losing your virginity to the wrong guy than you should be worried about the act itself, and if a guy is virgin then he is not a womanizer, so in that sense there is less of a risk, also it's going to be more special if you both are virgins, so that's is the feeling that you should be focusing if you both a virgins.

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  • He's unlikely to be skilled, but that doesn't mean you won't both enjoy it. The most important thing for whether it will hurt or not is if he will take it slow and listen to you.

    Biggest suggestion is to spend at least 10-20 minutes doing foreplay before you get to penetration. You want to be nice and wet, a couple of drops of lube on the head of his cock will help him last longer as well. as make sure there's less friction. It might feel a bit like stretching, it shouldn't feel like sharp pain/tearing, so back off and try again slower if it does.

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  • Based on ur age I'm not sure if u going to do a virgin for ur first time. Finding a virgin at ur age is pretty rare these days. I won't say it's all about doing a virgin... it more like doing it with someone u love and who loves u. My first time was not with a virgin, but he pulled out all the big guns... candles, music, rose petals leading to the room, champagne, he made it magical for me. But when u ready do make sure u know his status. Get tested better safe than sorry... cuz most people don't show symptoms or signs when they have something and majority don't even know unless they get tested. Be safe!!! And most definitely USE PROTECTION!!!

  • The best way to make it pleasurable is to have a connection with your partner, take your time on foreplay and getting comfortable with each other’s bodies. With enough of this, he’ll be hard and you’ll be wet which makes penetration easier and less painful. As for the actual sex, it’s doubtful any virgin would be “good at sex”. as with everything, you’ll get better with practice. Especially practice with the same person.

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  • I was a virgin when I had sex with my then virgin girlfriend.

    I would say, it was among the worst we ever had 😄😄😄

    Looking back, there are many things I believe I could had done better.

    If you want to we can discuss in details. But I'm sure its going to be long.

    • Was it good at the time?

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    • @Twalli as far as the physical sex is concerned, among the worst we had. But that day was very romantic. Over the course of about 10 hours, we fucked 7 times.

  • I can't speak for the pain.
    However as to whether or not it'll be good depends on the two of you.
    I'd recommend take it slow. Have lots of foreplay (foreplay IS sex and dont ever let anyone tell you otherwise), really discuss exactly what you two want to do (biting, sensual touch, hair pulling, positions, etc), and dont have any expectations. Go in with an open mind, explore things together, and don't hold yourself to a high standard. You'll do just fine

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  • It's good if you make it good.
    No guarantee it will be painful or not.
    Advice is know what you like beforehand and don't be afraid to tell him. He'll probably be nervous to hell too!

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    • Oh and if he does end up climaxing quick, don't be afraid to tell him to help you finish. Or ask for lots of foreplay first. Oh and use some lube. The last two will help it hurt less. Good luck and ignore the women who obviously never got a decent sex partner. 🤷😂

    • Thank you! But won't my natural lube help? After all that foreplay I'd probably be really wet 😂

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  • If you love each other than the sex will be good, maybe a little awkward but good none the less.

  • There are benefits to having sex with a virgin.

    The sex being good from get is absolutely, emphatically, NOT one of those benefits.

  • https://badgirlsbible.com/losing-your-virginity
    also i recomend you take a dildo or brush handle fingers whatever you got thats dildo like and fuck yourself while in the shower thius will help with any mess and make it much beter for you when you dcide to do it and won't mess your bed up nearly as much or at all in some cases have fun use protection or the pill or whatever

  • My partner of almost four years and I lost our virginities to each other. He had obviously seen porn and knew the basics of what to do, plus we were both adults and we had a grasp on what to do regardless. Sex isn't THAT hard to figure out. It was great for us but definitely had some painful moments but nothing that terrible. If you're actually horny and ready then you should be good. Biggest suggestion is bring lube.

  • You may have some pain, whether the guy is a virgin or not. The real issue, is if the guy will be gentle and considerate. Those traits don't depend on being a virgin or not.

  • Will still be painful and he may need a couple rounds to have any endurance or maybe he won’t. If he has experience with his hand it could relay to sex. Just don’t expect it all right away, sometimes guys need to get comfortable with sex to be any good.

  • Not likely, but there could be exceptions. The first time I had sex, I went down on her orally, and ended up giving her an orgasm that drove her up the wall. She even told me that after she caught her breath. As far as being inside her, I only lasted about a minute before exploding.

  • Yeah it would you try some many sexual things together

  • Its not gona be good sex no 0 chance but ur still gona enjoy it, my biggest tip is communication, if u wana ask anything shoot me a pm

    • Thanks girl But I do hope it's not that bad

  • I wouldn't count on it - it's a roll of the dice. It's probably good that he will be as nervous as you, and when you tell him to be gentle, I'd like to think that he would be eager to please (if he's not, tell him to stop - you deserve better). Take it really slowly - the anticipation will be thrilling and things will go more smoothly. Don't expect fireworks - you're both trying something for the first time, so will be learning as you go. The most important thing is to communicate - provide lots of feedback. You are going to have a much more fulfilling sex life if your partner knows what you like and what you don't.

  • There's no experience so most likely not

  • If he did his homework, he'll do tons of foreplay before going in. Make sure you're aroused and wet enough, otherwise it's just gonna hurt. It'll hurt a bit anyway, but that pain is supposed to turn into pleasure pretty quickly. Also, COMMUNICATE, clearly. Tell him what feels good, what doesn't, what you want him to try to do, etc.

  • Maybe. If he is gentle and caring what can go wrong? Only way he could be bad is if he goes at it hard and doesn't respect what you want. The rest is up to both to explore together. First times are almost never good sex wise but might be good intimacy and bounding experience. It won't be explosions and orgasms the first time. It is not like in the movies. It is messy. No on is good the first time. Anyone who claim that is a liar. After a while with the same partner when both becomes comfortable it gets really good.

  • If it's clear that you're both virgin he would be good. Just remember to talk with him

  • A virgin guy can be good at sex, but he will never know what he is doing.
    I didn't have a virgin girl so all the time i have been instructed, how to do evrething. But afther i get inside and get acomodate whit evrething i start to do a good work, my first one didn't belive me that i'm a virgin, she tell me about other virgins and how they get scared about what is hapening and they are not able to go farther.

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  • If there confident its more likely to be good.

  • Honestly it probably won't be great the first time, but the good thing is if he is a virgin he probably won't last very long so if it is uncomfortable or painful it will be quick.

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