Would you be pissed if your girlfriend changed with the door open?

[BigManSAB]

Me n my girlfriend stayed with friends over the weekend. We had our own room and she didn’t wanna have sex because she was worried about voyeurism. She didn’t wanna risk anyone hearing us make love.

To me this didn’t make any sense. Because she changes with the door and window open, doesn’t care that everyone could see her naked. She said “it’s ok if people see me nude, I’m in my natural state”.

[Anonymous]

There's a difference between nudity and making love. She's comfortable with the former being seen by others, not the latter. If you don't like her being seen, you have to decide how importantly that matters to you, because she clearly feels differently about it.

[Anonymous]

Yes I would. If we can't have sex because of that she can't risk letting her friends see her nude either. Would she be ok if you jerked off while watching her friends change?

[CourtneyJane2]

I wouldn't, I'd watch as long as she would allow me and I'd offer to give her a hand.

[PeteBy]

My partner is a bit confusing that way too. She's a very private person and won't go to the front door if she hasn't a bra on under her top or even if she is wearing pyjamas. Yet she'll have sex with me with the curtains open in the front room and the window open so anyone walking past can see and she'll walk down our back garden path in just her panties and doesn't mind nipples showing through her top in the rear of the property, despite a bigger likelihood of people seeing her back there.

I wouldn't be pissed at her but often confused lol

[BeachMe]

I can explain... we don't mind, and many of us like or love for others to look at us... it can be a turn on. But if someone is at your door, that can be too close for comfort - meaning they can actually grab you and rape you. You don't want your friends to hear because they will always see you on an everyday basis, and who knows what they will think and the rumors they might spread. Does that make any sense? However, having said that, I have had a neighbor, that was "harmless" and we didn't give a shit what he saw (how much I was dressed) or whatever - because we knew he was harmless and he totally got off on it. Does this make any sense?

[PeteBy]

@BeachMe Oh it makes sense. I'm like you. Doesn't bother me who sees what. Evidently doesn't bother her apart from the front door but take your point. It's also a public space I guess as anyone can walk past. Whereas the back is our private space. We have a neighbour, two actually who are both elderly who regularly get an eyeful of my partner and one of these days I think she's going to give them a coronary the way she walks around our garden lol

[BeachMe]

❤️🤣

[StephanieGirl75]

Could care less. 💞

[Mac-One]

Guys and guys should be able to change in front of each other without it being a problem.

[JessJJ]

How is it any of your business?

[Keepitreal007]

That’s weird.

[roy_ricky09]

Oh i see a controlling girlfriend

[Onashir]

I would lie to her and say no one is home then I would have the most roughest sex session as she likes and make sure everyone could hear us

[2nd_Sexiest_Man]

her body her choice

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t care but doesn’t make sense she won’t have sex then because of noise