Would you appreciate or judge?

What if someday a girl you know, said what's on their mind. For example, they want to have sex with you. Would you appreciate their honesty or judge her as a slut?
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  • I'd definitely appreciate the honesty even if I might be confused or weirded out initially, assuming you're just a stranger and not a friend, lol.

    Your question kind of implies that the two options are mutually exclusive, but you're gonna judge what someone says one way or another, and even if you meant "judge negatively", I can still do that and appreciate the honesty. Having said that, I don't see "slut" as something negative, and I wouldn't assume just based on that whether or not she is a slut. Even if I did, I don't think it matters, because it's just a label. What matters is what you do, and telling me that you'd like to have sex with me is at worst just gonna confuse or weird me out. Either way I'll be flattered, and if you were a girl that I knew well, or if she's a friend, I wouldn't be weirded out at all. It might even make me happy. I might be happy either way, but it'd really depend on how you tell me then ^^

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  • If I knew the girl well I would appreciate her honesty. Having said that, if we have known each other for a long time and the guy is into you, I would first ask him where he sees your relationship going. Does he see you as a friend or does he think it could be more serious.

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  • Most people would love her honesty because it would turn them on

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  • It's not mutually exclusive, I could appreciate her honesty and judge her, but in the end of the day if she a slut is about how many guys had fucked her, it's just that bold girls more likely to be sluts.

  • I appreciate brutal honesty for starters and if you want don't even try, you'll never know. If he says "no" life goes on, no worries. I'd rather live with a "no" than never try. Plus, most guys love sex, so he'll probably say "yes".

  • Appreciate their honest.

    Honesty should always be appreciated.
    We don't get a lot of that in the world

  • Appreciate greatly. Would be greatfull that a girl trusts me and would not betray that trust. X

    • Fear is only an illusion cast by our piers and our perception of moral conformity. The only struggle is within, acceptance is personal, Retribution is personal. We never know if we never go. Do and accept who you are is just being human. X

  • First of all I will be surprised to hear it mam, but I won't judge her for it cause I always say that I like people who are direct in their approach.
    So I would Thank her for telling me honestly how she feels and say sorry for I can't have sex with her.

  • Neither. I'd just say, "okay". What's to think about?

  • appreciate. i can't read minds. and would mean am desired.

  • I would be excited and really happy about it if I liked her, if I wasn't into her at all I’d feel embarrassed. I don’t think I would automatically think they’re a slut

    • Why you feel embarrased?

  • I definitely would not think of her as a slut, regardless of our relationship / the situation. All people are sexual beings and have desires, let's not make it a gender specific entitlement.

  • I'd probably laugh.

  • I wouldn’t judge. There’s no reason to at all. I would just see if I was into her and then act accordingly: have sex if I like her, be a gentleman and nicely declined if I don’t.

  • I'd appreciate it because it's flattering to know that a girl is attracted enough to me to want to have me between her legs.

  • Depends on our relationship and what she looks like, i may turn her down or i may accept

  • Appreciate her honesty and apologize for being already in a relationship.

  • Honesty is always best and you can't judge a girl badly for being honest...

  • I love it.

    • Why?

    • Well, because I can't read minds

  • If she says it, we're gonna do it

  • If a girl told me that I'd probably have sex with them. I wouldn't judge at all

  • I would be flattered and appreciate her honesty.

  • ehhhh, I would first try to find out if im being punkd or pranked. if not then 'fuck it why not'.

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