Would I be over the top to surprise him with a blowjob in public?

I want to do something else with my husband than sex at night in the bed, I miss going out with him on dates, dancing, etc (but corona...).

Is it over the top if I meet him (I will text him this) outside his work when he is off with a sandwich or some food he likes when he is off (he is off early enough, we would have a couple of hours before kids are done at school). Then take him somewhere because I wan’t to “buy someting”, but surprise him with not wearing panties or some like that and take him to the wc to give him a blowjob? Sex in public really turns me on.
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  • You know him better than we do, what do you think? Does his personality suggest that he might? You would/should know this already. Some guys would find that great, others may not like that at all. But try not to get wrapped up in how YOU would feel (ie exciting for you), would it be for him? And if you're really not sure (you need to get to know your husband better if so lol), then try asking him sometime if a situation like that would turn him on? Then surprise him with it some day.

    • Good points to consider

  • That works. It’s always worth spicing things up.

    obviously with all things in public, definitely do not get caught, it can have job related issues, such as losing it.

    but yeah done similar lots of times, I love risky sex and opportunist sex, literally anywhere.

    I think it started from fingering girlfriend on bus to school or her masturbating me.
    usually with jumper over our laps and trying to keep a straight face. That and finishing before the bus stop lol.

    • Thanks😊 wouldn’t do it as his job though, i am not that risky haha.😄

    • Have done it at work before. There are lots of variations as well, I like setting the scene for it, note in lunch box etc. For example, yours could be ‘meet me at xxx at such time, I’m wearing a skirt, hope it does not get to windy sexy wink emoji’ type of thing. Once you get in to it, variation is great. We tried a random picking of place, doing etc and who to. So random bits of fold paper, with name of place and time, what to wear, what was thing to do, and who recipient was.

    • That’s a great idea, to create some anticipation and build up

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  • I get that you might want to surprise him but I'd swap fantasies with him first and see how he reacts.

  • I think he would love that. Can't imagine he wouldn't. by the way, I take lunch from 12-1.

  • No, go for it

  • He's your husband and if it is in the privacy of a stall then go for it.

  • Any ways to add some fuel to the fire are great ideas. And everyone has their own way of doing that. Life has no rules. Do what feels good to you!

  • Would I be over the top to surprise him with a blowjob in public?

    You can do it!

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  • yeah.. it would be fucking sexyyyy

  • Instead of telling him you want to buy something, tell him that you have a surprise for him. This would prepare him more for what you are planning. Make sure you go somewhere secluded so you don't get arrested for indecent exposure. I would love it if my woman did something like that for me. It would be a real turn on for me.

  • I see nothing wrong with this

  • Go for it lol

  • Sure, why not.

  • It would be great as doing similar kind of positions and place my ruins ur sex life.. u can occasionally go for something beyond his imagination. and surprise him.. he will definitely turn onn at the moment

  • you should try, all he can say is "no thank you"

  • You would have to be really discreet go somewhere you can get it done quickly

  • Sounds fucking awesome. I know I'd love that.

  • Sound like a good porn movie but you can't do this practically if he is not prepared mentally 😊