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Guys, would you be comfortable going to a swinger club?

Guys, would you be comfortable going to a swinger club?

I have online and offline friends that go to the local swinger club. (25 miles away)

They only have good things to say about it. There are tons of hookup apps and websites where people meet for sex. But this is different, because it's a group thing. For instance, I have no problem being in a crowded shopping mall, but I dread going to a Halloween or Christmas party. At a mall, no one expects you to engage with them or have a conversation.
At a mall, I feel invisible. So it's different for me.

Oh, and fellas, if you learn the art of gaining the trust of a woman, you will be shocked what they will tell you. I have a friend who's a divorced nurse, and I thought she was as pure as the driven snow. She goes to this club every week, and her stories would curl your hair.

I'm posting this because a guy said he was banned from Tinder. I have no knowledge about how one gets banned from a fuck site, but I told him there are more options than Tinder. He, of course, fled for the safety of his closet, but it got me wondering about your views on swinger clubs.

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  • Comfortable, yes... as long as I can cast out their demons!!!

    I had one of these in my city, others I'd met mentioned it. I'd never heard of this before maybe 10-15yrs ago. It makes sense since so many are delaying family, the hormones have not adapted to our lives, so they suffer and seek ways to "sleigh the beast within". Although any form of pleasure sounds enticing, I decided against it... it's not who I am nor want to become. I'm thankful for my parents and traditional values.

    As I've gotten to know quite a few women over the years, the answer is an even firmer no. I see what they are like when they take off their seductive attire and see the true person. Id rather have a dog than take on the headaches and heartaches they'd be dishing out. The benefit to the guys is "they are in and out" or generally are as long as they don't get caught in a mess of some kind. That's what they want. But this is not a heartless nor perfectly safe endeavor.

    This strikes me as a place for people to go that are lost, desperate, directionless, or poorly raised in my opinion. Maybe there's an exception that is just wired differently... for each persons up bringing is their normal.

    I'm thankful I wasn't raised that way, am married to an amazing woman, and that I don't know anyone personally that is into this lifestyle. It's each adults freedom, it just strikes me as one based upon medication and thrills, not healthy balanced living.

    And that makes sense... look at our society, how people need to find greater and greater thrills to "feel" good... they are more like addicts and druggies. What do they turn to after all this and their good looks dry up?

    Time to turn back to God and find balance in life. That's my advice, but it ain't hard to turn around when you've got pleasure straight ahread. And that... is the challenge of life...

    ... I'm semi joking though. It's very hard to save people from their training, traumas and life. It more likely result in fights and spilled drinks than any success. People have to come to God after falling down, dealing with their problems and changing so that they progress their lives. That is hard to do when they medicated on the strongest drugs God ever made to ensure propagation of the species.

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  • No, nothing against swinging, just personally I'm into polygamy, not poly. I don't like sharing women, and my wife is pretty hot. I've seen enough mmf, trains, and trying to pluck a flower out of a field of pollen. It just isn't my thing, though the appeal it holds for others is like a gigantic magnet in a tiny circle of iron filings from what I've seen.
    The look they get in their eyes are like subs going into sub space, but frenzied, if that makes sense at all. For the men and women involved. As close as I'll go is being in my scene while other people are in their scenes around me in a kink club, seeing, being seen and what not. I don't want others in my bubble so much, or to go into theirs unless I found them and brought them along in the first place.

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What Guys Said

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  • Fantasy of mine.. never been

  • Nope

  • I don't do clubs

  • No. Nope. Never.

  • It would not be for me.

  • No I believe in monogamy. I could never lay my partner grey fucked by another person

  • No way

  • It sounds intriguing. But I would never actually do something like that. I don't even go to strip clubs.

  • I have couple of times. See nudity is allowed but optional. So one night on a Tuesday, four months before the covid. Had my shorts on. Everybody walked around wearing a towel wrap around themselves. One girl in her mid 20's just came right put in the Nude because they were out of towels. But the night went great 🙂

  • Yup i go every weekend...

    • I get the appeal, but it's a hard concept to grasp. I went to a nude beach, and it was a lot for me to handle. The truth is, we are our own worst enemy.

    • Don't think too much have fun njoy every minute of life... It's been long time didn't visited beach will go soon.. Thanks babe. 😘

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