Would do some guys get hard from talking to a girl on the phone during a normal conversation?

I dont mean like phone sex but say if you are just having a regular conversation. Non sexual.

This has happened to me before with different guys in past and they would tell me that their dick got hard but at a later date.
Why does this happen sometimes and they'll keep quiet about it?
Would do some guys get hard from talking to a girl on the phone during a normal conversation?
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One funny story, was that I was working as on the customer service helpline and was speaking to an angry customer about his car that had been clamped. I managed to calm him down and was able to find solution which he was satisfied with. However , as I about the end the call the guy told me that I had a very soft and relaxing voice and proceeded to try flirt with me over the phone lol!
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  • Sometimes when your own the phone you might whisper or somethinf and its just enough to make a connection to sexual thoughts. Guys won't bring it up then and there because they know they should probably try and be a gentleman and if they told you then and there they have a boner you might think they aren't listening to you. When most of the time they are listening to you you just said something or said it in a way that was JUST seductive enough to get him going.

  • You've probably have an ASMR material voice

    • I dunno should I do question where I make voice recording?

    • I'd love to hear how your voice sounds like

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  • I get that all the time. It seems as if any guy I talk to over the phone is always telling me that. They know I'm not trying to seduce them. We could be talking about children, the weather, or even about a good book. Or just having a good laugh. Then I'm hearing "you got my dick, so hard". They call just to hear my voice, to get turned on.

  • Yea that turns me off. Like im not even tryna turn you on rn so calm down. I can't tell how many guys had a jerk session during our convo without me knowing. I was pretty pissed but they got what they came for ig

    • You too? Like I don't know why the conversation could be about the weather and they still will play... At least its nice to know im not the only one

    • Yea people are weird

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  • It happens because the penis has a mind of its own; I've gotten hard from looking at linoleum. A conversation, however banal, with someone I was attracted to could easily do the job.

    And they probably keep quiet about because 1. it can be kind of embarrassing and 2. even if you're in a relationship with a guy, you probably don't expect constant Penis Status updates.

  • When I give an answer its straight because your intelligence is high standard. It's all about age and maturity and there are those like myself who got through the cracks at an early age. Under 23 still a young man but depending on his testosterone level he could be motivated by urge or non interest but lust plays a healthy role depending on the sacrifice. Under 18 you mean 11. You get the picture after 30 starts for some men maturity responsibility experience failure just to name a few that's why. Once the switch is on you can't turn it off.

  • Your voice. YESSSS IN A HEART BEAT

  • They're likely just thinking about where the conversation may lead to soon in the future. Take it as a massive compliment

  • Just the attention and affection we feel. We feel chosen, you could be doing anything at all, and you chose to talk to me. Makes us feel special so might get an excitement boner.

    Not sure why they're telling you tho, that seems a bit odd to say.

  • It probably has something to do with a woman's voice and their imaginations. Kind of creeps me. out now thinking about it.

  • Actually if I have a crush on her maybe or if I have sext, flirt or done something before with that person non the phone I might get horny and hard. But if it's normal conversation with a random just like that no, unless the conversation starts turning kinky and flirty.

  • Honestly I could never speak on the behalf of guys, being we don’t share one
    common, universal brain, to the contrary of some women’s beliefs. I however
    have never gotten physically stimulated or aroused talking on the phone.


    I’ve never been into phone sexing, video sexing nor sexting via messages.
    That’s like taking me window shopping for food I crave but can’t afford to
    have at that time. I feel the same about nude or vivid photo sharing. If I want
    you, I don’t give a turtle dove’s turd or a partridge in a pear tree, about no
    damn image. What am I supposed to do with a picture?


    Nah!!! See you at home later! 😌💭

  • It depends on the conversation and the sound of your voice. A more sensual sounding voice can have an effect, intended or not. And obviously what you talk about can have an impact too. As you have stated, non-sexual... I'm honestly not sure what we could talk about him sexual wise to do that 🤔 maybe sexual themed vs sex talk. Simply talking about a sex store or sexy clothes could do it while it's not a sex based conversation specifically

    • Yup I agree with the guy, it is soft and relaxing :)

  • I am sure either sex can get turned on!

    • Through normal conversation?

    • Sure you can have a normal conversation but you mind is off somewhere else

  • I get hard a lot and for many reasons as long as the girl is attractive lol

    • But you can't physically see her you still will get hard in other ways?

    • If I know her in person which 100% of the time I do since I don’t do dating apps. Yes, I do get hard since I’m already imagining her naked even before the call lol

    • Makes sense

  • Maybe your voice is sexy I dunno. An amazing voice is actually a bonus. It's never been the case with me though but then again I have only a few female friends lmao.

  • Gosh, I would not have that. It would take personal contact, or maybe sexy pics or images to get me so far.

  • It's simply due to the voice. My best friend she has well a really sexy voice So cannot really help it. I don't keep quite about it she knows i sometimes do lmao. I straight up just say. Because i know she's comfortable with it. Which honestly makes her a great friend.

  • It's because they have feelings for you. The conversation doesn't have to be sexual to get an affection erection.

    • Hahaha. "Affection erection." That's a new one.

  • I rarely experience this. Happens mostly when i am talking with a girl i find attractive. I would imagine her next to me, feeling her breath on my skin. Even though we are talking about casual stuff, I could still get hard and find myself stroking my erect penis over my pants. I dont feel ashamed though.

  • Well if they find the girl attractive or find her voice nice.. Or both then that'll happen.. I mean I've had girls touchin themselves on the phone while we were talkin.. 😂.. But I think they whole purpose for callin me was to do just that.

  • Someone sound of voice attract sexually at phone no matter he or she talking normal not sexual , mostly it happen when we have a happiness to talk to someone whom we like but don't propose or represent our emotions

  • Women's voices kinda a adds the sensual feeling within men. While on phone while listening to a girl the kind of voice tempo will create certain trigger in men's mind. Something men get certain thoughts while on line. But we usually won't say as we think it wilould be pervert thought

  • Dicks get hard when we hear a girls voice and we think she's stroking her pussy and this drives us crazy, one time my ex-girlfriend was home alone and she called me and you could tell she was playing with herself and she said, that she had to watch getting wet cause her Mother would try to get her placed back in the State Hospital so she had change her panties when she was done.

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