Would you date a Bi Sexual Man?

[Anonymous]

[Marushka]

I'd prefer it as I'm bi myself. There's a lot of tiring stereotypes way too many straight and gay people hold when it comes to bisexuals. While that's not true for everyone luckily, just thinking about potential discussions and irrational fears makes me sick and with both being bisexual those discussions simply won't come up.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't. Not because that I think that being bisexual is wrong but because I would be afraid of being cheated on.

[Asker]

Do straight men not cheat?

[Opinion Owner]

They do.

[Asker]

I don't understand the reasoning. Do you not date straight men either?

[Opinion Owner]

Bisexual men are interested in both men and women, so they have more options when it comes to dating and/or having sex. Then cheating would be easier too. I don't date any men and no I'm not a lesbian.

[Asker]

One of the more bigoted takes I've heard

[Opinion Owner]

You must be new on GAG.

[Opinion Owner]

And I'm not a bigot. I'm just being honest.

[Asker]

You're not being honest, you're framing a stereotype as fact. A perosns sexuality doesn't determine the likeliness of cheating. If you say you've ingrained stereotypes and false connotations, I understand. But you're stating your fucked worldview as a truth which it's not

[Opinion Owner]

I've never said that it was a universal truth. It's just my opinion.

[Asker]

"Bisexual men are interested in both men and women, so they have more options when it comes to dating and/or having sex. Then cheating would be easier too. I don't date any men and no I'm not a lesbian." Which part is the opinion? This is phrased as a statement

[Opinion Owner]

If a woman wants to date a bisexual man, I'm not opposed to that. It's just something that I wouldn't do.

[Asker]

So say that instead of rationalizing it with pseudo sicence

[Opinion Owner]

All I said was my opinion and I'm sorry if you are offended. That was never my intention.

[Asker]

I'm not offended by your choice, I'm offended by your insinuation that bi sexual men are more likely to cheat. The number of options they're interested in has no correlation to the number of options available them nor the likelihood of cheating. If you said. "I just never would date a man" okay,. It your singled out bi sexual men as more likely to cheat and gave this reasoning to justify it then claim it's not fact it's an opinion.

[Asker]

It sounds grifty

[Opinion Owner]

I guess we can agree to disagree.

[Opinion Owner]

What do you mean?

[Asker]

It sounds like you're getting molting something, and if you get called out for being wrong you walk it back as an opinion. Racists do this all the time

[Opinion Owner]

If we're talking about sexuality, why are you bringing racism up?

[Asker]

You're choosing to be ignorant at this point. Bye

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not being ignorant, I just asked you a question. But ok...

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know if you're going to see this and if you ignore me it's totally understandable. But I want to apologize for my statements. What I said was wrong and stupid and I wasn't in my right mind when I wrote those words.

[JosyJosy]

Yes.