Would it make me seem slutty?

[Anonymous]

I got into a tiff with the guy I'm seeing (my fault) and he is upset with me. I was gonna be suggestive in a text saying something like "I'm sure there is something I can do to make it up to you...😋" would that be slutty or desperate?

[God_of_Thunder]

I'm not sure about other guys, but that would just piss me off more.

I understand you mean well, but I hate when a woman tries to use sex as a way to make me get over why I'm upset in the first place.

It just suggests to me that she doesn't take my feelings seriously, and that, since I'm a guy, she can just appeal to my penis and everything will be all better. It makes it seem like she thinks I'm a simpleton.

[MannMitAntworten]

If that was sent to me I hope she is meaning a new fly rod , a new rifle, a new set of golf clubs, or a car or truck.

[Asker]

You must have never had a good bj lol

[MannMitAntworten]

You would be correct. This being said, I am also not ruled by my dick.

[Asker]

He isn't either, but I'm the only one that has ever made him cum from a BJ soooo I think it's pretty good lol

[MannMitAntworten]

I have just never been one to enjoy sex as a reward, a weapon, or as an apology. Feels too much like being trained like a pet is why.

[dandiecandie]

I think you should ask to meet and talk about it in hopes of coming to a solution and making a final decision. This entails that you first analyse what you did and then analyse if he is reacting in a reasonable manner to what you did. After doing so you can ask to meet and talk face to face about it.

[WilliamY]

If he’s still pissed that comes off as desperate.

[Asker]

Thanks, I dont want that. I just wanted to make him laugh and think about something else but don't want to come off desperate

[WilliamY]

Give him time and space to cool down. Once you feel like he’s not as mad, then it’s ok to be flirty.

[Asker]

Thanks for the input

[WilliamY]

You are welcome.. guys are different than girls. We wanna crawl into our caves and sulk a bit. Girls get concerned about losing that connection. He will come back to you, no worries.

[Anonymous]

It wouldn’t be slutty, but it would be better if you got past this spat/waited until he’s not upset to begin doing stuff like that.

[Anonymous]

If you like him, be slutty and pretend he is important to you. He will eat it up.

[waterniggbone]

That's... really fucked up and I hope a guy does the same to you and breaks your heart