Would you be on the guy's side or is this worth breaking up?

[Anonymous]

Not my story but my sister's. She's currently on her 3rd year of Biology and the guy she was dating for 6 months (he recently upgraded her to fiance last week) happened to be a young 26 year-old lawyer from wealthy family too. He skipped two grades; 4th and 10th.

Afterwards he felt guilt and admitted to doing several tests on her. He did these things:
- Purposely placed an envelope with money (cameras were installed) on the ground or elsewhere, pretending it got lost
- Tampered his used condom with white chili sauce to see if she would impregnant herself
- Had his hidden new car and would use an old, cheap one
- Set up his friend to call her and talk about him... to see what she felt about him (their conversation was secretly recorded)
- His final test was having a good diamond ring hidden and a fake one ready to give up (to see if she would have it appraised or not)

Results for all this tests done; all of them backfiring on him:
- She got worried and returned it back to him and adviced him not to spend money on fancy things... returning back an expensive purse he bought her.
- The used condom remained there, untouched.
- She never complained about his old car. She offered to help him with 1/2 of her savings if he needed a updated car. He felt guilty and declined the offer.
- The conversation went well. She was explaining about actually loving him and wanting kids, wishing things were like old time when people grew old together, etc.
- She accepted the fake ring. He was waiting for weeks to see if it got appraised. It never did. She was happy to just be with him.

After he admitted to testing her, she was initially hurt with the lack of trust but then forgave quickly. She took his side and knows other women make it bad for the rest of us. Seriously, is it that hard... finding a loyal woman that isn't after your money? For women would you be on his side or breaking up? For men, do you agree what he did?

[Markm3212]

i guess it all comes down to how wealthy his family are. i can see why he has done this, however i dont agree with most of what he has done. i did like the fact that he drove around in an old banger when he had a nice car in the garage 🤣🤣🤣 that must have been painful knowing he had a good car to drive.

i had a friend whos Dad was worth a few mil and he got his ex to sign a pre nuptial agreement, which i thought was a bit harsh, but i guess that i look on this with poor eyes and dont have the issues or experiences that he has had. i know that there are a lot of women that would date a guy for their money and have a lack of morals.

glad your sister passed the tests, however i do believe that she should have dumped his ass to make him feel bad for doing it haha and then see what he had to say lol. then take him back a month later and and say, you passed the test for not shagging the next girl he saw 😂

[Кураж]

That's stupid.
If you have a problem with a woman wanting you for your money.. well, then don't give her any.

If you are going to buy her diamond rings after "she passes".. then what kind of difference does it make?
Just don't pay for her, period.

[JamesRandiDebates]

Neither side. He is a fool for even contemplating marriage.

[Asker]

Not sure. My sister doesn't want his money. She was expressing herself about wanting things the old ways, when people really committed to each other for the right reasons.

[Asker]

She doesn't want kids right away either. She wants to still finish her major.

[JamesRandiDebates]

Doesn't mater. Marriage is a fools game for men.

[Anonymous]

It would be nice if your sister stayed the same way for the rest of her life.

[Asker]

I have high hopes for her. Here is something I'll add to that conversation he recorded. The friend (the guy he set up) tried to make her fall for it when expressing how lucky she's that she won't have to work. She explained her desires to have kids for later; she wants to finish her major, work and provide too.

[Opinion Owner]

It's hard to find a woman like that these days.