Would you date a cam girl?

look at Chaturbate or Cam4 or StripChat for examples

there are extreme girls and nasty girls on there but also a lot of "nice" girls earning a living

could you have a girlfriend who spent 2 or 4 hours a day doing that?

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  • I was on cam4 since I was 19. I closed my account a year ago.

    When I first joined, it was mostly a bunch of people getting naked for fun. I had friends that I would cam and text with. Of course there was tipping but not like now.

    Today, It's big business. None of the girls are there for fun. The top models make thousands of dollars every session and have helpers pretending to be them with the guys. They fake friendships to tease out more tips.

    If you only worked 4 hours a day and didn't have helpers, you might make a few hundred dollars a session. To do that well, you'd have to differentiate yourself by doing something none of the other models do. Something kinky always attracts attention. Of course if you're unusually beautiful or have a super hot body, that helps.

    Two things to remember: Sites like webcam-archiver record many of the sessions. If you show your face, it will be on the web for your family to find years from now. Unless you have quality video equipment, a staff and work 10+ hours a day, you're not going to make much money. Studios take a big cut but that's another option.

    To answer your question. I would date a cam model who did it for fun and didn't show her face. Oh, and no nice girls are making a living. Spending money, maybe.

    • I never knew a lot of this. That's wild about helpers. I knew some of them had to be big business or even the mob because the sets and lighting and even clothes were so uniform and pre-planned, vs. a normal girl's bedroom, but I always wondered how the camera made little movements when the girl hadn't used a remote or anything. One I watch with 2 girls the camera zooms out and readjusts every time they change positions. I never knew there was someone else there. Some of the girls are super-hot like Ai_lyn (who seems to be doing it from her own room) but some are definitely skanks. Sounds like it was way more fun the old way.

    • It was defiantly a lot more fun in the old days. The evolution to making more money was inevitable, though. I forgot to mention that a lot of the models broadcast on all of the cam sites at the same time to maximize income. There's a model can manage all of the messages alone.

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  • I would depend on what kinds of things she did on camera. But if she was one of the "nice girls earning a living" that you described (putting her way through college, for example), I wouldn't judge her harshly. It would depend on what she was like in real life and how much we had in common.

    I might admire her libido, beauty, playfulness, self-confidence, and the fact that she was comfortable enough with her body to make money doing solo stuff on cam. I might admire her entrepreneurial spirit.

    I wouldn't care of other guys looked at her as long as she was infatuated with me and monogamous.

    Like athletes, cam girls age out eventually. I don't have any problem with girls taking advantage of their youthful perfection. Women should celebrate their sexuality. I think sexuality is healthy. What's unhealthy are patriarchal attitudes and shaming sexually active women.

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  • Depends on what they’re doing. Now if I’m dating her and she is bringing in other dudes to bang her on camera, then definitely a hard pass. If it’s just showing her playing, and she’s talking to multiple guys offline then again hard pass

  • She would have to give that up unless we intend to live without social media or friends.

    All it takes is 1 asshat to make the RL connection to your real names etc. and you are screwed

  • I have no problem with that or other sexual work.

  • I could , but it would depend on how she treated me and if she was smart about it and not being a hoe and I knew she was only doing it for the money , my mission would eventually be to stop her from doing it if we ended up getting serious ,

  • date's a strong word for a cam girl. i'd see a cam girl