Guys, would you be willing to wait a while to have sex with a virgin in her first relationship?

Suppose you entered into a relationship with a girl who was a virgin and never had a relationship before. Would you be willing to wait a while for her to get comfortable with you and the idea if she was hesitant? Not like, until marriage, but just for a while longer than more experienced people might wait.

I'd personally like to get to know a guy first, at least for a few months, and see how we fit together without sex.

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  • Yes, many guys would be willing to wait and respect their partner's pace, especially if it's their first relationship. Building a strong emotional connection and understanding each other before taking that step is important for many people, regardless of experience. Communication and mutual understanding are key in any relationship.

    • Yeah, that's exactly what I think. I mean, I hear even from most people that they have their best sex when they have the deepest emotion intimacy first.

    • Absolutely, emotional intimacy can greatly enhance the physical aspect of a relationship. When there's a strong emotional connection and trust between partners, it often leads to a deeper level of satisfaction and fulfillment in all aspects of the relationship, including sexual intimacy. Taking the time to build that foundation can indeed result in a more meaningful and fulfilling sexual experience. Are you looking for relationship?

    • I don't live somewhere where I have a lot of options, but if I find the right guy, yeah. I'm just experiencing a lot of anxiety around expectations, especially the older I get. I mean, I'm only nineteen now, but I worry that a guy would be turned off if I was say, 20-23 and wasn't ready to jump straight into sex.

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  • Yes aslong as she needs but aslong as we can still be affectionate with each other like cuddling, kissing, holding hands, that kind of stuff, still would like a physical connection like the above even if there's nothing sexual

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  • You are definitely making the right choice don't rush into it. I good man will wait for you no problem. I personally believe waiting till marriage but even guys that don't wouldn't care.

  • Yes I would, but that's just speaking for me. In my age group though that's unlikely to happen. For that matter at my age I'd avoid any virgin. If you have had sex by your 60s and haven't had sex, you either don't want to, or some other reason.

  • yes back then I would. the pressures are great, but I'm considerate and have empathy and concern for others generally more than myself. other guys are selfish, controlling and demanding. So you need to select a guy with the right disposition/personality.

    such guys exist...

  • Yea I think that a virgin worth the waiting, I might even agreed to wait until marriage. :)

    https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin

  • Not at my age. When I was a teenager probably.

  • Depends on what she brings to the table. If she's high drama, gossipy, moody couch potato I'm not waiting til dinner is over, certainly not a few months. If she's half as good a cook as I am, levelheaded, well put together and drama free? Yeah I could see myself doing that easily.

  • sure, not that i would enter anything with a non virgin but if i was dating a virgin i could wait but let me be honest i'm neither a very patient guy (quite the opposite i am one of the most impatient person you will ever met i am just not dumb) nor i value patience in anyway (for giving you an example of how impatient i am, i once glared directly at the chairman of the school when i was in high school because he made us wait outside as punishment for being late, you might think well this is not a big deal since you probably though i was away glaring at him without him realizing or being too far away to understand ifi was glaring at him or something else but i was actually directly at his face, i could headbutt him if i just made a sudden move)

    but i think virgins (a rarity nowadays) worth waiting but make no mistake, i don't have years or long months.

  • No, I wouldn't. She's to young to date.

  • It would depend on the chemistry and connection her and I share together , and how honest and caring she is to me, her and I would definitely have to be best friends and be on the same page with things. , if I feel she is stringing me along and playing with my heart, then I would probably have a hard time trusting her , you can’t really put a time limit on love , You either go for it or you don’t , if a girl straight out told me I had to keep waiting to be close to her and setting a time
    Limit with me , then she isn’t the girl for me period , I would just consider her a friend but not a lover , would respect her decision but she would have to respect mine as well. I am not a wind up doll that she can string along when it’s convenient for her , She would have to give back the same way I am giving to her. Most virgin girls ‘ say things like this, because she is nervous , but the second she decides she finally wants to have sex and has sex with me , her whole perspective changes and she turns into a sex machine , constantly wanting sex., after she realizes how amazing sex is and realizes why she was nervous to begin with , I had a few virgin girls’ in my life time that were nervous , but the second we ended up having sex , they all wanted it constantly after that , I didn’t complain what so ever 😋

  • I would not hesitate to walk the bases over a long time until we plan out first PIV session.

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