Guys, would you believe a woman is a virgin if her hymen’s torn?

Mine unfortunately is torn even though I’ve never had sex. I’m curious if a guy notices and then assumes the woman is lying.
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  • Virginity is just a concept there is no measure as to if a woman is still a virgin not all women have a hymen and for those who do there are many ways it can be torn without the need for intercourse like yourself.

    In the traditional sense your a virgin till you have been penetrated by a penis an no number of physical changes down there can change that.
    Truth is you could get a man to donate sperm and you could inseminate yourself with a syringe and have a baby yet still be a virgin!

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  • I would hope that by now, most guys know that you can't tell if a woman is a virgin or not, by the lack of a hymen. A hymen can be "broken" in various ways, and many women have a hymen that is so slight, that it's not even realized that it's there, when the guy enters for the first time. With some women, it's much more noticeable is she has a hymen intact.

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  • The entire hymen issue is over rated. The hymen is so easily torn that it is meaningless. I had a girl spend half an hour describing the medical device which is used for examining the vagina which tore her hymen. I didn't care. In fact, she was the girl I proposed to, twice!

  • Virginity only matters to you.

    it’s a social construct.

    girls are born without hymens, girls loose them doing sports, loose them from accidents, lose them from sex toys etc.

    I really would not worry.

    A girl could had sex with a 100 guys and say she’s a virgin, the guy would never. know.

  • Usually hard to tell if it is torn. So many different looks between the lips. Plus, it is common knowledge that hymens can easily be torn during athletic movements. If I trust her for other things I would trust that she is telling me the truth.

  • Those guys don't even know what that is they don't even know where it is LOL yes I would believe you I mean it could happen to any masturbation It Could Happen a lot of different ways

  • I actually don't care if she is or not. Also I do understand that the condition of a hymen does not always indicate if a woman is not a virgin.

  • Who cares? Virginity is so 19th century.

  • Most guys don't even know how to recognize a hymen. And I would hope the rest are smart enough to know lots of things other than sex can cause the hymen to tear

  • No. Vaginal penetration by a penis.

  • "If a guy notices"? Honey, I've never heard of ANY guy checking for a woman's hymen. Me thinks you're clueless.

  • There are so many ways for a hymen to be ruptured that do not involve sex, this is not longer a valid guideline, (not that it ever was).

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