Would you be offended if your partner used a sex toy? Why or Why not?
Breanna_nonbinaryYoda
I work at an adult toy store and I frequently hear people say their partner would be upset if they were to use a sex toy. They say it’s because they’re offended that they would use the sex toy rather than them. Or that their partner feels they should be enough to satisfy their sexual needs. What do you feel?
Well, that depends on several things. Are they using one because the sex life sucks?
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Breanna_nonbinary
3 mo
Well if you’re sex life sucks then you should talk to you partner. You shouldn’t feel offended but embarrassed.
Jennz6Yoda
3 mo
I think it’s ok, especially if it’s me
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OfDeathMaster
3 mo
This depends on the circumstances. Say they wanted a massive dildo big enough to put horse cock to shame and wanted to use it in my presence or even have be use it on them, I'd feel a bit desolate. Left out, excluded in other words. Because what do I get out of that? Nothing.
However, if we both had a toy and we were using them on each other (and there are toys for men that don't go in the butt not that there's anything wrong with that) then I could find that enjoyable.
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Rizwan_khanXper 7
3 mo
I think i will not offended by using sex toys but i will satisfy her that she doesn't need any sex toys but still i will buy her some sex toys so she can have good orgasm
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kellythemanGuru
3 mo
Honestly I be okay if she has a sex toy and most of the girls I been with at least had one form of a sex toy rather it be a dildo or vibrator. I just find it actually might help the relationship sexually. It be less chance of her cheating when she is horny, and sometimes I would use her sex toy on her while having sex with her to intensify the sexual pleasure. I find it as a sexual aid or to spice things up in the bedroom. I even bought some girlfriends sex toys.
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NostalgiaSenpiExplorer
3 mo
I dunno. I think id feel uncomfortable but it's whatever.
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Caliguy88Explorer
3 mo
No, I love them. Love watching a girl spread open and just slide it in and out.
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Snedger____Xper 7
3 mo
Is she uses a toy and also is highly thirsty for my dick, It's okay for me
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booblikerYoda
3 mo
it be lovely
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AimeeKyleExplorer
3 mo
No, but I would ask her if she needs some assistance.
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HippieVeganJewslimExplorer
3 mo
No, as I’m an antinatalist. I’d prefer my girlfriend use sex toy than me committing the sin of fornication, and possibly getting pregnant.
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DrewJohnsonXper 6
3 mo
Absolutely NOT! My wife uses them regularly.
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Pete671Yoda
3 mo
No not all, I love it when my girlfriend uses her big dildo tbh, I love to lick her clit at the same time tbh,,,
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Breanna_nonbinary
3 mo
I mean using toys without you
Pete671
3 mo
I'd be fine with that, quite like the idea of it tbh,,,
KrakenAttackinGuru
3 mo
No, she can grind away.
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shanshuXper 7
3 mo
I think it's fine but if she's using it and refuses sex with me then there's an issue.
If the toy is much bigger than me I'd feel insecure. I don't mind her using a vibe to stimulate her clit even when we are having sex.
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strlbXper 5
3 mo
If she wants it to get off or assist with pleasure during sex why not. Who am I to judge what is going to assist her getting off
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ThomasDavid1989Xper 5
3 mo
I mean, I could understand if they're just "not in the mood" but, even then, like, why can't you just wait for them to "be in the mood", are you that bored, you HAVE to use a toy?
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PterodonGuru
3 mo
Not at all. It’d be a turn on
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varan69Xper 6
3 mo
Can I pm you for something similar?
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OddBeMeMaster
3 mo
No, but it’s been over a decade with the same vagina. So when I put on my dick ring with a hooked finger on top, I get it.
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What Girls & Guys Said
13 48Well, that depends on several things. Are they using one because the sex life sucks?
Well if you’re sex life sucks then you should talk to you partner. You shouldn’t feel offended but embarrassed.
I think it’s ok, especially if it’s me
This depends on the circumstances. Say they wanted a massive dildo big enough to put horse cock to shame and wanted to use it in my presence or even have be use it on them, I'd feel a bit desolate. Left out, excluded in other words. Because what do I get out of that? Nothing.
However, if we both had a toy and we were using them on each other (and there are toys for men that don't go in the butt not that there's anything wrong with that) then I could find that enjoyable.
I think i will not offended by using sex toys but i will satisfy her that she doesn't need any sex toys but still i will buy her some sex toys so she can have good orgasm
Honestly I be okay if she has a sex toy and most of the girls I been with at least had one form of a sex toy rather it be a dildo or vibrator. I just find it actually might help the relationship sexually. It be less chance of her cheating when she is horny, and sometimes I would use her sex toy on her while having sex with her to intensify the sexual pleasure. I find it as a sexual aid or to spice things up in the bedroom. I even bought some girlfriends sex toys.
I dunno. I think id feel uncomfortable but it's whatever.
No, I love them. Love watching a girl spread open and just slide it in and out.
Is she uses a toy and also is highly thirsty for my dick, It's okay for me
it be lovely
No, but I would ask her if she needs some assistance.
No, as I’m an antinatalist. I’d prefer my girlfriend use sex toy than me committing the sin of fornication, and possibly getting pregnant.
Absolutely NOT! My wife uses them regularly.
No not all, I love it when my girlfriend uses her big dildo tbh, I love to lick her clit at the same time tbh,,,
I mean using toys without you
I'd be fine with that, quite like the idea of it tbh,,,
No, she can grind away.
I think it's fine but if she's using it and refuses sex with me then there's an issue.
If the toy is much bigger than me I'd feel insecure. I don't mind her using a vibe to stimulate her clit even when we are having sex.
If she wants it to get off or assist with pleasure during sex why not. Who am I to judge what is going to assist her getting off
I mean, I could understand if they're just "not in the mood" but, even then, like, why can't you just wait for them to "be in the mood", are you that bored, you HAVE to use a toy?
Not at all. It’d be a turn on
Can I pm you for something similar?
No, but it’s been over a decade with the same vagina. So when I put on my dick ring with a hooked finger on top, I get it.