I had this happen to me. I hooked up with a girl while I was travelling internationally on business. We'd met up, chatted and she knew I was leaving the country in 3 months, unlikely to ever return. I was happy to hang out and have some fun for the rest of that time.
We ended up in bed, it was a bit clumsy, fumbling. I knew she wasn't hugely experienced, but I didn't know she was a virgin at that point. We parted ways early the next morning, with me expecting that we'd probably at least meet up the next weekend but with no firm commitments. That evening she messages me saying she's found a course she could go and study in the UK near where I lived long term there.
Unfortunately with a lot of women, their first time is more meaningful to them than for a man, and also more than they might expect themselves. I would never have hooked up casually with this girl if I'd known it was her first time because of the impossibility of it being a long term relationship. I felt a little put out because I ended up having to effectively break off a relationship that I'd never agreed to enter! I feel worse for her though, it must have been unpleasant being dumped when you're thinking of following someone round the world.
I think it should be understood beforehand because some people are looking for a sexual experience that virgins might not be able to give them. Some things are only learned through experience and practice. Sex is no different.
If you play a board game with someone who has never played before, sure you're playing it with them, but the fact remains that the experience will be different than if you were playing with someone who knows all the ins and outs from the get go.
Well, it could be important to know. If the guy knows it`s your first time, they will go easy on you and take time. The first time usually hurts, so if he goes at it believing you`re used to it the sex can turn out really bad and painful. It also turns guys on to know this, so it can also make the sex more pleasurable.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Mad and mad, I'd prefer to know. Virginity in itself is not a big deal anymore, I agree. But being with a virgin is still going to change how some things work.
Also, would be good to know that you should make it a little extra memorable.
Well there are few things to consider, is this male or female virginity. Then if you are not able to share the fact , you haven't had sex yet then how can you be responsible and safe for when time comes with the right person
I don't like if she hidden that from me, but in the end of the day I see it as a white lie.
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No they " precious "
A guy who is into you won't care, but it may be helpful for him to know beforehand so he takes it slow.
If it's a quick hook up, it doesn't matter. If she's someone important to me I'd be upset that she did not mention it. Not because it would change my mind about wanting to be with her, but because I want to know her.
No, for me it will be bether to tell me afther and keep it secret befor we do it.
But other will want to know before you do something
nope , not really
Yes i would want to know before so i could make it enjoyable for her. The first time is painful if done quickly.
Nope, all the more hot. Tell me before the sex though or I might be too rough.
Not at all, I would like to know a head of time but I would not get upset if I found out after we started to have sex.
No, I’d take good care of her!
Not a big issue if not mentioned beforehand would more then likely be able to tell thougg
Nope I don't think so
Well I've never done a hookup, but wouldn't bother me.
Shit no.
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