Would you be willing to give up masturbating while in a relationship?

Would you be willing to give up masturbating while in a relationship?

If your woman gave you enough sex would you be willing to give it up?

As a woman i personally just think it's hot when a guy would rather save his sexual energy for me and not waste it on masturbating. It also seems like guys are better during sex if they haven't been masturbating a lot.

Also this is not counting for long distance/if you don't live with your partner since in those situations your partner isn't gonna be there to have sex.

Yes I'd save my sexual energy for my lady instead
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Maybe if there was enough sex
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Nah I'm gonna keep masturbating
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  • If my woman gave you enough sex would you be willing to give it up, of course. That's if. But if she didn't, I think it would be bizarre for her to want me to 'save my sexual energy' as long as we were having as much sex as she wanted.

    I lived for one girlfriend for over a year. She was hypersexual and orgasmic. Even though we both worked full time, we still had sex at least two or three times a day and often for hours at a time without pause. Her looks, movements, sounds, enthusiasm and encouragement inspired me to keep going even after I came. I would just slow down for a moment until the sensitivity in my tip dissipated enough to pick up the pace again. I just recharged while fucking her. And I sometimes came 5 or 6 times over a period of hours.

    At some point, I found her vibrator and she admitted that she sometimes masturbated when I wasn't around. I don't know how she found the time. But the revelation only increased my admiration for her libido. I wouldn't have occurred me to expect her to save up her sexual energy for me. I wasn't jealous of her vibrating dildo.

    By the way, when I was with her, I never masturbated once. I didn't want to because I could fuck her or she could blow me anytime I wanted.

    However, if a guy was addicted to jerking off and would rather do that than have sex with his partner, that WOULD be a problem. I can't imagine preferring to whack off than to have sex with a woman.

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  • Yes, I agree that sexuality is best seated in overall love or at least fondness.

    My sexual appetites are not very complicated. They are primarily relatively ordinary F&S (both ways) including some "extras"; a little anal fiddling (not PIA) and an occasional closer to the edge toy thingy to get me over the top when I need a push. I don't need any drama, such as group sex, role playing, cosplay, BDSM or other nonsense to get me off. I just need my libido and DNA supply regularly depleted.

    In real life, I would and do not expect a partner to be a sexual service provider, but if that were in play, a combination of On-Demand Oral Therapy with those Extras and PIV would make masturbation both unnecessary and, due to my recovery period barely, even possible. And I would not find an arrangement like this boring and cause me to stray. An ample , on-demand sexual relationship would free me from focus on sex and probably enable me to pursue other issues in the area of achievement.

    • +1 on the graphic. Even the Purity Police here let it in.

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  • If the girl and I had sex on a daily basis, I could give it up. We would have to have sex at least twice a day though, lol. I have a high sex drive. Probably because I'm not getting any right now though, so maybe it would be different in a relationship.

  • For sure I would definitely save it up if I'm getting what I need or what I would like to have all the time I would save it up no problem

  • Yes of course. I’d be doing vaginal cream pies all the time. Much better than masturbation.

  • Actually that's my situation just now. My girlfriend is taking all my energy.

    To be fair, it's not exactly the same amount of energy as at 18, but as long as I do not masturbate it matches her own needs quite nicely.

  • I have plenty of sex, but also masturbate. Naw, not giving it up

  • No. And luckily my wife is very understanding. We both masturbate openly even in front of each other. I often masturbate in the shower in the morning, with just a clear glass door separating me from my wife getting ready at the vanity.

    • It bothers me too much to watch. I'd have to help out my guy if I seen him like that

    • She does some times! She masturbates in front of me sometimes as well. There's been quite a few times she'll hand me the Hitachi to use right after she orgasms.

    • by the way this question isn't counting mutual masturbation lol

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  • If it were put to me as a fun challenge, it could add to lots of interesting things happening in the bedroom, or wherever we might happen to be boinking.

    As a stultifying requirement just to be in a relationship, heck no.

  • My wife and I have a good sex life and we both still masturbate. Why not have the best of both worlds?

  • Hell no, why would I do that?

    • Maybe because sex is better then masturbating 🤷‍♀️

    • Of course it is, but occasionally you will need to break one off if your partner isn't available.

  • Absofuckinglutely just as long as blowjobs were a part of that deal & if they were my tongue would enjoy taco time in return.

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