Would you be willing to wait for sex if your partner requested it?

I don’t need sex 24/7, but I have moments where I need to please myself.. ( I’m human and will masturbate) in this day and time sex has become a requirement before anything else such as building a relationship..

If my partner requested it or pressured me into it we wouldn’t be together.. I don’t believe in fornication. I also wouldn’t expect my partner to wait around for me if they needed sex upfront. This will prove how they never loved me nor wanted to build an emotional relationship exclusively if I have standards or values.
Yes, I’m willing to wait until my partner is ready
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No, I need intimacy before I build a relationship
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I know how today’s society is so over sexualized.. the sexualized clothing , pictures, conversations, and websites.. many people have been programmed.. looking at today’s climate and how the majority of people are acting in fornication.. I’ve asked God not to send me a mate due to stds on the rise and the fact I would need a pure mate who has her integrity without these mRNA vaccines in them
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  • I would wait if she was a virgin and i have up to a whole year before. Otherwise that ship has sailed and i expect it anytime i want, period case closed.

    If i was with a girl and she said no, id go fuck someone else. I am a man and i deserve as much sex as i am able to get.

    That being said its my job to dick whip a girl which im very good at, never had girls telling me no at all so its never been a big deal. Girls exist to serve men, and anyone that knows that, knows and enjoys satisfying her man, whether she wants it or not she will be so happy to take care of him. Thats how a normal functional relationship works in womens minds.

    I also do not masterbate at all. Male masterbation is really really really bad for relationships but it also makes me extra aggressive sexually. Men should not be addicted to sex. But while this seems like id bother girls more for sex, it actually makes them more happy to have sex for various reasons i think but in general just more turned on by a man who isn't jerking it in the corner half the time.

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  • Look, I already have plenty of people I am close to and don't have sex with, those are called friends. If I am in an adult relationship then I expect physical intimacy regularly.

    I don't think you women realize that us men don't believe you when you say that you still love us but don't want to have sex with us. If you're really into us, then you're going to treat us like a Brad Pitt fan would treat Brad Pitt. If your lover is not into you like their favorite celebrity then they're not really that into you.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I can't stand to go even a day without sucking and being fucked in my pussy my ass my tits and my mouth by big black cock.

    • You do you

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  • Yes (not sure about forever), and also have before. I had this one time where I kissed a girl perhaps too soon for her comfort. She kissed me back and we made out for ages but then she told me that she felt like we were moving too fast too soon.

    So I went full-blown gentleman after on our dates. I didn't even try to kiss her or anything. Then she ended up asking if she could come over to my place after a month and then I still ended up making a separate guest room for her. She practically had to make it very explicit that she wanted to have sex with me that night since I was still trying to be a gentleman.

    The last thing I ever wanted to do was cross any lines. That said, if a woman feels like the moves I'm making are too soon, I won't make any in the future until she does or makes it very clear that she's ready for me to do so.

    • Usually, I prefer to just let romantic timing guide these things. When the mood feels right, I go for the kiss, and if the kiss is reciprocated, go for touch, and so forth, but always careful to read body language. Yet if the woman is uncomfortable at any point (either looking so or telling me so), then I stop and figure I timed it wrong. Once I mess up my timing though, I'm still happy to keep dating. It's just that now the ball is in her court. I'm going to go completely hands-off at that point until she lets me know very clearly when she's ready.

    • "Once I mess up my timing though, I'm still happy to keep dating. It's just that now the ball is in her court. I'm going to go completely hands-off at that point until she lets me know very clearly when she's ready." I wish more women understood that. It's an uncomfortable position for a man to be in.

    • @Juxtapose It's quite a bit awkward especially if we're conscientious and don't want to risk crossing any boundaries. I didn't mind so much though just hanging out and having fun and doing things at the pace she's comfortable with... but she really has to let me know when at that point since I'm not going to venture a second guess! :-D

  • Every relationship moves at its own pace, and the most optimal time you should have sex is whenever you're both comfortable with it.

  • I have waited four or five months for a partner, and probably would have waited longer if they had wanted even more time.

  • I think it would depend on how long I would have to wait. Sex (with condoms) is a great part of a relationship.

  • What choice do 8 have if they want to wait? Rape or leave them? I'll wait

  • I would wait, in fact I would expect to have to wait.

  • Yes mostly wait for her but sometimes I do too.

  • Yes I am always willing to wait till she is completely comfortable and have a fulfilling realationship. If she is not ready I can wait and there is more to bring intimacy into a relationship than sex like communication and just connecting with that person. Also if you do wait sex does seem a lot better because you can read that person and know what they like.

  • You gotta try it before you buy it.

  • If you force me to wait more than 2 years you won't be my girlfriend

    • Glad I don’t date men

    • How do you work homosexuality with religion. I don't recall any monotheistic religion that accepts homosexuality.

    • I’m not religious so why should I care

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  • My girl once made me wait two weeks I'm guessing some sort of test lol and it was the most frustrating thing because I am normally screaming horny all the time it seemed even more so during those two weeks it seemed like I had a dripping wet erection 24/7 Lmao

  • i like these thoughts🤘

  • Are we talking like til marriage or how long of a wait?

  • Absolutely with the right partner

  • Definitely yes

  • Nothing wrong in waiting. There are other ways to show love and affection if there's no sex. Couples have great sex and still break up.🙂