Would love comes before sex?

[Scotte1us]

If you have 2 boyfriend or girlfriend and one of them great in sex but no love and other one you love but the sex is not as good as the other one, what would you prefer?

[Sangita93]

Love definitely comes before sex. Love and sex are two different things, but if love is present, then sex is as well, but in modern societies, it is believed that you can easily have sex without love or any lasting effects. However, there are many reasons why love and sex go together because love and sexual desire come from the same place. Both emotional love and sexual desire are from the insular cortex but we can choose to have sex when love is not present, but it can be difficult for emotions to handle.

As sexual desire and love lead to some of the same reactions in brain, it is easy to confuse what you are experiencing. This is why some people struggle to think that they are in love after they have sex. This makes sex even better when you are in love because you are getting a double dose of the chemicals that make you feel good. When love is present, the sexual experience is better and more fulfilling. That means casual sex - one-night stands will never be able to stand up to the complete sexual experience that love can provide. When love is present, trust is also present. Trust adds a certain level of comfort to the relationship, including in sex. When you are making love with someone that you fall in love with, you are not worried about being judged, you can be more open during the sexual experience. You can easily share the things that you like and what you do not like. You will not be afraid to ask for the things that you want. As you know you are loved, you can relax at a level that you cannot reach when love is absent during sex.

Sex is more meaningful with love, sexual desire is one way to show love to another person. You can have sex without love being present, but then sex is just sex. There is nothing more to it. Even if you physically enjoy it, there will be a level of emptiness or regret that comes with making love when love is absent. You know that it leads to nothing else. Emotional needs are being met as well as physical needs in love.

People try unsuccessfully to fill the void of love with sex but there is no lasting positive impact from a one-night stand or empty sex. Marriages without sex struggle or fail is a popular fact. It is a real problem in marriage that leads to all kinds of other issues. In marriage, making love communicates a level of love and desire. Therefore, if your spouse refuses to have sex with you, the message you are communicating is that you do not desire them physically, which makes them feel that you do not love them either. This causes distances, arguments, and hurt feelings throughout the marriage.

[Hiponit]

Love is the greater asset. Enjoying sex can be learned between partners