Not at all, of course, the flip side of that is we'd both get tested, and I'm sure as hell not wearing a condom after.
I figure that's logical. The more hoops you jump through either way to have sex with someone, the more that the sex should resemble your preferences. Like if you drove many miles out of your way to see me and your preference is for condoms, then the previous argument would be null and void. I mean, sex is a big component of a relationship, but it takes up very little of the daylight compared to other activities, together or apart.
If it's all one sided, then I have no interest, and am only willing to do the bare minimum in my spare time while spending my attention on someone else who is worth my time. It's never a bad idea to get tested before/after a new partner though.0 0 0 0
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Nope, been asked a few times.
Usually it’s a conversation in bed or next day over coffee and you make an appointment.
there is absolutely nothing ever to be ashamed about getting a sex health check up.
imagine getting pregnant and finding out the baby has xx due to partners or your STD.0 0 0 0
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If I knew him well and we had dated exclusively for a longer period, then sure. But if we had just started dating, then no. I would not do that for someone I am not so sure about. We will anyway use a condom, so if it is because he would like sex without I would even be concerned about that guy xD
Some STDs you cannot test for (HPV for men) and some have a 3-6 months period after infection where you might not catch it in tests.0 0 0 0I am talking about taking a test for someone or not, and actually not answering if I would be offended xD but I would not be offended, would just open up a talk about it :)
Nope, not at all. It's just a smart thing to do. With my boyfriend, before things got sexual, I offered up, "I got tested a couple months ago. How about you?"
If a guy asked me that first, I think I would almost feel more secure that he is careful and takes these things into consideration.0 0 0 0
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5 41No. One girl asked me to. We went down together to both get checked out. I didn't mind. In fact, I admired the fact that she took care of herself.
0 0 0 0No as long as they did it too
0 0 0 0Nope we can go do it together it'll be fun 🥺
0 0 0 1I would not be offended no, and it's something I've done on my own regard.
0 0 0 0I'd find it understandable. If it's not going to be a one nighter, I'd gladly take the test.
0 0 0 0That is a very reasonable thing to ask, and can save a lot of trouble.
0 0 0 0I live in South Africa. I'd be offended if my gardener/handyman didn't get tested for communicable diseases before I hire him.
I'd be the one ASKING for the test!0 0 0 0No, I would not be offended, in fact, I would want her to be tested too, in view of the amount of STD's we hear about. Remember, Herpes is FOREVER !
0 0 0 0I wouldn't have sex until married. But yes a test would be mandatory!
0 0 0 0No. That's smart.
0 0 0 0Not at all
0 0 0 0I'm on the side that testing is fine if we want to have unprotected sex, but can also just use condoms until a test comes back.
0 0 0 0My feelings would be a little hurt but I would completely agree with her caution. If she pays for it, I'll get one.
0 0 0 0I won't mind or offended.
0 0 0 0Noops ♨️🤷🤷
0 0 0 0Nah, I'd just get tested. No biggie.
0 0 0 0I feel like if you tell her your a virgin which I am, I feel like you shouldn't now if you had sex, honestly the first I would do is get tested and ask her to be tested as well
0 0 0 0I'd be flattered actually, because the lady to me, would be implying I am desirable to other girls,
0 0 0 0Only if I was a virgin. Otherwise even if I knew I was clean I'd still get the test.
0 0 0 0Nope it is better to be safe than sorry.☯️
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