Would you be okay if your partner said blowjobs only and no sex?

[SayGracePlease]

[Billlewis]

I don't receive any pleasure from having my dick sucked, but virtually every sexual relationship I've had with women over the past twenty plus years has been an anilingus only arrangement, in which our physical intimacy consisted exclusively of her receiving oral service from me in a completely one sided relationship.

[Giddyup]

Based on your age, it would be my guess someone is trying to tell themselves they are not really having sex? If your good with that arrangement for now, then great.

I'm an adult, blow jobs both ways are very nice, but intimacy for me is capped off by what we all know as sex.

[chrissykerdock]

i would actually like that arrangement... i prefer giving a blowjob because i like the fact of sucking a penis and using more of my senses... and i do love to swallow cum.

[ushagomez]

No. BJ is just a warm-up to the main event.

[ohsheeT]

No not even. I mean I don't mind an occasional blowjob
But I want to have sex I want to make love and I want to make it all about the girl I want to take her to a place that she's never been before and I can't do that if I can make love to her

[PositiveFlight]

Nope! I would not be ok with that! In fact I could take or leave oral. I’m penis in vagina 99% of the time. The other 1% I guess could be oral. I love giving a woman oral but I get off when I’m inside the vagina. Natural vaginal is my weak spot and what I need to feel satisfied.

[Billlewis]

@PositiveFlight Oh, hell yes...

[bluecotton]

It definitely wouldn't be my preference but I love blowjobs, so it wouldn't be the worst thing, I suppose.

[katiesmuff]

No he would be called an EX partner!

[Red_Arrow]

First a blowjob is sex (it is oral sex). I have always thought PIV is the best, but a blowjob is an excellent second choice that I could live with quite well. But are you saying that he can do nothing to pleasure you?

[HelpfulWoman]

fuck no.

[spartan55]

Uh... no?

[JamesMI616]

I wouldn't be thrilled but if the head is good enough I'd be okay with it. My main issue would be that she isn't getting off and the more she cums the more I get off. Can I still please her? I think I need more info.

[electromagnetic]

As long as it’s reciprocated.

[Gent207-2]

I would have to ask why

[patrick994]

I would prefer to receive oral sex and give it, so that she is also fully satisfied.

[RedInnocent68]

Hmmm, probably not. But I suppose it depends why. I’m easily persuaded by a girl when she has me in her mouth and I’m about to cum 😉😂

[Summeroflove]

I wanna wait until marriage for anything really

[Kaamraj]

Nope, will it be okay for her if I leave out a big part of what I do for her?

[AviatorTom]

I'd be disappointed but accepting if I really care for my partner.

[SayGracePlease]

Thank you

[Bricealan]

"... blowjobs only and no sex"? By definition... a 'blow job, is... oral SEX! You mean no PIV 'Penis in Vagina... i. e. fucking? Blow jobs are fine with me.

[Bricealan]

P. S. As long as I can eat her out afterwards !

[Dargil]

if it was mutual oral, but no PIV or PIA, I could work with it.

[SayGracePlease]

That's fairr

[bowenw]

Yes I have no problem with that as long as she is satisfied

[SayGracePlease]

Yayy

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'd be ok with it, I'd just fingerbang her as compensation.

[tfan1]

Definitely yes. Because she’s on menopause and nothing of sex enters her mind - unless I put a bullet vibrator on her clitoris giving her 1-3 orgasms 👍🙂. I have no much fun giving her pleasure like that and seeing her in that pleasure - panting and screaming when her orgasms hit 👍🙂

But as for me - since she’s on menopause and that’s the only thing of sex comes to her mind - if I want relief, I have to resort to masturbation. 😞