Would you consider yourself to be a submissive woman? If so, what do you enjoy about it?

[Anonymous]

[PrettyPriya]

I am going to assume you mean in a sexual way since this is posted in the Sexuality topic. I do not think I am submissive sexually or any other way. Despite my rather small size, I actually have been told by many that I have a huge presence in person.

As far as intimacy goes, I do not think that I am submissive or dominant. I think my partner and I both just go with the flow. Neither of us really tells the other what to do. I have never been in the the BDSM stuff or any other fetishes or kinks though.

We are pretty boring vanilla when it comes to intimacy. That is okay and works for us though. To each is own and those that are in that sort of sexual relationship, so be it. Doesn't effect me at all.

Outside of intimacy, I am also definitely not submissive nor dominate. If anything, we play to our strengths when it comes to everyday life type of things, whether it be chores or household type things.

[Asker]

Sounds like a healthy and strong relationship, you seem to be getting all you want from it and thats good

[PrettyPriya]

Yep, we are a good fit. When it comes to intimacy, it is not one or the other with us as far as submissive though. I would have to say that based on what I see on this site, most submissive people (sexually) tend to be female. Just my observation.

[Asker]

Yes I've noticed that too, which is perfectly fine, but you both seem to enjoy your balance and in the end thats what counts :)

[PrettyPriya]

Absolutely correct. That is what matters and works for us. Others like that sub/dom relationship, which is perfectly fine if that works for them. I will be completely honest with you that I probably couldn't do it because I would start laughing. I am a complete goofball and any sort of role-play or sub type stuff will crack me up, which I am sure would ruin the moment. 😐

[Asker]

Aw im sure it would be funny and a fun time either way, as im sure u have a partner who knows that side of youn but good for you on findidng someone who u connect with and fulfills what u look for out of the sexual side of the relationship

[ShellyB]

Yes I am, and not just sexually, our whole relationship is v. what I would call traditional. Let me say up front that it's very loving and I consider it fair bc what I want, like, don't want don't like is all given a lot of importance, he is in charge but what he is doing is trying to please me for the most part. I want to say that bc I think people may picture different things like him yelling at me or slapping me or whatever, that does not happen, if it did there would be a problem.

Anyway what I like about it is that I feel safe and loved, and if I have an opinion that is fine but otherwise I do not need to make a lot of decisions.

As far as sexually, I don't do anything except whatever he tells me to do, it's the best way I have of enjoying sex, I have tried other things and they don't work for me.

JMO!

[Asker]

Perfectly reasonable, i find that to be a very atteactive relationship, it sounds very healthy and full of love

[Apple1996]

Not really I'm more of a switch

[Agape93]

Only with certain people for certain things. But generally, no

[Asker]

Makes sense, not always but depending the situation, i understand

[PrettyPriya]

@agape93 *cracks my whip!!

[Agape93]

Now we are talking 😈

[PrettyPriya]

No talking! 😑

[Agape93]

😏 🤫

[Leila04]

Yes, i am. I just like letting my mans do what he wants to me

[Asker]

Can be very sexy and a sign of great trust, i like that

[Samantha_17]

Definitely submissive. I like giving my wholeself to my man :)

[Asker]

Do you like being ordered around?

[Samantha_17]

Yep.

[Asker]

Any specific kinds of orders?

[LavLavLuv]

Not always