Girls, Would you be upset if your man got aroused over other women?

[Anonymous]

A few days ago my girlfriend and I were watching a movie in bed. I wasn't wearing clothes because we sleep nude.

It was a normal movie but there was a scene with a nude woman and for some reason even just a short scene got me worked up and i got a full erection.

My girlfriend didn't really say anything. We just kept on watching the movie and after a few minutes I went back to normal.

But do you think this kind of thing would bother her? Would she be upset over me getting hard for other women or just see it as normal?
What do you think?

[Anonymous]

It doesn't bother me. Me and my boyfriend are secure with each other. We jokingly say, "look but don't touch." We both oogle at the other sex, and admit it to each other! He tells me when he looks at a girl's butt or if he sees one dressed sexy and I tell him when I see an attractive guy. We even talk about porn together 😆

As long as he doesn't cheat, it's fine with me.

I guess it might upset or possibly jealous because she is afraid she is not good enough to keep you interested? Just tell her it has a mind of its own if she asks, lol

[EllieFayre]

For me, it would be normal since your mind and body are not that connected sometimes. Just blame the hormones! So yeah, it's normal if I were the girl but maybe there's a chance but since you said she didn't say anything then I think it's fine to her.

[nofunkgiven]

Nah it's just a movie. I can get aroused from some scenes too even if there s no nudity. It's not like anyone flirted or drooled over another person or even wants to sleep with them. It should be ok

[Engageme]

It depends on her level of understanding. I mean it's normal. We are lucky as women because we don't have an external sign that we find someone or something sexually arousing. We get hot looking at men sometimes too but luckily you can't tell lol.

[StingRayxoxo]

It was in a movie, it’s fine. If it were a woman irl, I’d be more concerned.

[fauchelevent]

I wouldn't really care. It's not a big deal.

[rxm_bxl]

In movies or porn, basically if he's not seeing the female in the flesh, I'd be fine with it. But if he gets aroused by a women in front of him or that he knows other than me, yeah I'd be hella annoyed.

[ivannna]

Ofcourse not...

[jadelouxx]

Wouldn't bother me unless it was over someone he knew in person but as for porn and movies sure let him fantasize

[Anonymous]

I dont think its a big deal. My boyfriend has gotten aroused by women in movies before. I would not feel comfortable if it happened with a woman we know (like if we were sitting with friends and he would get aroused by a girl in our friend group). But, honestly, sometimes guys can't help it. Even girls can't. I've been with my boyfriend on vacation and saw good looking guys and would notice they are good looking, but obviously id go back to being like "wow but my boyfriend is even better". As long as you dont tell you girlfriend "well id like to f*** her", then you're good.