Would you agree that only very few percentages of men get constant sex from women?

[Anonymous]

Women only feel strong lust to these type of men
*Tall
*Handsome (strong jaw, symmetrical face, nice hair)
*Wide Body Frame (Broad shoulders, strong biceps and chest)
* Masculine (Assertive, Dominant, Confident, Decisive)

But these men are the minority of male population. 5% maybe.

Rest of these men get sex here and there but not as much as these guys. When women see these top guys they get aroused very quickly, these guys spark strong sexual desire.

And most of the time these top guys get the majority of one night stands and casual sex. Women even cheat on their partners with these guys.

Because women desire these tall, good looking, masculine males strongly and give them sex easily, unconditionally.

But average men have to get in commited relationships, buy gifts and go at least 17 dates and wait months to get sex.

[RagnarRedbeard]

It's true to an extent. There are obviously guys who have no trouble attracting women and guys who have a lot of trouble.

I think that guys really focus too much on things they can see visually though, or things that they can measure, numbers. It's not quite as simple as that.

I've known guys with crappy jobs driving around in crappy cars who always have attractive girlfriends and get laid plenty. I've known fat motherfuckers who look like toads who do also. I'm no oil painting and I've never really had a problem even back when I was broke.

I've also known guys who are tall, good looking, have good jobs, drive nice cars, generally have their shit together, who really struggle. They either get friend-zoned all the time or they end up with women who walk all over them. Or they just get the girl's attention initially and then it all goes to pot as soon as they open their mouths because they have no game at all.

I'd say that it has a lot more to do with behaviour than anything else. There are certain personality traits which women find more attractive than others. regardless of everything else, although of course being tall and good looking doesn't hurt.

It's the masculine traits you mentioned at the end. When I look at the difference between the kinds of guys I mentioned above that's the main difference I see. The good looking men who struggle are usually not that confident, overly "soft". The ugly ones who do well are usually very confident, assertive, dominant etc. despite the fact.

Also if you think about it all of those physical traits are visual signs of masculinity, but it's the vibe that matters. That's what gets you laid.

Most guys don't get laid as easily as they could really because of lack of confidence and bad ideas about what women actually want. Our culture in general and women in general will encourage "beta" behaviour and "beta" beliefs, and counter-signal hard against opposite behaviours because that's the way players act. They don't want to encourage guys to be players understandably, but there's a reason they're called players - they get laid a lot.

[Asker]

Ugly men acting masculine and confident is creepy to girls. I dont say this girls say it all the time.

[RagnarRedbeard]

When will guys here ever learn to stop taking so much notice of what women say? Jesus Christ, every single time, this is your downfall. Women also say that they prefer nice guys and that they hate players and bad boys. Who gets laid more? Players and bad boys. “But women say they like nice guys”. Women say that a man who cries and shows his emotions is more of a real man than a man who doesn’t. Women say that a man who is willing to wear a dress is more attractive than a man who won’t because the man in the dress is more secure in his masculinity, and is therefore more masculine. They’re not logical creatures. What women say and what they respond to are often two completely different things.

[Asker]

Women say they care about personality and don't care about looks. Well according to your statement that means...

[RagnarRedbeard]

It doesn’t mean that absolutely everything they say is wrong, or that the opposite is always true. What I mean is that watching their behaviour is more important than listening to the things they say.

[razelove]

Well fuck, I was going to argue but I do fit your bullet points up top. So ok, yeah, it is much easier getting laid if you have those characteristics, but I know plenty of guys who share those with me and are still getting pulled around by their dick because they lack confidence. That is the ultimate one to possess along with any shred of a sense of humor, having a big dick doesn't hurt either.

So, your point about that being a small part of the population, spot on, but then only a small part from men needs to get the women pregnant for there to be a next generation, so from my perspective, I see no issues... You say 5%? That sounds about right for women currently choosing to have kids, probably about 5% that are able to have children at any given time. So, what is your question? My opinion is that this skews it in my favor that likely there are more kids of mine running around than the ones I have, I'm married and still hook up with other women on occasion who know I'm married, and my wife knows I'm hooking up with them.

I want to point out all these choices are driven by women for more selective mating. I didn't choose this paradigm, I just benefit from it. If short, old, bald guys were the breeders, I'd just be real friendly with my right hand.

[variety5160]

I have do not completely agree with your theory. If you are doing it right, it will not take that long to get her to have sex with you. The sad thing about your theory is that it leaves the impression that sex is the end goal of dating a woman. Women prefer that sort of man just as much as men prefer long legs, a perfect fit body, and big breasts. I can't speak for all women, but speaking for myself, I prefer a man who adores only me, pays attention to me, and makes me feel special. I would rather have that kind of man rather than the good-looking man you have described. If he happens to be good-looking as well, then that is even better.

[Anonymous]

Okay now back in reality, many women feel they aren’t good looking enough etc to get the top men, so they choose men with less attractive looks who they feel they’re on equal par with. Savvy?

[Opinion Owner]

My guy friends say it’s not that hard and if you try hard enough you’ll get it.

[Opinion Owner]

There are lots of trade offs in life. Don’t ever see it in black and white because you’ll be way off the mark.

[ChrisMaster69]

Yeah obviously the above is true this is why we have an out of control population.

what a sad and jaded view of life and deeming to women (for a change)

I guess men thinking like this is why they likely never get sex, as they fail to realise it’s not actually what the goal is.

[Asker]

Yeah that's why where women become free and liberated birth rates are booming. (Sarcasm)

[ChrisMaster69]

Yeah I can see that in Africa and India...

