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Would this be ok to ask or not?

So I feel a chemistry between this guy and my self I workout with him 5 days a week and we have tons in common it’s almost like we have lived parallel lives it’s almost freaky how alike we are. Anyway, he has a girlfriend but she’s horrible and he flirts with me while we workout and we make eachother laugh a lot etc and he’s told me what his dreams are and how many kids he wants etc. I kind of want to ask him if he was single if he’d be interested in me but I don’t know. What do you think would that be an ok hypothetical to ask?
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Superb Opinion

  • Ask yourself, if you were his girlfriend and he had another woman as a workout partner, how would you be looking at this situation. If you ask and he starts dating you, how much will you trust him down the road especially when you inevitably have a rough patch.

Most Helpful Guy

  • You can ask anything. It's called mate-poaching. But you go gurl. :)
    And no, you don't have parallel lives. Dear lord.

    Fucking around at work is a really bad idea. Well, unless you can easily get another job. Cuz when it all blows up, which it surely will, one or both of you will have to look for a new job. There's even a quip for this, Don't shit where you eat!

    • We don’t work together we workout together haha

    • Then go for it! If you're better - cuter, sexier, more compatible, figure he'll dump her for you. Guys do it too.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Go ahead an ask

  • I just ask you this. Is your happiness more important than hers... all is fair in love and war... if you want some thing fight for it. Earn it... make him see you for who you are... And he’ll come for you

  • I would never date anyone from the gym. If it went sideways i would have to find another place to workout so, no.

  • Ask himThe next time you see him

  • Yes in my opinion. You’re not crossing any lines if it’s a hypothetical 🤷🏾‍♂️.

  • Probably not a good idea to ask it as a hypothetical. He could like you even if he's in a relationship, but won't do anything because he likes his relationship too much.

  • U can ask and see what happens

  • Work out to the song Girlfriend by Avril Lavigne every time he’s there. See what his reaction is.

  • You just have a conversation with him about his relationship with his girlfriend. Nd then let's decide.

  • Just ask him

    • That would be ok to ask even though he has a current girlfriend?

    • If you don't ask then you won't know the answer

  • Ok firstly is this guy the trainer?
    A. If yes go for it. If it goes pear shapped just laugh it off.
    B. If no he's just a guy at the gym... again go for it. Worst case is he starts going to a new gym but if you never do then it will always be a what if.
    C. If you are the trainer... WTF you can't you could ruin your job and get a bad name professionally

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