Would it be a major turn off if your partner moaned somebody else's name while climaxing?

Imagine you and your SO having good sex... And
then they cry out name that's not yours... What would you do?
Would it be a major turn off if your partner moaned somebody elses name while climaxing?
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  • Unless they were joking I'd kick them out then and there. I don't like hearing about exes outside of bed, if I hear about them in bed, when our focus should be on each other, fuck that. They're gone, like that moment, they can get dressed on the yard and figure out what to do from there.

    Only way that's happening is if someone's cheating, or trying really really hard to imagine you're someone else simply because that other person won't cheat with them. If they haven't cheated yet, they will, no time or effort for games like that.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I'd like to think I'd do something witty, like call out someone else's name- what's she going to do? Say "My name isn't Larry!"? Or maybe do the Ben Stein thing and say ::Intensely:: "Oh, yes, that's it, right there, oh-" ::Deadpan:: "Bueller? Bueller? Bueller?"

    Realistically, though, I'd probably just shrug it off. I didn't think I was dating a virgin (unless I was; that might warrant some looking into), and everyone has a sexual history. And expecting people to always be verbally precise IN THE THROES OF AN (ideally) INTENSE ORGASM is just kind of silly. It's not exactly a self-esteem boost, but mistakes happen. To my mind, cheating is a big deal- calling out the wrong name isn't.

Most Helpful Girls

  • First off where was their mind set when the sexual engagement started, obviously not on you
    Each individual has a way of of bringing forth stimulation, climax, etc
    Some use virtual, there's sights, sounds, smells, virtual,& verbal communication, but never someone's else's name
    unless in raity agreed upon which is creepy
    So in my opinion total turn off & disrespectful ✌️

  • I personally wouldn't take it well & would be leaving as soon as i could get my clothes & shoes on. I would need time to process this before we talked about it.

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  • GOOD-BYE, GUY!!! xxoo

    • Hoe Hurtful!!! xx

  • He would have a zip tie around his dick, real fast, as I threw his ass out the front door.

    Would it be a major turn off if your partner moaned somebody else's name while climaxing?
  • 1. Under normal circumstances.. yes.. it'll be a turn off
    2. If we're role playing.. then it'll be a turn on
    3. If I'm climaxing too.. then I'll better enjoy it first and climax myself.. and then take time to feel turned off 🤣🤣

    • Hahaha I agree with this guy 🤣🤣

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  • That would be a mood killer and probably bring an abrupt halt to the festivities!

  • Yeah. Just a little,

    this is likely why I tend to avoid names during sex lol

    • 😝🔥🤭😆 Way to go, Chris!

    • @anon1903 I may have called a girl I was dating by her sisters name (who I dated at school).

    • Oh my goodness

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  • Nahhh! But we have an open relationship so it's different lol

  • I be more than OK if she screamed out something like, "Oh, Superman, yessss, more, more, more!
    I'll be pretty hurt if it was some other name.

  • I would moan her best friends name and say your here, finally I do waiting for you and then she said anything I would close my eyes and roll off of her and say what I did not say that, if I do that must have been sleep fucking and then I would up and start walking towards the door I turned back around saying they look I'm sleepwalking

  • It would be a bummer. I'd finish the sex after an orgasm and ask her about it afterward. It probably was an honest mistake in the middle of sex.

  • Honestly, that would turn me on tremendously...

  • No, I'd assume we were role playing and I'd start calling her Brooke Shields.

  • Is that really a thing?

  • Honestly as a man, if this happened with me I lost all my interests immediately turn off and loose my erection even if she say sorry I never maintained my erection at that moment but sure next day I talk to her and try to forget it..

  • Yeah I'd be kind of devastated that somebody else was on his mind while I was getting him to the most pleasurable thing he feels in his life

  • Probably. But unless it is a really casual relationship, I doubt this really happens unless the guy is a screwball.

  • Hell yeah it would be. I want her to be moaning and fantasizing about me, not an ex or celebrity crush or whenever turned her on.

    Quick way to kill the mood and me not wanting to be around her for a bit.

  • Uhhh yeah. 100%. Unless we were roleplaying and both of us have fake names.

  • I'd probably be fine with it. And then do it myself back. If a person wants to think about someone else while doing it i don't see it as a bad thing. I only see it as bad if there actually cheating.

  • Kick her out.
    Ghost her.

  • Not really. Shit happens

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