Would you be comfortable having an opposite-sex housemate?

Separate rooms, equal responsibility for rent and household chores, and general respect for privacy, sleeping hours, and bathroom time use. Basics for any housemate.

Would them being the opposite sex make you uncomfortable though? Even if they never flirt or make suggestive comments about you, and even let you set the expectation for modesty in the house (you can dress how you're comfortable and they won't dress any more revealing than that)?

Would you be comfortable having an opposite-sex housemate?

Would it make a difference if they have a partner (long distance or some other reason they don't live together), or if they are gay so couldn't even be attracted to you, or are even just very masculine/feminine and have a lot of interests and behaviors typical for your sex?

I would be comfortable with ANY GOOD opposite-sex housemate
Vote A
I would be comfortable with CERTAIN GOOD opposite-sex housemates
Vote B
I would NOT be comfortable with ANY opposite-sex housemate
Vote C
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Follow-up question for those who said you would ONLY live with a woman you're related to or have sex with: do you just not like having housemates in general, or is there something about specifically women that you don't like which makes you only willing to live with one if they're related to you or in a relationship with you?
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  • Absolutely not, in the MeToo era

    I won't attend meetings with the opposite sex without an independent witness
    Live in such a situation sounds like a speed run to the wall with a firing squad

    • Well don't worry too much, after all you're more likely to be falsely accused of murder than falsely accused of rape. I understand wanting to take precautions just in case though especially when the media makes it sound so common.