Would you continue to have sex with a man who has a big penis?

  • I started dating a man who is very nice, intelligent and educated we recently had sex and he was so big. I haven't had sex in 6 years. I thought it was going to be very painful like it was the first time he penetrated me... but this time around it felt so good... but he said I was very tight each time we had sex... and he said he loved it... my question is will I ever open up to receive him completely or will I ALWAYS be tight like that? I want him to enjoy it just as much as I do!!
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Superb Opinion

  • It truly depends on a couple things. Your vagina will not stretch, it’s not how it works. If you have muscular tension it’s possible it will get better as you get used to it. It’s more about the psychological aspect. If you’re tense you might be tightening without realizing. Being relaxed is what works.

    For him, not much will change. If he enjoys you now, he will always enjoy you. Tightness doesn’t matter to men. Especially with a big penis. Having you comfortable and not tensing up is the best thing for both to have great sex.

    • You know what your right! I know I was tensing up the very first time we had sex... he's so big he took my breath away. He did try to help me relax as much as possible... thank you

    • It’s great that he’s helping you feel comfortable and relax! Not everyone knows how to do that, or even thinks about that. Hope you’re going to have a great time together!

    • Thank you! The sex is so much better because he's taking his time and I'm learning to relax more and the foreplay is awesome

Most Helpful Guy

  • If you have sex frequently your vagina will probably stretch some.
    I have a very long and very thick penis. My SO got some thick dildos and stretched her vagina. Now her vagina has adapted to both. However, if I have to take a several day business trip, she has to use a thick dildo keep from shrinking.
    You may want to get some dildos to stretch your vagina width.

    • Okay I will consider that!

Most Helpful Girls

  • The key is lots of foreplay and lube, and finding the right positions. The vagina will relax, stretch and elongate the more aroused you are. You can try starting on top and go slow.

    Men who have bigger penises usually know that they can’t always go balls deep. It sounds like he’s one of them. It’s more important that you’re both loving the sex and having fun.

    • Yes I concur! He says he loves having sex with me and that he can't get enough but I did by some water base lube

  • So no you dont get looser but you can use positions that make you wider or you can use more foreplay to relax more so its not that tight for him anymore

    • Thank you!

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  • Once you're more experienced your "tightness" will be more a matter of your muscles them anything.
    Do kegels and learn pompoir and kabbazah and you won't have to worry about not being "tight".

    • I have been doing kengals for years... but I will consider the other options

    • 'then

    • But yes, just learn to focus on those inner muscles while having sex.

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  • I’ve never had an issue. (Big penis here and girls have never had a problem)

  • He "said he loved it". You have nothing to worry about. ... you both are enjoying sex together. A "tight feeling" feels very good to a guy, so long as it's not painful to the woman.

    • Thank you! The first time was painful for me. I guess because I hadn't been sexually active but the second time was so much better. I loved it

  • Your vagina will "learn" to relax.

    • Thank you! I was thinking that too

  • Use lubrication and see how that works

    • Okay I will!!

    • @toottoot 👍

  • I doubt you will change, but check with your doctor to be sure. Try using lube.

    • Okay I will thank you for your response!!

    • If you try lube, a basic water-based one like KY may be a good one to start with. Please feel free to PM me is you wish.

  • I would live him even more for his big cock

    • 👍🏾👍🏾I concur

    • Hehe 😋😋

  • I don't know

  • level 1 catfish

  • no because i a man too.

  • It sounds like he enjoys your tightness. If it isn't painful for either of you I don't know why you're questioning anything.

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  • Girls have sometimes not wanted full sex because they were worried about taking my dick inside their pussy. I love feeling my dick fill up a wet hole

  • It takes a little while, but you'll eventually accomodate him.

    • Thank you

  • I wouldn’t but why stop?

    • Right