Would you be up for a Dominant/submissive friends with benefits relationship?

I recently have a friends with benefits but he is literally a virgin. how can I make my friends with benefits understand that I want him to be Dominant and take control of me whenever we ever see each other. I have fantasies of having a FWBDS
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  • Well, I think telling him what you like and what you want to try is the best thing to do. This is simple and I think it will be well received. I’m only saying this from the standpoint of my beliefs that guys are simple and simple explanations are better than worrying about trying to sound and be perfect.

    By the way, can I PM you a personal question?

    • Yes you may PM !

    • Great, just follow me so I can do so

  • How do you have friends with benefits, with a 'virgin'? friends with benefits is sex, without a relationship or strings! If you haven't even had sex (you said he is a virgin) how do you expect to turn him into a dominant?

    • By helping him out

    • That's cool, but not really 'Friends with Benefits' as there are no 'benefits' yet. Best wishes!

Most Helpful Girl

  • I'm having the exact same situation! Having to encourage him bit by bit. Getting there... he tied me up the other day. That was a lot of fun!

    • Disgusting.

    • Holy crap !!! Lucky you

    • Did he do anything, with you, for you? Did you try to tell him what you would like him to do?

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  • I think the woman who wants that needs to drink bleach for being a gross whore.

  • How about first stop being such a disgusting waste of oxygen and fixing your revolting Morales and disgusting lifestyle?

  • Just talk to him about it. Bring up fantasies and kinks. Aks him his and then share yours. That's how my D/s friends with benefits relationship started out.

  • Yes, definitely. I think you'll have to give him some reading to give him an idea of what you would like. Maybe some erotic fiction that covers your fantasies?

  • Tell him?

  • Beg him on your hands and knees, kiss his boots, and see if he can take a hint.

  • I have no desire to live that life style
    what goes around comes around you burn the candle at both ends living a
    Decadent life it comes back to haunt you

  • I am open to the idea if I had a girlfriend like you. But I am single

  • yeah definitely since i'm a dom ;)

  • Can you follow me?

  • I'd choose to be dominant

    • And asker... Do you mind texting me in private?

    • You may message me !

    • I'm in Xper 1... It doesn't allow me to do... So, you use whatsapp?

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  • I'm a sub so I don't know

  • Yup, cause I'm always the dominant.

  • Sounds pretty fun to be fair.