Would you be offended if your girlfriend said you had a medium size penis?

I was not trying to offend my boyfriend but we were talking and I said I like medium size penis and not large. He asked and I said he was medium sized. He got totally offended. He apparently thought he was large but I’ve had large and I definitely would not say he is large. I don’t think he is small and I said that. Opinions, should I have lied?

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No not offended
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Interesting feedback you can tell it was a sign of his insecurities reacting that way
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For the record there seems to be some men out there with toxic ideas like you need big penis to satisfy someone. I had two boyfriend with big cock and NEITHER one would I describe as “good sex” or even memorable. The best sex was with people who got me off before or after or during sex and it had nothing to do with size. Second he seems to have an issue with it and harboring some bad feelings
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Part2. It’s been a while and he is still haboring feelings so if the relationship ends there are more secure men out there. Ones who don’t need you to pretend their duck is huge. I apologized I’m not going to keep apologizing
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It's hard to come between a man and his D but you just did. Every dude thinks he is big regardless of what size unless you're some soyboy with a micro D. Yes, it is an egotistical thing but we all think that and when you tell some dudes what you did, it is a crushing blow as we want to be thought of as your best and biggest. Now, over time, most guys get secure enough in their manhood that it probably no longer affects them but for a while, some guys with this insecurity may have a problem with it, like he did.

    • Yea it’s a sign of insecurity

    • Me should be more in touch with reality 🙄

    • How would you react if he told you “Any organ looks small when you play it in a cathedral?”

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  • I wouldn't be offended, because

    1. I know I am large (7-8 inches is large enough).

    2. As long as she likes it, we are good. If she doesn't like it, that only means things will go south over time.

    3. My size doesn't do all the job. Sex is mostly mental.

    That's me, other guys may interpret it another way. For example your boyfriend. He obviously feels that he needs a porn star dick to satisfy you.

    • Exactly what I was thinking you should like a more secure healthy individual. I do blame porn

    • Thanks for the MHO

Most Helpful Girls

  • I dont think you should've lied, and he's definitely being insecure for no reason, but you shouldn't have been surprised lol. All guys are like that

    • I agree insecure for no reason, wouldn’t you rather be what your girlfriend desires most? Instead of holding on to some bs believe

    • Exactly your already with him. he's already won

    • You have to be careful what you say in relationships. I'm sure you would prefer that your boyfriend tell you that you're beautiful, as opposed to saying that you're medium looking, but he likes medium looking.

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  • most guys are medium-sized and i prefer medium to large

    • When you say large, are you referring to thickness or length? Do you have a preference?

    • Same

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  • My ex-wife and I were never crazy enough to talk about penis sizes, and compare to her exes. I just knew that I loved her the most that anyone ever could and we had great passion and sexual chemistry.

    I did make the mistake of telling her that I wasn't obsessed with big butts anymore and I was going through a phase of liking skinnier asses. She got truly pissed because she has a big butt.

  • No lmao. I don't see why one would get offended at his Girlfriend for saying that. Unless they are delusional to thinking there penis is the biggest one out of all guys she met, but if you aren't delusional you can work out you ain't unless she's really unexperienced.
    Unless if somehow you just have the biggest one but again you should be able tell if you don't or do.

    It would be like if a girl didn't have the biggest breasts but they were kinda average sized. She's gotta know herself they aren't the biggest of course but they also aren't flat so she would know me saying medium is correct. Unless again she's delusional.

  • I love the size of your dick, that's all you had to say

  • Don't lie.

    That's the problem dudes so used to us lying bout their size, they not used to hearing the truth.

    The fact he should been happy knowing his penis was satisfying to you, but all he cared about was not being the biggest out there

    • I 💯 agree. They get used to women lying to make them feel better. And your right my satisfaction is all that’s should matter.

    • And Thank you Queen

    • You're welcome

  • Well, as a matter of fact, I do.

    • I would wonder if she was taking a survey and how many "interviewee's there were.

  • Depends on how big he is if he is 7 inches + he is def large. Anything from like 5-6.5 is medium though.
    I wouldn't get offended if what you say is correct

  • Nope. I wouldn't be offended by facts. And the fact that you said you prefer average / medium size might actually make me feel good.

  • Hell no; I wouldn't get offended!

  • I voted yes only because of insecurities. It’s not what I would want to hear. Two reasons, I think I’m big then told I’m not sucks and second it means you’ve had bigger which again would make me insecure.

    • Well at least you admit it. But take this in consideration bigger is not better especially in my case where it is uncomfortable to have big. Which is why I told him I prefer his size bc I do.

    • Yes that is true. I think as men we value our worth to penis size sometimes thinking bigger is better. We have porn to blame for that.

  • Nothing like being with a woman who’s had bigger dick…yeah fuck that. You wanna fuck mr. big cock enjoy but mine’s off the table after that

    • Did you read I prefer medium I don’t like big. And the chances that your partner has had bigger is pretty rare 😂 😂

    • Why is that rare? I mean in my city it’s certainly not as women get around, and women who get around are bound to come across the big dick guys who slang that shit on tinder. I’m well endowed true but how would you even know that

  • My ex-fiancée said it’s huge but my friend says it’s small, after I said how long it is. I didn’t get offended, as I know that my schlong is average.

  • Not necessarily offended but would wonder as to her background of knowledge on the subject.

  • Most guys like to think they're big in that department. Maybe say that you prefer his penis size the best, because it fits you better than larger ones. That may mollify him, even if it isn't the truth.

    • But the point is I DO prefer his size I don’t like them big it shouldn’t matter and I shouldn’t have to lie to stoke some toxic false reality

    • If only you knew how many lies men tell to stoke womens toxic false realities. Treat your man right or let someone else do it. Is it that difficult to hype your man up? Damn.

    • Tell him you prefer his size. I just said "even if it isn't the truth" because some girls are size queens. If he doesn't believe you then explain why you prefer his size. I am just telling you what might mollify him.

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  • You were comparing him to your past lovers.
    Shame on you! Instead of hurting his ego. You should have said something like “I love the way you fill me up!”

    • 🙄 ..

  • Lol that touchy subject for lot of guys 🤣

  • No, I would not at all be offended. I would love and appreciate if she is honest with me.

  • No because that's what I am lol.. medium or average..

  • No I won't be offended, I'm aware that I'm not well hung.

  • Depends. Yet to do humiliation kink.

  • my wife says I have a tiny penis, which I do. When she was still my girlfriend and she first saw it not erect (im not big even when erect) she laughed at how small I am, at first I was quite upset (even though, for sure, i knew I was small) when she compared it to a childs.

    she will often refer to it as "babydick" or "minidick" something like this, we have both come to quite enjoy the SPH (small penis humiliation) side of our relationship and she has encouraged me to show it off more, I have a blog where I post nudes and we often go to nudist resorts.

    • Well I’m glad u guys have a healthy relationship about it. I never called him small he got offended bc I did it wasn’t big or “obviously wasn’t big” I didn’t mean to make him insecure but I really DONT like big penis anyway it’s uncomfortable not hot for me.

    • I'm sure he will get over it, I guess for a lot of guys its like an illusion of power, because they want a big penis, they assume women want a big penis too, some do but I suspect you are part of the majority opinion on size

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