Would you be grossed out walking in on a guy masturbating?

[getintherelove]

If you walked in on a guy, a brother or any relative and he was masturbating, would it gross you out? Were talking very erect, hand stroking it and all.

[PrettyPriya]

Yep. I certainly would. Lucky for me, that had never happened thankfully. I cannot even say what I would do other than leave in horror. If it were a family member? Oh goodness.

Needless to say, I would not be pleased nor impressed by the extracurricular activities. If one feels they must do such a thing they should make sure the door is locked.

I guess I am just fortunate that I have not had the non-pleasure of experiencing this. I have an older brother and a younger sister, and this is not an issue for us, ever.

I also live with my SO, and he has never done this in my presence or otherwise to my knowledge. Not to be explicit, but we prefer intimacy with one another rather than self pleasure alone.

Alone has a lack of emotional connection and doesn’t bring anything for me. So, we wait until we have time to be intimate together rather than hide in a room and do that alone.

[getintherelove]

I could totally see why it would come of gross. I'd be grossed like I'd probably be like dude, there is a such a thing as close the door.

[PrettyPriya]

Right. If one is going to do that, make sure no one can walk in. Simple courtesy right?

[getintherelove]

Definitely. Even a simple I need some time alone being said is something I'd understand. I'd know what he or she were doing but I'd know not to knock.

[PrettyPriya]

That is very true. There is that other side to it. Growing up with siblings, we learned to knock if a door was closed. Never knew if someone was changing.

[getintherelove]

I always made sure the door was closed. It was something private to me. Never frowned upon but private. I'd hate feeling like um you saw that and the awkwardness later.

[PrettyPriya]

Indeed. There was enough awkwardness sharing a bathroom with my sister. No details necessary. Just trust me.

[getintherelove]

I think I was lucky as by the time puberty came around, my sister was at college so I could avoid the whole bathroom thing.

[PrettyPriya]

My sis is just 18 now and I didn’t move out until recently (with my SO). We had 3.5 bathrooms so girls shared and my brother had his own.

[getintherelove]

I was always discreet about such activity and more so in the summer when she was home. I hide it all well. Its harder for a guy to private about it

[PrettyPriya]

That wasn’t the issue for my sis and I. It was more the run ins trying to get ready for work (me) and school (her) sharing one bathroom. We survived it though. Now, she is off to uni.

[getintherelove]

I think puberty can be gross to the opposite gender in ways having to share the same bathroom.

[PrettyPriya]

I didn’t have to deal with that. Just my sis. Of course, that isn’t the worst thing. You help your sister out when you are a girl that went through it all. Just what sisters do.

[getintherelove]

I was fortunate as to not sharing a room growing up so things were private. It allowed me to be more private I'm things I were doing.

[Angela_S]

Not at all. Plus, there's no "walking in on it" with my boyfriend. He openly does it in front of me. There's no stigma about it in our relationship.

[Mikeybear]

@angela_s @PrettyPriya @krispw @rachel776 First, I agree with @katiesmuff - and sorry for tagging you here, too. However, I have been walked in many times, and I think that every girl is different. Many times, the girls laughed and just left, say it and ignored, and other times they stayed or asked to participate.

[summiter]

Not really. When I shared a dorm room in college I walked in on my roommate a few times and he also walked in on me. We always both kinda laughed about it and tried to come up with a better plan. All young guys jerk off... but most will never admit it.

If it was a pervy guy jerking off to something crude I would not like it.

[RobT312]

Nope its fine. It happened in college with roomates. I also shared a place with my brother after college. I never busted him but he busted me…i kept on going

[Guy13]

Not grossed out but more like " really, no fuck Can you at least lock the door or hang the do not disturb tag out on your door?"

[katiesmuff]

No not grossed out, just startled for a moment then leave him alone

[KrisPW]

No, not grossed out. Some would obviously bother me more than others, but gross probably wouldn't be the right word.

[getintherelove]

I'd understand he needed to get it out but I don't need to see.

[rachel776]

just leave them to their privacy

[getintherelove]

Exactly, they want to do it but close the door.

[SnowedIn]

Not grossed out or embarrassed. Just let them finish and move on.

[Porter21]

Yes I have my brothers & my best friend! I joined them it was great!

[nudeNhorny]

relative yes I'd be grossed out, stranger I might offer a helping hand