[wankiam]

do i agree? no

[Josh4206]

Maybe, sex isn't a requirement though

[DiegoO]

Do you really think sex is this holy thing you should have more access to?

Sex is sex, you fuck, you cum, and life keeps going. The only thing that makes it meaningful is the emotional bond we create with our sexual/romantic partner. Take away the emotional aspect and you got nothing else than a mechanic act.

[MountAverage]

You need to get out of your online incel manopshere, out of your mom's basement or whatever cave you're dwelling, and out of your delusions. Everything you just said is completely delusional insanity. All that ridiculous talk about jaw bones and what not. You are insane. You need professional help.

Here in the real world (if you had ever bothered to pay attention) people from all walks of lives, with all sorts of different looks and physiques, are in relationships and hook up. What you need to learn to understand and accept, is that the reason no woman wants anything to do with you, is not because of your stupid ass jaw that no one cares about. Nor is it because of you height. No, it is simply because you are a social cripple, don't know how to interact with women other than in extremely creepy and inappropriate ways, ooze self-consciousness, with bitterness and resentment to women that they can sense a mile away. Those are the reasons you're a lonely loser.

Short guys have girlfriends. Fat guys have girlfriends. Guys with "weak" jawlines have girlfriends. And they're not wealthy. You're shifting the blame so you can feel better about yourself. You're creating all these delusional reasons about bone structures (seriously, WTF is wrong with you incels?) and what not so you don't have to face the reality of you just being shitty personalities that everyone around you are disgusted by.

Introspection is one if the single most important features of any human being. And that's the problem with you incels - you're entirely incapable of it.

[Asker]

Lol you have no idea.

[MountAverage]

Yeah, I bet it's indeed even worse than I think. But it's never too late to get help and improve your life. I'm serious. Good luck!

[AFellowWeeb]

Tottaly
How many sexual partners does the average college girl have? ↗

[Waldoe]

no question?

[EaterPeter]

I agree.

[cehelop979edultrycom]

women don't lust after men body, women lust after men personality and masturbate to personality

[Asker]

Hahahahahaha lol Chris Hemsworth, Henry Cavill and many others would think differently.

[cehelop979edultrycom]

It's because of their personality not because of their body

[DiegoO]

Hmmm, not from what I know. Women's also feel physical atraction. What makes the difference is that culturally it's Ok for us to make it public, or validate that atraction, but for women, it's still a problem. They can't say they like muscular guys without been accused of been superficial.

[Daydriad]

@DiegoO Wrong, when we think of a man sexually, it's usually his assertiveness/confidence/status/aura during sex that arouses us. Nobody fantasizes about some low IQ muscular gym trainer.

[DiegoO]

@Daydriad Nobody have something sexual without some emotional component attached. Women's are sexual as men, and women's feel physically attracted to men, like any men, with a woman.

[Daydriad]

@DiegoO Then why do prostitutes exist? For the emotional connection?

[DiegoO]

@Daydriad Prostitution is a business.

[Daydriad]

@DiegoO Yes, driven by demand from who?

[Asker]

@Daydriad yeah next time imagine someone who is short, balding and fat with great confidence and aura.

[Daydriad]

He can be an average looking 6/10, not a 7/10 or 8/10, but women will still fantasize about him more than the others if he exudes charisma and power more than the others. You clearly don’t understand women.

[Asker]

@Daydriad I know masculine behaviors and charisma matter and i mentioned that in the question already. But you can't deny the importance of looks. If an ugly guy who has 3/10 or 4/10 looks act masculine women will call him creepy and pervert. You can't act confident or masculine without having decent looks. Looks matter more than behaviors. If a guy is really good looking then his behaviors don't even much matter due to halo effect. Trust me i know women very well.

[Daydriad]

Well to each their own. Anyone who's a 3 or 4 can work on their hygiene, style, work out to bump up to a 5. And it's not because you make out of-the-blue advances that you're "masculine" or "confident". You start by being friends and making her laugh, showing her that you're a responsible and reliable person, comfortable in your skin, have ambitions, all that stuff. Then after she sees this, you start to tease her friendlily. A cocky/overconfident 8/10 jerk is a huge turn off for me. I'd personally rather a 6/10 or a 5/10 who can make me laugh, protect me when I need it, have intelligent conversation, is witty and charismatic. Those things will turn me on more than a 7 or 8. Then again, to each their own.

[Asker]

@Daydriad riiiiiiiiiiiight sure.

[cehelop979edultrycom]

@Daydriad so you are saying you don't feel sexual attraction when you see attractive men in the street until you get to know him, until you get to know his intelligence?

[Asker]

She is lying dude. Have you ever watchad women reacting random hot men in Youtube? Women care looks more than men they are as visual as us. They lie about this to not look shallow or they afraid because they need men for their resources also. They have to pretend like they desire ugly rich guys.

[Anonymous]

Only 5% or 10% of men get constant sex from women outside relationships.

Inside a relationship, most men might if they happen to be with a high drive partner, and won't if they are with a low drive partner, no matter what they look like. You can look around questions on this site and find women with fat out of shape partners who are too tired to have sex as much as their partner wants, and there are plenty of couples where it's the same thing in the opposite direction.

If you want lots of sex, and you're not a total chad, find a compatible partner who has a high drive, and don't settle with a partner who doesn't.

[Anonymous]

dude, you sound like a virgin!
the only reason you feel finding a girl is hard is because you sit on your couch and think to yourself "why I don't have a bitch on my dick?" and you answer yourself "girls have high standards, that's why"
I will assure you if you take your butt in a cafe you will have more chance of finding a girl than sitting in your house

[Anonymous]

Yes I would agree