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Would you ask sexual questions on a first date?

On a first date with somebody you're just getting to know for the first time, would you ask them if they're a virgin or start discussing sexual things with them? Would someone only do this if they're looking for a hookup?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • That's not as clear cut when I think about it more.

    If I was just meeting them for the first time and we haven't talked at all before hand except maybe just to arrange the date or to say hi and arrange the date or our conversations never went in this direction before meeting for the first time, then NO I probably wouldn't. It would just make things uncomfortable for both involved and would probably end the date real quick.

    However, if we talked a lot on the phone before our first date and we were flirting during our conversations. As in, we talked about how attracted we were to one another and how much we want to do whatever to one another. Then, that wouldn't be out of the ordinary for us to have in a conversation, and so it wouldn't be an issue during the first date either.

    Also, if my date initiated the questions, or, if the conversations started to venture into this area during the night, than that would be alright I believe as well. But, usually, it's not a subject that would come up right away in a first date atmosphere.

  • If she's being blantly sexual yeah but i wouldn't start it and id probably just get the check.
    I dont generally ask sexual questions, i dont really wanna know. Dont need to know.
    he's probably sexually inexperienced and if not he's clearly socially inept.
    Ditch em

Most Helpful Girls

  • No I don't because then they start to wonder if I'm going to have sex with them soon ( not necessarily that very night, but like in a week or two). I'd ask if they had previous relationships and if they share anything sexual that's on them I won't reciprocate that. Also I think that's kind of rude to ask on a first date. That's kind of personal

  • One absolutely not.

    If it's a hook up one nite stand fuck budy and that's all you want and your intentions the go ahead ask as many freaky naughty things as you like.

    If you like this person and could see you dating, or turning into something stick to normal chit chat getting to know the person their likes and dislikes etc

  • No not if you are expecting an actual relationship out of the date. But if it's a one night stand kinda thing them I guess why the hell not

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  • Absolutely not.

  • I would not. If we'd start to talk about sexual thing on a first date, I wouldn't see him seriously.

  • They might do it to ensure that there is not a second date!

  • Hard to know for sure, but virgins are better for something serious, not hookup.

  • no, I ask questions like do you like cheetos? do you smother your fries in ketchup?

    • lol! we all that guy :D

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