Guys, would you be up for it or not?

If a woman who lived close to you asked you to be her lover while her husband was away overseas for a longer time, would you do it? She would be looking for sex only for the time being. You would know her husband who he is, but wouldn't be a friend with him.
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  • If I was single, she was sexy, and we got along well, I might consider some side nookie. I wouldn't go to her house. I probably wouldn't invite her to mine. So, we'd have to go other places - pay cash at hotels, find nice outdoor areas, have sex in the car, etc.

    When I was in my teens, I had one particular girlfriend. Both of us still lived with our parents but I had a car. We went steady for several months, but at some point I sort of wanted to break up with her and quit hanging out with her as much. At the same time, I would get horny. So I'd go and knock on her bedroom window. She'd come out and suck my dick in my car or straddle me on the bench seat. I felt kind of disrespectful using her like that, but she was totally up for it.

    I'm using that as an example of how two people can be horny and use each other to gratify their needs, even if they don't intend to get involved in a relationship. After all, there's nothing wrong with two people engaging in good sex purely for the sake of sex.

    As far as the woman being married, I'd have to decide. I would never pursue another man's wife. But if she was the one who approached me with the proposition, I'd have to hear her side of the circumstances. Maybe I would and maybe I wouldn't consider her proposal.

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  • Under absolutely no circumstances would I ever be okay with that.

    This sh*t happened ALL THE TIME with military guys (and women). People who mess around while their husbands and wives (with whom they've sworn commitment to) are away for any length of time deserve to have everything stripped away from them and handed over in full to the spouse they've wronged.

    And frankly if the person (or people...) they were messing around with was aware of the spouse's married status and did it anyway, they deserve to be buried and lost where nobody will ever find them.

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  • Absolutely not. Why the hell would I endorse a woman cheating on her husband, that is disgusting and I have more character and self respect then that.

  • Right. You take her up, then soon find out he is Special Forces. Then he gets wind of a problem and sneaks home. Is your life insurance paid up?

  • Cause I'm single and look for sex all the time, yes

  • 1."If a woman who lived close to you asked you to be her lover while her husband was away overseas for a longer time, would you do it?"

    The answer is NO. I will refuse outright.

    2. "She would be looking for sex only for the time being. You would know her husband who he is, but wouldn't be a friend with him."

    Firstly I am asexual and I see SEX as something that is outright disgusting and so there is no chance I will even listen to what she is saying. It doesn't matter what her request is, my answer will always be NO.

  • No I wouldn´t because of us personal preferences.
    I don´t like the modern hook up culture where everything is just about sex.
    For me sex just for itself is senseless because I need to have a strong bond to a person to enjoy it. I know I´m an outsider with that opinion but I don´t care because I believe that because modern society made sexual pleause its god which is my opinion of the reasons why many people can´t find a healthy long-term relationship.

  • Maybe, I think it would depend on the circumstances with the woman.

  • No that would go against my code. I would need his blessing and be single to even consider it.

  • If I was single and had no responsibilities, I might have but I wouldn’t also try to be a home wrecker either.


    If I had a green light from the husband then yeah I would

  • I've already said NOPE to this kind of "deals"

  • No I would respectfully inform her I practice celibacy and then walk away.

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