Would you be in a relationship with someone who doesn't want to have sex?

[ENG🇬🇧]
There are people who are asexual. Although some people refuse to accept it simply because they are different from them, yeah, asexuality exists.
There are several types of asexuality. In this case I'm going to focus on sex-repulsed asexual people (they are people who not only don't feel sexual attraction but also are disgusted by sex).
These people don't want to have sex with anyone. Would you date these people even if you don't have sex with each other?
Pls answer. I'm very interested to know what you think ^^

[ESP🇪🇦]
Hay personas que son asexuales. Aunque algunas personas se niegan a aceptarlo simplemente porque son diferentes a ellos, sí, la asexualidad existe.
Hay varios tipos de asexualidad. En este caso me voy a centrar en las personas asexuales con repulsión sexual (son personas que no solo no sienten atracción sexual sino que además les da asco el sexo).
Esta gente no quiere tener sexo con nadie. ¿Saldrías [**románticamente hablando] con ellas aún no teniendo sexo entre vosotros?
**Especifico ya que si no os veo capaces de responderme de una manera a la que no me estoy refiriendo.
Respondan porfi. Me interesa mucho saber lo que piensan ^^
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  • Personally, no I wouldn't. That is just me though, and I know of people who are not intimate. For me, that is a necessary part of my relationship with my fiancé. Now, that isn't to say it rules our life. Hardly.

    We have what I believe is a healthy intimate life. We rarely (if ever) are intimate during the week because we both work, have things to do and not much extra time. Any extra time during the week is spent relaxing.

    The weekends is typically when we are intimate, if we have the time. Sometimes, it doesn't even happen then depending on what family/friends stuff we have going on. So, it is when we have time and the mood is right.

    It isn't something either of us schedule or feel like we have to force at any one point. It is just something that happens naturally when we feel like it. I don't think I could completely take it out of my life.

    It is the one thing we share with each other that no one else does. So, for me, that makes it special.

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  • I'm in one, but I love her dearly. I have a high libido, generally for men, and she has 0 libido.

    We resolved this by agreeing that I can play with boys so long as there is no emotional involvement. This satisfies my needs, as well as preserves her place in our relationship

    • You're in a relationship with a girl, but are highly sexually attracted to men?

    • @AndrésC64 yeah, I'm sexually attracted to men, but romantically attracted to women... It's a bit of a twist but we make it work. Luckily I'm part of a community that is particularly good at separating love and sex.

    • Cool.

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  • Well, not exactly what you were talking about, but I have been in a marriage like that. It didn't start that way but quickly turned into that. It was horrible. I got rejected so many times that I stopped even trying. We literally went years without sex. Staying in that marriage was one of the biggest mistakes of my life

  • No, because I'm straight, and like the type of girlfriend/wife that gives VERY frequent sexual contact (ie a hypersexual), and asexual people are the polar opposite of that.

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  • If I lived them and saw permanent future then I would accept those terms.

    • Loved.. sorry-big hands and fingers 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • No. No sex., then just be friends.

    • This ^ The difference between "just friends: and "in a relationship" IS the sexual contact.

  • I consider sexless relationship to be pointless, I don't need a nun. The sex-repulsed asexuals are the worse asexuals to date, but some guys might believe that they can change a girl like that.

  • Hell no

  • No, that's a friendship.

  • Whoever relies on sex to love someone don't understand the depth of how love feels or works. So yes, I know I would.

  • I wouldn't.

  • no, life is short.

  • No! I already did that and the little cunt ended up cheating on me!!

  • No way man.

  • I'm already in a sexless relationship.

  • I wouldn't. But yet, would this be an open relationship? If she doesn't want sex, will she allow me to have someone on the side just for sex? Could I masturbate? Does that mean she won't masturbate with me?

  • I would be okay if she is like that till marriage. But I would be upset if she couldn't do it during marriage

  • I don't think I could

  • Probably not. It would depend on her personality. It would depend on if she would be open to masturbation, or other non penetrative sexual acts.

  • Nope

  • No. That wouldn’t interest me.

  • Nope.
    Tried that - it's called marriage.

  • Sex needs to be part of our relationship

  • Yes I would as long as there're kisses, hugs, etc. Sex is pleasurable but if I really like the person I would date her.

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