Would you be pissed if you found your partner having sex with someone of their same sex?

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Bisexuals, shut up.

Hannahm67 · Accepted Answer

I have always been a little BI so I actually set up an encounter for my partner to find me with my friend. I did a a lot of work to see if he was going to be into it. I started out by joking about all guys wanting a threeway and when I got him to say he did and I started to roll play it in bed. He started to get really into it and my friend was feeling down for a while because she had broken up with her long term boyfriend and had not dated or had sex in close to a year. I told my boyfriend what she said and "joked" about us helping her out. I joked more and it was clear he was serious even though he was laughing and playing it off and I joked that one of these day he would find us on the couch naked with each other and I could tell he was into the idea.

I invited her over on the day my boyfriend was gone all day taking finals, I took her shopping and consistently lightly flirted with her and made comments on how good she looked. I didn't wear a bra or panties so she would see me naked when we tried on clothes. When we got back to my place I got her to try on the stuff we bought again and I got her to switch panties to a pair I had by saying I though it would look better with the clothes. I stayed naked most of the time and helped her with her clothes. I stopped her when she was naked to hug her and tell her I would help her find a guy and I held her and started rubbing her back. She got a little uncomfortable but I just stopped and told her we should watch a movie, So I quickly grabbed a fuzzy blanket to wrap her in so she couldn't get dress and did the same for my self. I little bit into the movie I moved closer to her and said I was cold I asked if we could snuggle for warmth and she thought it was weird but I told her its not and there will be a blanket between us. I snuggled up to her and slowly started to stroke her arm and then moved so my arm was on her stomach over the blanket and started to make slow circles. I moved so my blanket was open and she could see my pussy and I took my other hand and started to slowly rub my pussy. she was looking at it and I slowly moved my other hand down to rub her pussy through the blanket and she really like that and started to lightly moan. I placed her hand on my pussy and got her to rub it and started to finger her.

She was getting really into it so I went down on her and after a few minutes was when my boyfriend came home she tried to get up quick but I held her firm with my mouth still in her pussy and she was trying to get away and moaning at the same time. my boyfriend I stopped and look at my boyfriend who was standing there mouth gaped open and I said I think she's ready for you babe. He stared so I got up and my friend covered herself with the blanket as I pulled my boyfriend over. I told her that I got someone to help her but she made to get up but I pushed her down and and climbed on top of her lap and started kissing her while grabbing her tits, I stopped and whispered that I know she wants this. I got off and started to pull down my BF's pants and he was still stunned and I started to stoke his dick and rub her pussy at the same time. I then told her I need help with this and so she started to suck him and this broke him out of his stun and so I had him start to fuck me while I went down on her pussy. I stopped and told him to fuck her so he did.
I had him fuck her the whole time while I watched and I told him to cum in her at the end. we went again in the morning. It was a great time and it help everyone my boyfriend loved it, I loved it and she loved it and it helped her get her confidence back. We did have to get her plan B in the morning.

Iwillneverunderstand · Accepted Answer

I would be a bit taken back, that would be cheating nonetheless but as far as the man over it being a Male, no.  It's all the same love. I respect people's personal likings

ShortCircuit · Accepted Answer

Yes, cheating is cheating.

Although it wouldn't trigger the same visceral sting and subsequent feelings of inadequacy as being cheated on with a man would, nor would it cause me to perceive her as "tainted" like cheating on me with a man would, cheating on me with a woman would still be an intellectual violation of our relationship's contractual agreement, and it would display a lack of respect for me that would be bound to reemerge in ways that hurt me far more by comparison (cheat on me with a woman -> no respect for me -> there's nothing to stop her from cheating on me with a man too).

genericname85 · Accepted Answer

cheating is cheating no matter what gender they did it with. if they were interested in having same sex stuff they could have asked first. who knows. maybe i'm ok with it and then she can do it without cheating cause i consent to her doing it... but if she never asked, that's cheating.

MrOracle · Answer

I've had bisexual girlfriends, and I specifically am okay with her having sex with other girls AS LONG AS she's completely honest and as long as there are no other men involved.

SteveSmith1985 · Answer

YES. Just as 'pissed' as I'd be if I caught her with a guy. In fact "pissed" doesn't even begin to describe what my feelings would be. For sure I'm done with her.

MissKittyz · Answer

Nooopeee, I'd watch, masturbate and ask to join lol two guys having sex is super hot to me. Sometimes I wish my fiancé was bi lol

Herbie_Otch · Answer

I've only been lucky enough to actually come home and find her having sex once, and it was with a guy. But she's sent me pictures while playing with women and that's been super hot too.

DanDavid · Answer

It is cheating, regardless of how you look a it... A relationship isn't just sex, and I would be concerned they share more than just that (not that I wouldn't be mad over the fact they had sex without me knowing already).

Moonchild714 · Answer

Yeah and I would be filing for an Annulment!!!

SarahsSummer · Answer

Cheating is cheating. I’d be gone.

Apple1996 · Answer

Walking in on my husband having gay sex would be pretty interesting so I'd stick around and watch

maddog998 · Answer

It all depends honestly. If I knew them really good, I wouldn't mind and probably join in if they let me but I don't know them very good then I'll ask them what's going on.

T_Clayton · Answer

I would be confused. Turned on, but till hurt that she's sneaking around and sharing a connection with someone else. I would need a moment to figure out what to do.

Aethereal · Answer

That's cheating, and thus a guaranteed end to our relationship.
That it's cheating with someone of a different gender doesn't take away from that fact (that it's cheating) in any way, even if my partner was just discovering she was a lesbian. There is no excuse for cheating.

Truthatanycost · Answer

No, I'd just quietly walk while blocking, deleting and never contacting again.

Account2 · Answer

... you mean cheating and likely being caught in a serious lie?  I'd be mad. I might not leave. She'd need a fucking fantastic explanation for me to stay after that though. Fool me once and all that..

SydneySentinel · Answer

Yes. I'd be really hurt by that.

SjE78 · Answer

not pissed unless they did this and lied  but if it was done as a mutually agreed thing i'd be ok with it... in fact if they wanted me to join i would

Dongtai · Answer

Yeah cheating is cheating. Go discover that side of yourself without me 😂😂

slatyb · Answer

I would be amazed. I wouldn't try to join them uninvited. That would be rude.

wankiam · Answer

yeah i would be pissed... its cheating and whilst i have no issues when honesty is involved i do not expect a partner to ever go behind my back with anyone

foxrider77 · Answer

As long as they open the invitation.

TadCurious · Answer

Well yeah.

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