Would you be more turned off if a person you liked was 30, and had a body count of 30, or if they never hooked up with anyone, despite many attempts?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You realize you are not going to get any completely honest responses from women on this?

Anyway most guy’s idealistic lifestyle is to be a complete manwhore when they are young (when it makes them popular) and then settle down the “right” woman when she comes around. Hopefully by age 30 if he’s lucky.

My brother was lucky like that. He got more ass then a toilet seat when he was young. But he is now happily married and faithful for 10 years with 2 kids.

But I had a much rougher route when I was younger. I really wanted a real relationship but I got burned badly by friéndzone bs. So more out of insecurity (yes I admit it was insecurity) I discreetly manwhored it up. I was always some girl’s dirty little secret.

I should have have had more self respect for myself. But I thought it was the lesser of two evils. On one end I could live a miserable life as a nice guy virgin who was possibly “gay”. Or I could be a dirty manwhore.

Fortunately I had the looks (I am tall and athletic) to get away with it. But there was no real connection with these women. Lots of stress about possibly knocking up the wrong girl and/or catching a STD. Then metoo came around and gave a sh*t load of paranoia. Of course I always did and always will do things consensually. But all it takes is one lying hoe to destroy a man’s life.

But I don’t think most women realize how insulting and complete agony it is to men to be labeled a nice guy virgin (who might be secretly “gay”). It’s literally makes a guy feel like he’s less than a man.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

you think someone would of got laid by the time they were 30 if they had tried a lot but it depends on there personality and if they had any actual relationships or more likely chances to get sex than just the odd random at a bar or party over the years.

Rei13 · Accepted Answer

I would be turned off by someone with a body count of 30, BUT if it was someone that was a virgin who tried to sleep around with a ton of women, and failed, that would also be a huge turnoff. If he is waiting for marriage or just never put himself out there it is fine, but we may not be compatible

LazerBean · Accepted Answer

Someone who wishes they could be a whore but hasn't had the opportunity is not MUCH better than a whore, but they are still slightly better.

provokeesmokee · Answer

I'm more likely to be with the 30-by-30 person, but if the virgin has romantic experience I'm also ok with them. Frankly it's their personalities, values, and attitudes that matter to me more.

Hawkes_Lady · Answer

I would like my man to have some experience so he knows how to please a woman without blowing 3 minutes in, but 30 seems way too high a body count for me to be comfortable with.

TipsyFr · Answer

If she’s 30 and has never had success hooking up that also means she has tried and nobody wants it, Yikes ! Have you seen how low some guys will go, good luck to you my lady but off you go back to the sea with the other sea monsters 😅 ⏭️

Robbey · Answer

I’d prefer the virgin to someone with that high a number.

Levin · Answer

People who have slept around that much are pretty much instant deal breakers. However, there's something odd going on if they were that unsuccessful.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Interesting poll results. Each gender finds the opposite option more attractive.

Jazzy54 · Answer

Yes . 🤮😷

nastyb · Answer

i'd rather have someone who never hooked up at 30. but usually people who are virgins at 30 tend to have something wrong with them.

Nikki1989 · Answer

30 is not much for a 30-year-old.

Starrrboy · Answer

If they didn't hookup with anyone because they want to but can't , then it's no different really they have the same standard ... but it's still better than being successful at it and getting used by dozens of people of course lol.

Iron_Man · Answer

That’s ridiculous 30 body counts. I don’t want people like that and catch a disease.

RingOfFire · Answer

Poll results show the guys want a low body count and the girls want a high one. Not a surprise result, but good question.

2021biguy · Answer

Turned off more by someone with a 30 body count, a whore.

Guido · Answer

I'm going to go with no hook ups.

Chthou95 · Answer

If she was riding the cock courasel and has 30 by the age 30, fuck no. She's for the steets3

FYI345 · Answer

What these results conclude is that women want a guy with some sexual experience and a guy wants a girl with limited sexual experience 🤔

Anonymous · Answer

I’d have to know why he’s a virgin despite being open to it

Anonymous · Answer

30 is not that high of a body count these days and if they’re 30 and have had no success in hooking up then they probably don’t look very good either, so maybe I would choose the one with the body count