Guys, Would you cum inside a girl (no condom but she's on the pill) if you didn't really like her?

[Anonymous]

Sorry this is kinda TMI and yes I'm aware of the chances of pregnancy even on birth control! but would you only do this if you cared and trusted the girl you were with?

[dangerDoge]

Personally, I don't think it means anything particularly. I've seen questions on here where the guy just believes the girl he is with is on birth control and is willing to take (or possible ignore) the risk. Sometimes the guy just likes going inside.
Some guys just would only do that if they cared (ie willing to assume to risk).

So in the end, I don't think that you should assume that the guy has feelings for you, or cared for you based on this.

@xNicholeMariex3 (since you wanted to be mentioned on it to say your thoughts)

[XNicholeMariex3]

If a guy does this to you, he does NOT care or respect you and your body. You run the risk of getting an STD and getting pregnant. A guy should ALWAYS get permission for this, and if he doesn't then he certainly couldn't give two shits.

[Asker]

@XNicholeMariex3 oh I agree! He has to ask to make sure it's okay. But I was more asking in a way that would a guy only do this to a girl he had feelings for/ cared about :)

[Anonymous]

Supposing we're just friends with benefits or whatever not romantically involved, if she's on the pill and we're having unprotected sex anyway then yes I probably would cum inside her unless she asked me not to.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for MHG.

[MrOracle]

For most men, liking the girl has exactly ZERO bearing on whether he cums inside of her or not. Sure, there might be a few exceptions, but most guys just don't tie two things like that together.

[ThePragmaticRomantic]

Look if I'm having sex with her and trust her enough to not wear a condom, Im finishing inside.
Now personally I wouldn't have sex with a girl I didn't like, and wouldn't go bareback without good reason to believe that she's clean other precautions have been taken etc etc. But I can't see a guy who would have sex without such provisos caring either way.

[Asker]

So there does have to be that element trust for you to finish inside? Any feelings involved or?

[ThePragmaticRomantic]

Honey there has to be an element of trust or I'm not sticking my dick inside her. My point is, that if a guy is having bareback sex, he's more likely than not, going to cum in her (at least when he believes there's some form of contraceptive in place). How much trust etc it takes to get to that stage varies frm guy to guy. Some would fuck any warm hole which presented itself without a second thought.

[Asker]

Haha thank you for the honesty! Do you reckon if you did it consistently it can build feelings from that person giving you that sensation?

[ThePragmaticRomantic]

That depends on his mindset... but generally no. Manipulating a bloke usually requires more dirrect tactics. I wouldn't hold out hope. If he didn't have any connection before sex, he's unlikely to develope them afterwards.

[Asker]

Wow thank you, I've been dating him for a year. Yes we sleep together but we do go on dates and hang out with his mates and brother and sister. Just trying to get a guys views on how he sees me you know?

[ThePragmaticRomantic]

... If you have been dating for a year then he's probably as emotionally connected as he's going to be.

[Asker]

I'm reading that in a negative tone? Sorry I'm probably super annoying haha I don't get why he'd keep me around for a year, introduce me to his mates and everything if there wasn't feelings for me

[ThePragmaticRomantic]

I've never said that he doesn't have feelings for you. Just that where he cums means very little.

[farscryer0]

If we were married and agreeing on the possibility of having a kid, then yes.

Otherwise, NONONONONO.

[Asker]

Hahah that's what I thought would be the most common answer! Like baby making only situation haha

[OlderAndWiser]

When a guy gets to that point of sexual arousal, it would be unusual for him to say, "Wait a minute. I need to pull out now!"

[madhatters4]

I probably wouldn't have sex with her if I didn't... if I did decide to have sex with someone I didn't like for some reason (not likely) I would definitely use a condom

[Jay-Are]

I wouldn't even have sex with her if I didn't like her.

[Asker]

Sadly not everyone is the same :/

[slywinkle]

I fail to see a connection here.

[ChronicBoys26]

No it doesn't mean that I don't love her. But I always wear condom during the sex for both side's protection. This is best way for me.

[Asker]

I usually do too, but I've been seeing this guy for a while now and he's finished inside me. I'm just wondering if there's feelings involved in doing that?

[ChronicBoys26]

That's very unique and intense sensation and when I cum inside her vagina, she likes this so much... Sex is main key of true loves provided to have correctly...

