Would you break up with someone over a lack of oral sex?

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  • I just had this girl "confess" she never put ahem.. meat in her mouth. I do tend to believe she either did not feel comfortable with the guy and this was part of the repulsion she had towards him OR she is really not that sexual at all. But I doubt on the second part. I do tend to believe that when you feel comfortable with the other person, you are willing to try things out at some point. And ok, maybe it's not every single time that you go down on your guy/girl, but it you aren't curios to try it, then change the person, you are clearly not ok with him/her and his/her genitals.

    anyhow looking from the outside at the relationship between the two above, I always thought it was dysfunctional and that she stays with him because of no better option for her. And most likely she was thinking the same, but at the same time resent the feeling of being held up in this, probably as a cage of some sort. and you could see that in her every day behaviour.

    Another thing was that the guy was doing oral to her and she told him that she will not reciprocate.
    It is exactly the behaviour I think I would have if I was forced to live with a girl I don't like for whatever reason. I would take sex as a chore just like the girl in my story and would probably avoid intimate touch for as much as possible.

    So whenever I hear someone is not comfortable (sexually) with someone, in my opinion they should simply mind their business and find someone else

    • and because you do not know what her preferences are until you get to that point, if I noticed she did not do it, I would force her.. . joking. It would destroy me a bit and start thinking if my hygiene is ok, so my cleanliness OCD would get even more intense and would end up wearing a soap bar in my pocket. so on the long term, it wouldn't work.

  • No way! There are so many other ways to be physically/sexually intimate that oral-sex, while it's wonderful to give and receive, shouldn't be the foundation of a relationship. Anyone who would end a relationship based on a lack of oralsex, wasn't in a REAL relationship to begin with; being far too shallow and immature to sustain a real relationship.

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  • Probably... Like 75% of the time I get off is because of oral, it wouldn't be as fun without it, especially if the other person still wanted oral.

  • No b/c I get big-Os from giving them. never getting them and only found one guy that can give me big-Os in my whole dating life

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  • No, I personally wouldn't.

  • if she likes anal, oral isn't really a factor. As long as, to her, oral doesn't include me licking her butt.

  • Not in a short term relationship b/c vag IS better than BJ
    but certainly in a long term deal, for the little head loves being worshiped & massaged in all sorts of ways.

  • Nah.

  • If a man don't eat pussy he's not straight that's how it works a man takes pride in his pussy eating.

  • there's two kinds of sex. Interactive (intercourse) and one-way therapeutic (blow jobs and hand jobs). There's a need, time and place for both. If blow jobs are off the menu, there's gotta be something as good in its place.

  • I mean, I probably wouldn't let a relationship like that go very far. If she's bad at it that's one thing, if she's a quitter, that's worse than a spitter. I just love to give oral so much & I don't want to think 69'ing can't be in my future.

  • I don't need to get my dick sucked to love my girlfriend.

  • No, I wouldn't.

  • You're placing a simple sex act above all else in a relationship? Really?
    Only a porn addict would do this - it's just not normal adult function.

    Oral sex is kind of like a snack at the sex buffet. It ain't the main course. :)

  • luckily i´m not that big into oral sex anyway xD so no.

  • Never liked BJ's , so no !!

  • No would you?

  • Nah. To me oral is just foreplay and there are a lot of other ways to get going.

  • Nah. I prefer to give oral sex than to receive it xD

  • YES, no oral is a deal breaker.

  • Never

  • No I wouldn't

  • No xx

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  • Yes.

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