[R3d_Anonymous]

I voted "nah" as in I wouldn't. Right now, I only want to have sex with someone I care about and have intense feelings of infatuation for (that returns the affection). Haven't met her yet.

[R3d_Anonymous]

I'd still probably use a condom though, until STD'S were cleared up as well.

[Nick_D]

It depends how I feel and where I want to cum: face, mouth , tits or pussy and then I convey my thoughts to her in a dirtiest way possible :D

[Polocrew]

Hell yea. Condoms are for bananas lol my pull out game strong but Id hella do that

[Asker]

So doesn't matter if you don't like the girl? Do it anyway?

[Polocrew]

Wait what, what you mean

[Asker]

Sorry - like would you just cum inside any girl you slept with or do you have to have feelings for her to do that? I donno I always see cumming inside someone as more serious.

[Polocrew]

Like if I find them hot, yea I would if she's on pill lol

[Polocrew]

Oh like would trust factor come in? I mean yea, I don't want a baby or anything so lol

[Asker]

Yeah trust exactly. I would have thought a guy has to have feelings for a girl and really trust her to finish inside

[Asker]

Hearing your r opinion now though I think I'm wrong? Haha

[Polocrew]

Yea I mean if I know her enough, I'd go in lol But not just to any random chick (I'd still fuk them if they hot doe but I'd pull out in end)

[BackInGame]

pump'n'dumped by hot guy.

[abc--123]

If I'm fucking her I'm going to cum

[jmmmfi2]

I've done it before and had a kid with the stupid whore

[Asker]

Oh wow! Guess she should have taken her BC correctly then.. If she even took it..

[jmmmfi2]

It's ruined my life

[Anonymous]

I could cum in a girl that I pity fucked even if she was not on the pill.

[Anonymous]

You don't need to like a girl to want to cum in her assuming she's on the pill.

[Anonymous]

I didn't vote because If I don't like her I ain't sleeping with her, no how, no way. And I probably wouldn't get hard if I did try.

[Anonymous]

If I don't like her, I wouldn't have sex with her in the first place.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't even be sleeping with her if I wasn't in love with her

[Anonymous]

I would do it because pussies were made to be sperm receptacles, right? But I also wouldn't take chances, that is why I would only fuck you shallow, shoot my sperm just inside your vagina, jump of and plant my mouth on your pussy hole and suck my cum out quickly,, The I would kiss you and feed it to you.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't have sex with anyone I was not willing to be married to. That doesn't mean I am in love. It means my sense after a few dates us that we could work it out. The pill is reliable if she takes it reliably. I'd ask if she does.

[Anonymous]

Yeah I would only cum inside of her if I knew her enough & trusted her.

[Asker]

So I've concluded from this so far- you could just have no feelings for her but you do need to trust her to do this. Accurate haha?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes. Even though I'm a freak or can be a freak. I have such a high sex drive. I could have sex just to have sex & its separate from having sex with someone I love.

[Opinion Owner]

All the women I've had sex with, which isn't a lot, I came inside everyone of them. But I trusted them & knew them enough. Haha.

[Asker]

I like that you've only slept with people give trust :) were they girlfriends or just friends with benefits or one night stands? Sorry for prying

[Opinion Owner]

Ha, u don't have to be sorry. It's cool. Only 2 of them were a one night/time thing but I knew them well enough. They weren't completely strangers. The other ones were friends with benefits.

[Opinion Owner]

Actually now that u have me thinking about it, the one girl was on the pill but I still wore a condom & I didn't cum inside of her. The other women I had a condom with me, but she told me no.

[Asker]

Was she just being really cautious do you reckon or was that one of the one nighters? I'd be so worried if a ONS said you could finish inside hahah think she's looking for a baby daddy :P

[Opinion Owner]

Haha no. She was ten years older than me. Lol. It was an all nighter. I blew her mind. Haha. I'm not saying this to be all that because I'm not, but I went more than one time. Lol.

[Asker]

Haha well if you blew her mind you must be a little alright ;) did you care about all the girls you slept with?

[Opinion Owner]

Haha. I'd say for the most part. I slept with one girl because I was her crush & she knew she wasn't my type, but I did it for her & she was very well pleased too.

[Opinion Owner]

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